posted January 22, 2013 12:32 PM            

I have DW venus-pluto with a guy and a girl (born on the same day) and I feel like it's so intense that it's too awkward between us, too awkward to have any fun. Like yeah, we can have fun kidding around with each other, but not like crazy crazy all out fun, it always feels restrained at least a little between us. So it's definitely more painful than just a more casual thing where we both don't feel as shy around the other person.

It actually feels better that they're not in my life, because it's almost like it's a relief.

Anyone else have that ever happen?

posted January 24, 2013 03:54 PM            

I've had that happen once and I could barely stand close to that person because I could literally feel the intensity in my body. It was too much to take at times and I had to literally go away to take a deep breath and chill lol. And YES it was really awkward and we were both shy and acted weird around each other.. nothing ever happened between us but the feelings were the most intense ever.

We had a very active synastry, but a very poor composite.

The main themes were that of Saturn, Mars and Pluto.

In composite Moon opposed Saturn and they both squared Pluto, tight orbs.

posted January 24, 2013 04:05 PM            

My Sun/Venus squares his Sun/Mars/Pluto, his Mars/Pluto conjuncts my Pluto, his Venus trines my Moon, my Saturn sextiles his Mars/Pluto as well as conjuncting his ASC.

There is a ridiculous amount of sexual chemistry and tension hidden behind this giant Saturnian wall. I actually get a little dizzy when I'm around him and I start to sweat, which is really abnormal for me. Part of me feels super awkward and the other part of me wants to rip all his clothes off.

posted January 25, 2013 07:17 AM            

I think i am also avoiding love stelliums and sun conjunct venus from now on too. Bc it seems so much more complicated. In friendships where i dont have that me and the other person are more detached, dont take things we say personally, can talk about most anything without it being a sensitive subject, put effort into the friendship bc i find with ls/sun-venus the person already knows u both care a ton so they stop investing that much energy into things, and there just generally seems to be less drama, less hurt feelings, less ATTACHMENT and SUBJECTIVITY. Since they know u love them i think that they will do more selfish things bc they know u will forgive them and theyll get away with it. and me too i definitely do it too.

I've always loved how people u love make u feel, but resented how awkward it can get. Like they say, it's those we love the most that we hurt the most.

posted January 28, 2013 03:05 AM            

At least for physical intensity. There's a person in my life who I can literally FEEL if he's anywhere in my proximity. Other people can feel it too and if there is any animosity between us it's tenfold... The only time it's ever been sated to a controllable level was when we were seeing each other and uhm...conjugating , all the time.

posted January 28, 2013 07:25 AM            

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

posted January 29, 2013 11:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Juliet41894:
oh the pluto intensity. I have my pluto trine his venus and my venus opp his pluto. also moon trine pluto, venus trine mars, mars trine mars, along with a lot of Uranus/neptune aspects. I have never felt such a powerful attraction, and it's not necessarily good. we make each other waaaay too uneasy and no matter what there's something preventing us from being together. its rough...

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^this.

sigh.

ty for sharing