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Topic: Libra Moon
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goatcat Knowflake Posts: 272 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 27, 2013 11:57 AM
Libra moons need harmony and peace? Because of the need for partnership do you tend to settle in relationships? How do you deal with people and situations that penetrate your peace?
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ElizabethO Knowflake Posts: 528 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 27, 2013 03:05 PM
I definitely need harmony, but it always seems to allude me. I don't necessarily need partnership constantly, but I do like to have my romantic affairs settled. I love being in a relationship. I do need my space though. I'm affectionate and sensitive to my partners needs, but I can't always be at their beck and call. I'm pretty good at fixing problems immediately. I grew up in a really dysfunctional family. When I can't fix something, I just walk away. Hopefully someone else will be able to figure it out LOL.IP: Logged |
Haplesschild* Knowflake Posts: 601 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 27, 2013 03:18 PM
Though for the second question, I believe I'm fine with being single. I don't feel like I need someone by my side at all times, I'd rather be alone than have someone just because.For example, right now I'm single and although I've had a couple of opportunities these couple of months to get back into another... I'd rather pass. I'm not over my ex. I am pretty Uranian though (and Saturnian) so I think I desire space more than the average Libra moon. quote: Originally posted by ElizabethO: I definitely need harmony, but it always seems to allude me. I don't necessarily need partnership constantly, but I do like to have my romantic affairs settled. I love being in a relationship. I do need my space though. I'm affectionate and sensitive to my partners needs, but I can't always be at their beck and call. I'm pretty good at fixing problems immediately. I grew up in a really dysfunctional family. When I can't fix something, I just walk away. Hopefully someone else will be able to figure it out LOL.
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Got Gemini?? Knowflake Posts: 564 From: The Planet Mercury Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 27, 2013 03:29 PM
I really like having someone by my side. S far as being peace and harmony, I need those like I need air to breathe! I am really big on trying to diffuse situations in a peaceful manner whenever possible.I don't really settle in relationships though. When someone screws with my peace and personal space, I try to let them know in a nice way that I need some quiet time. Or I'll just leave and go somewhere where is quiet. ------------------ Gemini Sun Libra Moon Gemini Mercury Cancer Venus Virgo Mars Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |
goatcat Knowflake Posts: 272 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 27, 2013 03:31 PM
Do you think the need for partnership could be more prominent in a Libra Moon male?IP: Logged |
Haplesschild* Knowflake Posts: 601 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 27, 2013 03:34 PM
I think it depends on placements. Cancers and Geminis are more codependent, compared to Virgos I think. From my experiences.IP: Logged |
Got Gemini?? Knowflake Posts: 564 From: The Planet Mercury Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 27, 2013 03:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by goatcat: Do you think the need for partnership could be more prominent in a Libra Moon male?
Yes! I have Libra Moon conjunct Pluto less than one degree sextile Neptune. So that trio of planets definitely lends to me wanting partnership so much. All my life I just wanted that "perfect" woman, that perfect relationship. Every time I experienced a bad relationship, I just wanted a good one even more. ------------------ Gemini Sun Libra Moon Gemini Mercury Cancer Venus Virgo Mars Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |
goatcat Knowflake Posts: 272 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 27, 2013 03:36 PM
How do Libra moons deal with disharmony and disagreements in daily relationships?IP: Logged |
goatcat Knowflake Posts: 272 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 27, 2013 03:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by Got Gemini??: Yes! I have Libra Moon conjunct Pluto less than one degree sextile Neptune. So that trio of planets definitely lends to me wanting partnership so much. All my life I just wanted that "perfect" woman, that perfect relationship. Every time I experienced a bad relationship, I just wanted a good one even more.
Do others find your strive for perfection unrealistic? Have you found that perfect woman? You are exactly like my Libra moon boyfriend! IP: Logged |
Got Gemini?? Knowflake Posts: 564 From: The Planet Mercury Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 27, 2013 03:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by goatcat: How do Libra moons deal with disharmony and disagreements in daily relationships?
Firstly by trying to avoid disagreements and disharmony at all costs! However of and when we have to deal with those, we try to get the other person to see both sides of the issue like we do. It will bother us if the other person isn't at least willing to humor our point of view. ------------------ Gemini Sun Libra Moon Gemini Mercury Cancer Venus Virgo Mars Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |
Got Gemini?? Knowflake Posts: 564 From: The Planet Mercury Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 27, 2013 03:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by goatcat: Do others find your strive for perfection unrealistic? Have you found that perfect woman?You are exactly like my Libra moon boyfriend!
Not really because I internalize my strive for perfection! I also understand that nobody is perfect and that euphoric feeling of love comes and goes in relationships. However, liking that other person will definitely help! I don't try to rock the boat unnecessarily. If I have a problem that I can fix on my own, that's what I'll do! If it's something that I have to bring up to my woman, then I'll do it in a peaceful way (most of the time lol). As far as perfect woman, I've got a great feeling about Miss Scorpio.
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goatcat Knowflake Posts: 272 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 27, 2013 03:47 PM
I am a Scorpio moon, and the values of the Libra moon baffle me. In relationship conflicts I am confrontational, as my Libra moon boyfriend is not. He will go as far as to pretend that the conflict is not there, tell me what I want to hear to smooth things over, or just be completely emotionally unavailable. Where Scorpio moons are diggers, Libra moons are very on the surface, superficial. The superficiality bothers me to a point because it has no depth. I need depth. Perfection and balance are unrealistic virtues to me. IP: Logged |
goatcat Knowflake Posts: 272 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 27, 2013 03:52 PM
I wonder how it must feel to have an air moon.IP: Logged |
goatcat Knowflake Posts: 272 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 27, 2013 03:53 PM
Do Air and Earth moons feel at all?IP: Logged |
Got Gemini?? Knowflake Posts: 564 From: The Planet Mercury Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 27, 2013 03:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by goatcat: I am a Scorpio moon, and the values of the Libra moon baffle me. In relationship conflicts I am confrontational, as my Libra moon boyfriend is not. He will go as far as to pretend that the conflict is not there, tell me what I want to hear to smooth things over, or just be completely emotionally unavailable. Where Scorpio moons are diggers, Libra moons are very on the surface, superficial. The superficiality bothers me to a point because it has no depth. I need depth. Perfection and balance are unrealistic virtues to me.
It's not that we're superficial, it's that we live harmony and happy times with our partners! We feel like confrontations may lead to breaking up and we don't want that! Other times, we just don't think some things seem worth fighting over. Your guy knows their are issues. He's just glossing over them because he doesn't want to make a mountain out of a mow hill. The other reason he may be glossing over your issues is because he may think you might not like his point of view on the issue so he just keeps it to himself until the problem really bothers him then he'll explode. That's the downside of Libra moon. When we go berserk, we do it in a really big way lol.
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Haplesschild* Knowflake Posts: 601 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 27, 2013 03:55 PM
Just bc Libra moons don't like to stir drama for the hell of it does not make us superficial. I think your bf probably just wants to deal with conflict calmly and talk about it without having it be a 'confrontation.' quote: Originally posted by goatcat: I am a Scorpio moon, and the values of the Libra moon baffle me. In relationship conflicts I am confrontational, as my Libra moon boyfriend is not. He will go as far as to pretend that the conflict is not there, tell me what I want to hear to smooth things over, or just be completely emotionally unavailable. Where Scorpio moons are diggers, Libra moons are very on the surface, superficial. The superficiality bothers me to a point because it has no depth. I need depth. Perfection and balance are unrealistic virtues to me.
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Got Gemini?? Knowflake Posts: 564 From: The Planet Mercury Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 27, 2013 03:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by goatcat: I wonder how it must feel to have an air moon.
It's sooooo awesome Seriously though, because of Libra moon's need for peace, harmony, and partnership, they are more like water moons and can be VEEEEERY emotional. ------------------ Gemini Sun Libra Moon Gemini Mercury Cancer Venus Virgo Mars Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 4750 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted January 27, 2013 03:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by goatcat: Do Air and Earth moons feel at all?
No. You're onto something,actually. IP: Logged |
Haplesschild* Knowflake Posts: 601 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 27, 2013 03:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by Got Gemini??: Firstly by trying to avoid disagreements and disharmony at all costs! However of and when we have to deal with those, we try to get the other person to see both sides of the issue like we do. It will bother us if the other person isn't at least willing to humor our point of view.
I try to deal with it and stay real cool, but if talking isn't getting through to the other or if they are yelling etc, I often just walk away.
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Haplesschild* Knowflake Posts: 601 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 27, 2013 04:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by goatcat: Do Air and Earth moons feel at all?
No, we are obviously robots. Cos only Scorpio moons have feelings. IP: Logged |
hikoro Knowflake Posts: 234 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 27, 2013 04:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by Haplesschild*: No, we are obviously robots. Cos only Scorpio moons have feelings.
Hahaha! Good one. IP: Logged |
hikoro Knowflake Posts: 234 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 27, 2013 04:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by Got Gemini??: It's sooooo awesome Seriously though, because of Libra moon's need for peace, harmony, and partnership, they are more like water moons and can be VEEEEERY emotional.
i so agree! it is like a cancer moon without the drama, or a taurus moon without the.... i dont know. im a taurus moon, what are we bad about? we're perfect! but seriously, you guys are very sensitive and very understanding. you just dont wallow or get all intense about it. good luck with the scorpio gotgemini... im a scorp getting started with a gem with similar positions as yours... so, keep me updated. the gem-scorpio pairing is...unique. IP: Logged |
Haplesschild* Knowflake Posts: 601 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 27, 2013 04:07 PM
I've dated 3 Scorpio moons, two seriously (one for approx a year and half, one for 9 months) and though both had moons in their 7th house, one had it also conjunct Pluto and I HATED that he was always looking for drama and wanted to get into fights. It's like for fcks sake, can't we have a peaceful relationship? Why the need to rock the boat all the time? I never felt that secure. IP: Logged |
Haplesschild* Knowflake Posts: 601 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 27, 2013 04:11 PM
Libra moons are more flakey and changeable than Taurus moon and less possessive, also less moody and clingy than a cancer. I love Taurus moons all that good stuff without the emotional bs is <3 quote: Originally posted by hikoro: i so agree! it is like a cancer moon without the drama, or a taurus moon without the.... i dont know. im a taurus moon, what are we bad about? we're perfect! but seriously, you guys are very sensitive and very understanding. you just dont wallow or get all intense about it. good luck with the scorpio gotgemini... im a scorp getting started with a gem with similar positions as yours... so, keep me updated. the gem-scorpio pairing is...unique.
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Got Gemini?? Knowflake Posts: 564 From: The Planet Mercury Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 27, 2013 04:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by goatcat: Do Air and Earth moons feel at all?
Of course we do lol! We may seem superficial because we are nonconfrontational but we feel everything! We love the beauty of love, peace, and harmony. We don't just love it, we feel it. I'm not trying to romanticize it either. It's just how we experience it. ------------------ Gemini Sun Libra Moon Gemini Mercury Cancer Venus Virgo Mars Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |