posted January 23, 2013 01:21 PM
I'm really not sure what to do here, so I'm wondering if you guys can help me. I met a Cappy guy at a dance at the beginning of December. I wasn't too sure of him at first but he pursued me and now I feel like i'm falling pretty hard for him! About a week into knowing each other, he invited me to meet his parents and his brother. Then he invited me to his birthday party to meet all of his family and all his closest friends. I hear this is a good thing?At the end of December he told me he wanted to be exclusive and that he "only likes (me)." Unfortunately, school started up again and now he's never around, never EVER plans to see me and doesn't seem to care at all. I saw him last night (he's a standup comedian) and he didn't kiss me or anything when I first saw him. He just did his own thing all night. Finally at the very end when he sent me home (he said he had work to do) he gave me a kiss and left. When we ARE together (and he's not "working" which is only, if i'm lucky, once a week) he's pretty affectionate. He'll kiss me on my head and hug me, cuddle me all night, etc. He tells me "you're okay" and I think that's his way of telling me he likes me? Then when he leaves, he turns into someone else. Gone, distant, has never called me on the phone, assumes bad things when I say "i want to call you". He likes to send texts... which i despise!
I know his last girlfriend left him for a mutual friend and now they don't talk to him.
He assumes bad things a lot. I feel like he's just keeping me away because he's afraid of getting hurt again.
Anyways, is this a kind behavior his way of pushing me away?
Should I stick it out, even though I feel like I need someone who can express their emotions and communicate better?
Should I play his *distant* game too? Or should I keep trying to draw some of his love out and hope it will inspire him to be more loving? I'm thinking about breaking it off because I'm afraid I might be on a different page than him. However, I don't want to end something that can potentially be something really amazing.
What do I do to make this work?
My chart: [link]https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-IrO84UZh0Ug/UQAjHYKHZfI/AAAAAAAAAQM/k5lnpwAA4ac/s637/Chantal+Natal+Chart.png[/link]
His chart: [link]https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-_L8TGiHBYng/UQAjIboD8wI/AAAAAAAAAQY/lP2CeWG6BA8/s645/Kyle+Natal+Chart.png[/link]
:P
Thanks everyone!
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Lindaland
posted January 23, 2013 01:21 PM
posted January 23, 2013 01:31 PM
