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11nahyt
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posted January 24, 2013 05:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 11nahyt     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
post your synastry and/or composite charts of you and your best friend(s). not your friend, or close friend. but your absolute BEST FRIEND, who is STILL in your life as of now.. . i'm interested in seeing if there are any recurring patterns between certain aspects.describe your relationship with this person..if you want, you can talk about what aspects in your charts is very present between you. or which aspect plays out in a negative/difficult manner between you.what aspects do you think woould lead to people becoming BEST friends??? which aspect did you feel when you first met? how long have you been best friends?what about the "sexual" aspects in your charts? did that ever manifest between you?

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posted January 24, 2013 06:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lunae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In general, my closest friend and I get along VERY well. Sometimes we feel like we are 'twin souls', since we are innately alike in so many ways.

We have the same sun sign but it's widely conjunct. My moon conjuncts her dsc, her jupiter conjuncts my asc her venus concjuncts my IC and my mercury conjuncts her IC. I think that contibutes to the very comfortable and homey feeling we have with each other, like we instantly 'clicked'. My sun also conjuncts her mercury, which means smooth flowing communication between us. Our moons are in harmonious signs, being in Pisces and Cancer. There is a LOT of emotional understanding between us and sometimes, we don't even have to say anything in order to know what the other needs.

Like in normal relationships, we also have difficult aspects too, like moon opposite venus and sun square saturn. But, for some reason, we manage to understand each other's shortcomings and so, we have a harmonious relationship. I feel like I could never find another friendship like this in my lifetime. She is the closest friend I have ever had.

Here's our synastry (me=blue, her=red):

Composite:

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Doux Rêve
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posted January 24, 2013 08:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Poof!

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RedScorp
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posted January 24, 2013 08:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RedScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmmm...my best friend is the Sagittarius girl. We talk a lot, even if we don't see each other often, and we can talk about literally anything. Where other friendships, you might not speak about, say, your desires because you don't want to make them uncomfortable, her and I can and do, and we laugh about it too. We share things that we haven't with anyone else, really! She's probably the first person I go to when I have something interesting I want to share, and vice versa.

Synastry
Her Mars is conjunct my AC.
Venuses conjunct.
Her Moon conjunct my Jupiter (and a general Scorpio/Sagittarius stellium of her Moon, both our Plutos and Jupiters, her Mercury, and our Suns on either end).
Lots of her planets fall in my Fourth, and lots of mine in her Sixth.

Composite
A whole bunch of Scorpio planets in the Fifth (Venus, Mercury, Jupiter, Pluto, Sun).
Moon in Sagittarius, Mars in Leo = sounds fun!
S-turn in Pisces + Cancer AC = very watery composite.

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posted January 24, 2013 09:31 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have two best friends.

this one I have known for 24 years.



(we met at a music school, where we took electric piano lessons, when I was 15 years old, and have grown very close friends throughout the years, no matter what was going on. Though we are following quite different lifepaths, and since she`s become a mother and we are working fulltime, the meetings have become more rare.)


This here is a friend, I have actually met on an online forum, and I never really expected for an emailfriendship to becomes such a part of my life, or last so long. We`ve been friends for 10 years now, which is quite amazing for "penpals". Of course we have met, too, and actually will meet up again for New Year in London.
We are very close spiritually, or let`s put it this way, have been accompanying each other`s development in spiritual sense as well as in life in general vividly.)



In case you are wondering about why both ASC`s are so close each other in Cancer, this is a "speciality" of my friendships, there is either an ASC or Moon in Cancer. I wonder if this is a reflection of my mother, as she as well has her ASC in Cancer (12 degrees).

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posted January 24, 2013 09:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My bestfriend and I don't see each other much she moved for a new job and was placed in the Midwest. We were born 24 days apart so we have similar placements.
Synastry

Moon conjunct mercury
Moon quintile Moon
Moon conjunct Venus
Venus conjunct mercury
Jupiter conjunct Jupiter
Venus quintile mercury
Sun sextile mars

Composite: A Love Stellium
We became friends under odd circumstances, we were both in the same history class but never spoke to one another until one day there was a train delay because of some accident, we saw each other teamed up, ended up heading uptown and getting lost trying to find connecting trains. After that adventure we became friends. Turns out we lived near each other and took the same train home and never knew.

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posted January 24, 2013 02:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lazyscarecrow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My best friend and I met in college. In class we were the only two students of a certain nationality, and began to gradually sit near one another and because she was so quiet I talked her ear off. It's been like... 2 years since then. I trust her more than I do most people. She's a sweetheart. I envy her awesomeness.

In synastry:
Her Merc/Venus conjunction trine my Sun and sextile Mars
Her Sun trine my Mercury
Her Moon trine my Saturn
My Venus/Chiron conjunction sextile her Moon
Her Moon square my Jupiter
Her Sun sextile my Saturn
Her Chiron conjunct my Sun
Mer Moon either in the 7th house or widely conjunct my DSC

Other aspects are either generational (born same year) or it's in one of our natals.

In the composite:
Love stellium (Sun, Merc, Venus all conjunct)squaring Jupiter, trine Saturn
Moon is square Saturn, trine Uranus and Neptune, opposing Pluto.
Mars square Uranus and Neptune.

The davison chart looks very similar to the composite.
Anywho, Moon-Saturn did play out more often in the beginning. I felt she was more emotionally detached and would not take my problems serious when I would try to open up to her. But I may have inadvertently done the same to her. But we've seemed to move past it, as she and I have an easier time opening up, and I in general have come to accept and deal with my problems on my own, except when I do come and talk to her. There's less trouble. Jupiter square plays out in that we will occasionally shower each other in gifts lol. But she's a generous Aries, she would give the shirt off her back in a certain situation.

Personally, I feel like the hard aspects in a composite can be worked through, if the two people are game for it.

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posted January 24, 2013 02:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
for the record, most of the composites posted so far have love stelliums with sun or moon aspecting pluto

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posted January 24, 2013 03:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bridgetostars23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Synastry:
I'm on the outside.

Composite:

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bridgetostars23
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posted January 24, 2013 03:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bridgetostars23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In synastry I guess I felt his sun and mercury conjunct my descendant.

And my moon conjunct his descendant.

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posted January 24, 2013 03:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RedScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My other bestest friend is the Libra girl. We get along really well and just, always have fun together. Our personalities mesh well and there's great synergy. I feel like she could be my other half or something, 'cause we're so similar yet different.

Synastry
Lots of Scorpio:
-Her Mercury conj. my Venus
-Her Jupiter/Venus on my Sun/IC all under a degree
-My Jupiter/Pluto with her Pluto.
Funny enough, her Sun and Moon don't make aspects to my planets.

Composite
Lotssss of Scorpio in the Fifth including Moon (overall watery with Cancer AC and S-turn in Pisces)
Sun in Libra in the Fourth
Mars square Venus, S-turn making nothing but trines

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Sorcha
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posted January 24, 2013 06:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sorcha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My best and I have lived in different cities or countries for the duration of our entire friendship, except for the first year I met her. We've been best friends for 15 years and even though I don't get to see her a lot, I looooove her.
Muchly and a lot. We have the same loony and ridiculous sense of humour and 137,000 inside jokes which often make people wonder why we are laughing so hard that we can't breathe. People also constantly ask us if we are dating/a couple. Even my family! Lmao.

Also, I am on the inside. Interestingly too, she and my mother share many of the same placements and I don't get a long super well with my Mom but sometimes I feel like my BFF is what my Mom would be like if she made more of an effort.

(PS. 11nahyt, did you ever go back to your Aries/Virgo thread? At least I think it was you. If it was, I left you a rather long reply)



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11nahyt
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posted January 24, 2013 09:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 11nahyt     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thank you all for your posts! lots of charts to study!

@RAS by love stellium, you mean the sun/merc/venus ?
@sorcha, yea this morning, i saw that it had 2 responses. but i decided to leave it for when i got home. thank you for you detailed response thought, i really appreciate it

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posted January 24, 2013 10:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is my best friend I've know since birth, our parents were best friends too.

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posted January 24, 2013 10:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have more just working on getting their birth times.

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posted January 25, 2013 05:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lunae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
for the record, most of the composites posted so far have love stelliums with sun or moon aspecting pluto


I noticed sun/moon/venus and mercury aspects too. Also jupiter in harmony with the outer planets and with another's jupiter.

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posted January 25, 2013 06:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, composite sun-mercury-venus aspecting each other is the love stellium

or being max 12 degrees apart also

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posted January 26, 2013 05:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DeathIsanIllusion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wish I had this type of connection in real life, too!

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posted July 19, 2013 11:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My best friend is born just 4 days earlier than me, so most of our planets are in a conjunction.

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posted July 18, 2019 08:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cultstatus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I’ve been meaning to post the synastry of my best friend and I, I think it’s really cool.

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posted July 18, 2019 03:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moving to Interpersonal Astrology.

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