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Topic: stellium in 7th house
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msrandomorangee
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From: uranus
Registered: May 2012
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posted January 22, 2013 06:11 AM
  
i have sun in 22 degrees of capricorn , neptune 18.47 degrees and uranus in 18.20 degrees of capricorn in 7th house. on a lesser note my mercury is also 15.15 degrees of capricorn and also resides in my 7th house. apparently i have a stellium in 7th house... PLEASE HELP!what does it mean? IP: Logged |
moonlightx
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posted January 22, 2013 05:56 PM
I also have a 7th house Stellium in Capricorn. My sun, mercury, saturn, and neptune reside there.Relationships are important to me but I'm a bit of a loner. When I do find someone I click with, I put a lot of time and effort into maintaining the relationship. At the same time, I don't like for others to be or feel left out. I also cannot stand it when people don't put as much effort into the relationship as I am. I crave deep (Pluto in 5th), meaningful partnerships of any kind. I'm mostly a 1-to-1 kind of person. IP: Logged |
AshSkye
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posted January 22, 2013 06:15 PM
I have Moon, Venus, South Node and Sun (On a cusp with the 8th) there, to be honest without a relationship I feel lost and incomplete. Still a good thing when something aspects any of these planets, means good things for me and my relationships in harmony, especially with Venus (ruler of Seventh) in there and Moon which is exalted IP: Logged |
msrandomorangee
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From: uranus
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posted January 22, 2013 10:47 PM
the thing is i love being around people but at times i just wanna be by myself. honestly, i don't feel all that comfortable in a relationship especially one that is very intense.IP: Logged |
moonlightx
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posted January 22, 2013 11:18 PM
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Originally posted by msrandomorangee:
the thing is i love being around people but at times i just wanna be by myself. honestly, i don't feel all that comfortable in a relationship especially one that is very intense.
Oh I totally understand wanting to be by yourself. I don't need to be in a relationship or around people all the time. What I do need is my alone time. Perhaps because your Uranus is in your 7th house you crave your independence more? IP: Logged |
msrandomorangee
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From: uranus
Registered: May 2012
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posted January 23, 2013 01:15 AM
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Originally posted by moonlightx:
Oh I totally understand wanting to be by yourself. I don't need to be in a relationship or around people all the time. What I do need is my alone time.Perhaps because your Uranus is in your 7th house you crave your independence more?
i my sun conjuncts uranus as well. i do crave independence. you see, i wish i could be great friends with the guy i am with, because i don't know any other way to show i like someone. i like things when they are not too heavy. i suppose i feel uncomfortable talking about feelings and emotions. I think for me to be in a relationship i have to really like the guy. i hope i don't sound too weird. i basically have uranus as a dominant planet in my chart.
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moonlightx
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posted January 23, 2013 11:53 PM
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Originally posted by msrandomorangee:
i my sun conjuncts uranus as well. i do crave independence. you see, i wish i could be great friends with the guy i am with, because i don't know any other way to show i like someone. i like things when they are not too heavy. i suppose i feel uncomfortable talking about feelings and emotions. I think for me to be in a relationship i have to really like the guy. i hope i don't sound too weird. i basically have uranus as a dominant planet in my chart.
Ah, well that explains it.  What's your Venus sign? Is it aspected to Uranus in any way?
I have Venus in Aquarius, so I understand what you mean. I like for a relationship to be based upon a solid friendship. I also need my space. I can't stand anyone being super clingy with me. And...intelligence is attractive. I think as long as you're with someone similar or who understands your love style, it should be fine. I don't think you're weird at all. IP: Logged |
msrandomorangee
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From: uranus
Registered: May 2012
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posted January 25, 2013 12:09 AM
my venus does dont make a major aspect to uranus , but sextiles uranus. my moon trines uranus, that could be it i suppose. i know i what you mean, i don't like clingy people at all. but when i like a guy i can put in effort  IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 25, 2013 12:50 AM
A stellium occurs when 4 or more planets fall in a House. This configuration creates too much energy coming into the activities and affairs of that House. It generates obsessive energy. The individual becomes obsessively focused with the activities of that House. The affairs of that House take up all of the energies of the individual. It is essential that the individual GET OUT OF THAT HOUSE by going to the opposite House. A stellium likes an opposition to it. The opposition makes the individual clearly aware that there is a choice whereas a stellium without an opposition can get trapped more easily in the congested House. Besides the obsessive quality, the House activities will be upset for long periods when any planets transit a hard aspect to the planets in T-square. Everything goes awry! 7th HOUSE: Individuals with a 7th House stellium as the least likely to marry or stay married. So many energies come out in a relationship that they feel swallowed up by other people in close relationships. They are often loners or they suddenly end relationships to break the relationship obsession. Libran traits manifest in relationships, specifically indecision when dealing with others. It is excellent for work in counseling or consultant occupations. These de-personalize the one-on-one relationships. The many planets in the 7th can describe many types of clients with whom the individual would deal. This is excellent for a lawyer, arbitrator, psychologist and business consultant. I have observed this stellium firsthand. The individual complains that the relationships takes up so much of their energy that they lose their own identity. It is easier to be a loner. However, upon closer inspection, I observed that, when involved in a relationship, the individual obsesses upon that relationship to the point wherein he or she loses perspective, becoming oblivious to anyone or anything else. A friend with such a stellium visited the United States. He stayed in Baltimore for 2 weeks and then he stayed with me. When he was with me, he forgot all about his friends in Baltimore. And, when he left to stay with one of my students, he became oblivious to me and certain obligations that he had to me. He focused in on the person he was with and lost sight of everything else. If I had not seen this myself, I never would have understood this phenomena. A very independent friend with such a stellium would always lose herself in a relationship, devoting all of her energies to what the partner needed without regard for her own needs To end this obsession, she would just run away from the relationship. THE STELLIUM
by Lynn Koiner I have a Nine-house stellium and 7th house with Saturn, Venus and Pluto in Scorpio therein.
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Belba
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posted October 03, 2014 09:09 AM
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hannaramaa
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posted October 03, 2014 12:29 PM
I heard it's argued that a stellium can be three OR four planets. Up until reading that article I always thought I had two stelliums in my chart. In any case I have Saturn, Uranus, and Neptune in Capricorn in my 7th and those three trine my Moon in the 11th. Pluto in my 5th opposes my Moon as well. I can handle friendships that develop and deepen over time, and I prefer those. Romantic relationships drain me unless it is light, but if it's light it doesn't last long like I want. I do cut relationships off at the first sign of trouble, mainly because I'm paranoid they're going to do that to me anyway and I'd rather dump than be dumped. I definitely obsess! Ugh. IP: Logged |
aquascorpleo
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posted October 03, 2014 12:39 PM
I started a thread on that yesterday, my Mercury-Sun-Uranus-(Neptune) stellium in 7th house Aquarius scares me a bit, it challenges my water Moon, Venus and Mars, I'm torn between non-commited constant flirting and heavy emotional investment  I also fight feelings that I know better than others and constantly catch myself brainstorming multiple things at a time.IP: Logged |
margym0o
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From: Ontario, Canada
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted October 03, 2014 01:51 PM
My SO has a 4 planet stellium of Mars, Saturn, Pluto (Libra) and Jupiter (Scorpio) in his 7th house. He also has Ceres and Pallas in his 7th if you count those.I would definitely say that relationships/marriage is an area of preoccupation for him. As mentioned above I feel he also battles between his desire to want casual flirtation and a committed partnership. Ultimately though he seems to deeply, deeply desire a stable, lasting relationship, he just "over thinks" what that entails. He is constantly dissecting and analyzing the ins and outs of long-term relationships and marriage to where he will voice his opinions or concerns about his friends' marriages or what he sees on TV or in movies - "see that's what happens when you get married" or "maybe they shouldn't have gotten married" or "what is he doing with her" - etc. as if he is worried the same will happen to him one day. He seems very concerned about keeping things harmonious (Libra) with me to where he will try to avoid any discussions about the relationship that might be negative. He very much tries to "keep the peace." I will usually press him for a resolution anyways at which point he becomes flustered, but then "accepts" that sometimes you have to talk about things in relationships and it doesn't always have to be negative. He definitely is not afraid of relationships though and has had his fair share throughout his life, I just think he is very methodical in his approach and really takes his time in deciding who he will give his heart to so once he decides he is ready to get married, he'll know it's right. He mentions being married and having a family someday quite often so I know he is thinking about it and it is something he actually wants for himself. One thing is for sure and that is he really does give all he can, as much as he struggles with it and I sense he is 100% in this with me. He just tries to do everything "right." IP: Logged |
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