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Topic: LEOS
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virgolotus Knowflake Posts: 759 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 23, 2013 11:41 AM
how do you make a leo LOVE you? I mean at first it's pretty easy, be fun, sweet, playful, and full of laughs. But after that? What if they just stop talking to you? Do they like persistence or should I just back off and let them come to me first? -_- #plutoproblemsthis leo has venus in cancer and mars in virgo oh, what to do? IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow Knowflake Posts: 1058 From: Silent Hill Registered: Aug 2011
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posted January 23, 2013 12:32 PM
I think you know what's comin' lol.You can't make...them love yoooooou. Well I dunno about the love part. Leo just has to feel it is all I can say.. I wouldn't want someone to feel like they have to act a certain way or change to win my approval and affections, or even my love. Ok but anyways, most Leos don't do the chasing thing. Fixed signs are described as "come-hither". I have even heard people say that Fixed signs are more concerned with "getting" than "giving", which doesn't have to be in a selfish pig way, but considering approaching and backing off, it could mean that you may initiate at times. They are magnetic rather than pursuing like Cardinals. However, if a Leo is really into you, they may initiate contact. That Leo has introverted placements. He may just be standoffish when it comes to his space. You can go up to them if you have been laying low for a while. Sometimes Leo likes that. I wouldn't over do anything, and even too much aloofness from your side could mean (to them) that they think you don't like them. Maybe someone here may give you better advice but that's all I can think of, being a Leo myself. IP: Logged |
ail221 Knowflake Posts: 2827 From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home Registered: Feb 2012
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posted January 23, 2013 12:45 PM
You can't make a leo love you, its nothing you can force there has to be something about you that peaks their interest before they really take a good look at you. Speaking from the perspective of seeing my uncle a leo sun/venus have women fawn over him whether he was slim or pudgy, buying him things, indulgence and catering him on the levels of a 50s housewife without the diamond ring. If they don't want you they don't want you.IP: Logged |
virgolotus Knowflake Posts: 759 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 23, 2013 12:48 PM
Well Idk, I'm not the type to lay low. I'm the pursuer. And my mercurial energy makes me really impatient which isn't good for his Cancer Venus... I'll just lay low for a while and see how it goes. Its hard though :XIP: Logged |
virgolotus Knowflake Posts: 759 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 23, 2013 12:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by ail221: You can't make a leo love you, its nothing you can force there has to be something about you that peaks their interest before they really take a good look at you. Speaking from the perspective of seeing my uncle a leo sun/venus have women fawn over him whether he was slim or pudgy, buying him things, indulgence and catering him on the levels of a 50s housewife without the diamond ring. If they don't want you they don't want you.
I know he wants me or feels something. Always complimenting me.. staring deeply into each other's eyes. I feel it. It's just he sometimes goes into a little shell and completely ignores me. It throws me off :/ IP: Logged |
ail221 Knowflake Posts: 2827 From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home Registered: Feb 2012
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posted January 23, 2013 01:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by virgolotus: I know he wants me or feels something. Always complimenting me.. staring deeply into each other's eyes. I feel it. It's just he sometimes goes into a little shell and completely ignores me. It throws me off :/
Well maybe his venus aspects his asc/sun/moon causing him to react more slowly emotionally. My uncle also has cancer influences; mars/mercury, so when someone wanted to be his gf within the first day of meeting him he kinda doesn't take them seriously. IP: Logged |
virgolotus Knowflake Posts: 759 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 23, 2013 01:27 PM
I've known him for years. We recently met up again and it was odd.. He has an Aries moon so there's some Cardinal there.. The thing I fear the most is his Cancer Merc opp Neptune and Uranus. I can usually read people really well but when feelings are involved I go blank. :@IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 5515 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted January 23, 2013 10:32 PM
I'm a Leo with cancer Venus.Idk.. At times i pull away that may be my Pisces Asc.. But if i totally pull away its usually because of I don't think the person is interested I was some how offended Bruised ego. I recently met a Leo male with cancer placements. He calls me pet names.. Wants to emotional support me... Tellin me to be safe and.careful... Stuff like that.. Ironically i don't really like him... I never call him.. He calls me maybe 2x a week... He asks me out, i have gone a few times... But Lately i have been making up excuses not to go.. As a Leo, i kinda.do like the thrill of the chase, but in a playful way.
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Odette Knowflake Posts: 1254 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted January 23, 2013 10:46 PM
With ALL the Leos I have ever known of both sexes - I generally initiate the contact between us & I'm the one who comes up with ideas about things to do together. I don't really care because this is just what they are like. . and they would still be like this with the love of their life.They're are much slower than I am. I'm very cardinal. I lack fixed. I can think of a billion things to do per minute... whereas the Leos are lying down in the Sun like the big cats they are. But they're also playful cats LOL because once you get their attention they're very much on board. quote: What if they just stop talking to you?
If it's just been a few days... I doubt this means anything at all. IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 1254 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted January 23, 2013 10:56 PM
About him chasing... I'm not sure why but female Leos seem more energetic and more likely to want this. With the male Leos I've known, the more I showered them in affection and attention the more they liked me. That being said, they don't like superficial crushes... If it didn't feel like *genuine* emotion - that's when Leo would be put off. If a woman was 'all over them' in a groupie-like way.... they would find this false, so they might lose interest. From her perspective it could seem like he wasn't into her because she wasn't a 'challenge'.... But in reality it's probably because her feelings were false... e.g. if she was more interested in his money, social status etc.. rather than *who* he is. If you are genuinely emotionally expressive and honest... Leos should normally like and appreciate this. IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 5515 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted January 23, 2013 11:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: About him chasing... I'm not sure why but female Leos seem more energetic and more likely to want this. With the male Leos I've known, the more I showered them in affection and attention the more they liked me. That being said, they don't like superficial crushes... If it didn't feel like *genuine* emotion - that's when Leo would be put off. If a woman was 'all over them' in a groupie-like way.... they would find this false, so they might lose interest. From her perspective it could seem like he wasn't into her because she wasn't a 'challenge'.... But in reality it's probably because her feelings were false... e.g. if she was more interested in his money, social status etc.. rather than *who* he is. If you are genuinely emotionally expressive and honest... Leos should normally like and appreciate this.
I agree
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Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 407 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 23, 2013 11:17 PM
My dad a has a strong leo stellium, he really fell HARD for my mother. He runs around her like a child. My mom has sun conjunct asc and she holds her self with pride dignity like an Empress, Leos definitely look for their king or queen. Also she was never a "leo groupie" Like other women or men can be around them. She told me she was never even interested in him when they met. Maybe he was also enticed by the chase. They often have power struggles, but I think my dad loves it. Yeah so don't be a groupie.I have sun conjunct asc too, and Leos are usually drawn towards me, my dad like shows me off like I'm a trophy. My sister does not get the same attention from him :/ I've never dated one, so I'm not sure about attraction. Wait maybe a lunar leo but I think it was a virgo moon.. IP: Logged |
Exploded Canary Knowflake Posts: 175 From: Rotterdam, The Netherlands Registered: May 2012
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posted January 24, 2013 08:59 AM
Be honest, open, genuine, lively, interested and have self-confidence, self-worth and dignity (really important!!!). That is how I like people and how they get respect from me. I am a Leo, off course. ;] IP: Logged |
virgolotus Knowflake Posts: 759 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 25, 2013 12:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lioness: I'm a Leo with cancer Venus.Idk.. At times i pull away that may be my Pisces Asc.. But if i totally pull away its usually because of I don't think the person is interested I was some how offended Bruised ego. I recently met a Leo male with cancer placements. He calls me pet names.. Wants to emotional support me... Tellin me to be safe and.careful... Stuff like that.. Ironically i don't really like him... I never call him.. He calls me maybe 2x a week... He asks me out, i have gone a few times... But Lately i have been making up excuses not to go.. As a Leo, i kinda.do like the thrill of the chase, but in a playful way.
Thanks for your input I feel like maybe he thinks I'm not that interested. My Cap Moon makes me pretty aloof but on the inside I'm burning but I just can't express it. Although~I have been contacting him but he keeps putting it off maybe he's not interested and making excuses? I'm getting no where -_- IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 3674 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 25, 2013 12:49 PM
What does it mean holding one's self with pride though? As in would anyone be willing to share examples of such behavior vs. other signs maybe?IP: Logged |
virgolotus Knowflake Posts: 759 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 25, 2013 12:54 PM
I guess I just need to open up more even if it's difficult. It's the fear of it all -_-I've been pretty short and dry because I know he's unsure and it makes me feel crappy. I'll try to warm up and see how that goes :/ IP: Logged |