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kennedy80
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posted January 28, 2013 04:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kennedy80     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just curious if anyone has ever had a relationship where you or the other had this aspect - and how did it affect the two of you?

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posted January 28, 2013 11:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini??     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Her NN conjuncted my sun exact. Unrequited live at its best. She did not love me back. Personality wise, she was everything I was liking for. Physical wise, she wasn't really my type but I was very much attracted to her personality.

She had sun in Libra, Moon in Pisces, Mercury in Libra, Venus in Leo, Asc in Scorpio.

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

And yes, I'm a guy!

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posted January 29, 2013 12:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sorcha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm the opposite. I was NN and he was Sun. I loved him more than he loved me. Or else he was scared. Either way, it ended. But still, it was one of my favourite relationships ever.

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posted January 29, 2013 12:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini??     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My bad, her Libra Sun conjuncted my NN exact.

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Cancer Venus
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posted January 29, 2013 12:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have only liked Scorpio Moons, not Suns. I have a Scorpio NN, IC, Uranus.

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posted January 29, 2013 12:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for kennedy80     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by charlie:
I have only liked Scorpio Moons, not Suns. I have a Scorpio NN, IC, Uranus.

Interesting! Why do you think Scorpio Moon, not Scorpio Sun?

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posted January 29, 2013 12:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for kennedy80     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Has anyone ever found that the person on the NN end has fought this attraction tooth-and-nail because they weren't ready to progress/grow? (I read this is what this aspect is about).

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posted January 29, 2013 02:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anno_lucis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Sorcha:
I'm the opposite. I was NN and he was Sun. I loved him more than he loved me. Or else he was scared. Either way, it ended. But still, it was one of my favourite relationships ever.

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posted January 29, 2013 05:01 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
According to cafeastrology it is the other way round -

Any hesitations are "likely on the part of the North Node person. The Sun person expresses many of the qualities that the North Node person is intuitively drawn to expressing, and any reluctance on the Node person's part really represents a fear of progress."

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posted January 29, 2013 05:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for its_aqua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My beloved boyfriend has his NN conjunct my Sun. He loves me dearly, and so do I, but I know he loves me more and wants even to marry me when we get older, whereas I really want to have fun some fun around with other guys too.

With the Nodes, only the squares, conjunctions and opositions count.That means, that if you have Sun conjunct N.Node, then you automatically have Sun opposition S.Node.

I've been the S.Node with two other guys. I had with both of them Sun-S.Node conjunction. Most painful thing ever! Instant attractiona and passion. It feels so carmic, but I guess it's not always easy. In both cases the guys were kind of players. Recently, one of them re-appeared. So I guess this aspect affects the other person too. Somehow, strong aspects involving the Nodes, make you feel like you can't let go of the other person.

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posted January 29, 2013 07:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That is an interesting observation about the Nodes/Planet person aspect, especially the Sun. Someone at my work has been obsessing with me for the past few months and while i like him and cherish him a lot as a friend, i am not attracted to him one bit. And there is no chance i would. His North Node is smack on my Sun.

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posted January 29, 2013 09:12 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by its_aqua:

With the Nodes, only the squares, conjunctions and opositions count.That means, that if you have Sun conjunct N.Node, then you automatically have Sun opposition S.Node.


What about trines and sextiles? I have my NN trine Sun, Sextile Moon whilst my NN is square his Venus and Mercury. So what the the former two aspects worth? And what do squares indicate?

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posted January 29, 2013 12:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by kennedy80:
Interesting! Why do you think Scorpio Moon, not Scorpio Sun?

People say it's because I have a Hades Moon (Pluto square Moon). You can put me in a room with 100 people and I can guarantee you that by the end of night I will have found the Scorp Moon should one be there! I have met them randomly in stores, thru friends, on Internet, the gym, bars, you name it. It's a gravitational pull I can't explain but I have never felt anything like that with Scorpio Suns.

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posted January 29, 2013 12:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jessica2407     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by charlie:
People say it's because I have a Hades Moon (Pluto square Moon). You can put me in a room with 100 people and I can guarantee you that by the end of night I will have found the Scorp Moon should one be there! I have met them randomly in stores, thru friends, on Internet, the gym, bars, you name it. It's a gravitational pull I can't explain but I have never felt anything like that with Scorpio Suns.

Hmmm interesting, I have Hades Moon too.

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posted January 29, 2013 04:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sorcha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Astro keen:
According to cafeastrology it is the other way round -

Any hesitations are "likely on the part of the North Node person. The Sun person expresses many of the qualities that the North Node person is intuitively drawn to expressing, and any reluctance on the Node person's part really represents a fear of progress."


That ^^^ has never applied to me personally. I have NN in Scorp and my friends and boyfriends are always Scorp Sun or Moon. (Except my bro, who has his Mars conjunct my NN.) When it comes to Scorp Sun, it is always a mutual feeling, in my experience, although it is admittedly very intense. With my best friend, we are still as close as ever after 15 years.

With the men in my life, I was just as attracted as they were (and not scared, just excited) but in one case I realized it had to end and in the other case, he realized it had to end. Mind you, all these Scorp Suns all have the exact same birthdate, although in different years.

I have spent the most time, relationship-wise with Scorp Moons conjunct my NN. It was definitely felt more equal and one relationship lasted 3 years and the other lasted almost 7. But it wasn't as exciting or passionate for me as the Scorp Suns

Interestingly, all of the above Scorp Suns were born on Nov 1st. For men I have dated (or women friends) who are born on October 30th, 31st, Nov 2nd, 3rd, it's not the same experience at all.

For interest's sake, I will also mention the fact that Jan Spiller's books on the nodes generally states the opposite of what most other astrologers (and websites) seem to say.

Jan says that the NN person is the one drawing in and teaching the planet person. Personally, I tend to think (and always have) that it's mutual. Each person's experience might be different, probably based on whatever past life energy or experiences both people shared - but ultimately, it will be a learning experience for both the NN and the planet person. And 'planet' can obviously mean either of the luminaries or any other planet.

That's my theory

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posted January 29, 2013 04:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sorcha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by anno_lucis:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Sorcha:
[b]I'm the opposite. I was NN and he was Sun. I loved him more than he loved me. Or else he was scared. Either way, it ended. But still, it was one of my favourite relationships ever.

[/B][/QUOTE]

Is that Sand? WTH??? LMAO!

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posted January 29, 2013 04:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anno_lucis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^ yup. lol.

and what you wrote is the tragic tale of our synastry (he is sun, i am nn)

anyway i'm going with spiller's theory rofflez

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posted January 29, 2013 06:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've had early Taureans in my life with their Sun on my Venus/NN conjunction.... but generally my feelings towards them are more friendly than romantic.
The Sun is not a sexual planet.
Venus or Mars on the Nodes in synastry would give rise to an attraction perhaps.

For the people who mentioned intense attraction and unrequited love - I doubt that it was this aspect that caused it...

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posted January 29, 2013 06:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
awwwwww look!! a sandy emoticon!! sow cute

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posted January 29, 2013 08:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kennedy80     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Sorcha:
That ^^^ has never applied to me personally. I have NN in Scorp and my friends and boyfriends are always Scorp Sun or Moon. (Except my bro, who has his Mars conjunct my NN.) When it comes to Scorp Sun, it is always a mutual feeling, in my experience, although it is admittedly very intense. With my best friend, we are still as close as ever after 15 years.

With the men in my life, I was just as attracted as they were (and not scared, just excited) but in one case I realized it had to end and in the other case, he realized it had to end. Mind you, all these Scorp Suns all have the exact same birthdate, although in different years.

I have spent the most time, relationship-wise with Scorp Moons conjunct my NN. It was definitely felt more equal and one relationship lasted 3 years and the other lasted almost 7. But it wasn't as exciting or passionate for me as the Scorp Suns

Interestingly, all of the above Scorp Suns were born on Nov 1st. For men I have dated (or women friends) who are born on October 30th, 31st, Nov 2nd, 3rd, it's not the same experience at all.

For interest's sake, I will also mention the fact that Jan Spiller's books on the nodes generally states the opposite of what most other astrologers (and websites) seem to say.

Jan says that the NN person is the one drawing in and teaching the planet person. Personally, I tend to think (and always have) that it's mutual. Each person's experience might be different, probably based on whatever past life energy or experiences both people shared - but ultimately, it will be a learning experience for both the NN and the planet person. And 'planet' can obviously mean either of the luminaries or any other planet.

That's my theory


Interesting! Yes, I can see how it can be incredibly intense. Maybe to someone with a moon in Virgo, it's very uncomfortable and not so appealing. And, I do agree, I believe it to be a mutually changing experience for both. It's changed me! Not sure for the other person involved (NN person), but it would be hard to believe it hasn't changed them as well.

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posted January 30, 2013 01:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

I had my NN conjunct his Sun(Gemini)

His NN conjunct my Moon(Cancer)

But I think we also had other significant aspects that made the relationships hard to let go of.

His Venus conjunct my Ascendant (Aries)
His Venus opposed my Pluto(Scorpio)
His Venus trined my Jupiter(Sag)
His Venus trined my Neptune(Sag)
His Venus trined my Sun(Sag)
His Saturn sextiled my Sun
His Saturn conjunct my Mars
His Jupiter sextiled my Sun

I don’t know if he was “the one” as I didn’t really “want” him in the way that I’d expect to “want” to be with someone who is supposed to be my "soulmate".

But then again, I have Venus conjunct Saturn and so “Love” for me is not a starry eyed or cataclysmic event: It’s just a part of life; you win some, you lose some…life goes on.

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posted January 30, 2013 05:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for its_aqua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Astro keen:
What about trines and sextiles? I have my NN trine Sun, Sextile Moon whilst my NN is square his Venus and Mercury. So what the the former two aspects worth? And what do squares indicate?

The sextiles and trines dont really have the karmic effect, that the strong aspects(conjunction,oppositions,square) have.
So I would only count you NN square his Venus & Mercury.

Mercury square N.Node shows that the relationship is based on communication and spiritual progress of both people involved.
Venus shows the romantic side of the relationship.

It's opposition,conjunctions and squares between the Nodes and the luminaries that have the strongest effect actually.

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posted December 18, 2022 12:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hemilla     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by kennedy80:
Has anyone ever found that the person on the NN end has fought this attraction tooth-and-nail because they weren't ready to progress/grow? (I read this is what this aspect is about).

And i oooop this is exactly how i feel about guy that has his sun on my north i am like "hell no, cant be" even tho i feel butterflies and only seeing him brightens up my day lol

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posted December 19, 2022 12:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stawr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think it would be a good placement for a partner to be supportive of your goals destiny.

I experienced the opposite with my husband. My Sn/IC conjunct his sun. While we were comfortable in each other's space for quite some time...I really felt like when it came to my personal career goals and hobbies and passions....he just wanted to crap allover them...and was holding me back.

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posted February 27, 2023 08:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 93nov     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by kennedy80:
Has anyone ever found that the person on the NN end has fought this attraction tooth-and-nail because they weren't ready to progress/grow? (I read this is what this aspect is about).

Yes, yes, and yes!

I thought it was just my situation.

I have been "crushing" (I'm 29) on this guy since ww were in our junior year in high school and this has been my experience even though he has expressed and acted on the attraction.

I am really not the type he would normally go for at all. He likes darker toned females with very pronounced facial features and I'm basically the complete opposite although just as attractive. Just not his type. Men are visual creatures so I can see why things never progressed between us although the chemistry/ attraction checks out.

His Venus-Pluto-NN conjunct my Sun at a very loose 4 degrees but it is still very much felt. My moon conjuncts his Sun at another loose 8 degrees and his moon is conjunct my Sun by sign. My moon is also opposite his ASC (give or take a few degrees). We also have a ton of personal planets conjunct mercury-venus conjunct dw. Venus-saturn dw.


We connected through his music mostly (he's a pretty good artist). I have also be a fan/supporter and I think his ego feeds off of that mostly which keeps him intrigued despite our almost exact Uranus- Moon square which I believe is the culprit for why we just can't connect. Too many loose degrees and not enough close ones.

We do this dance like vultures circling its prey.. but much less aggressive? Like the two twins on parent trap who are discovering each other for the first time lol. Intrigued but equally repulsed. The most interesting and weird attraction I have ever experienced and this most frustrating part is we'll probably never get close enough to hash it out and figure out exactly what. Is. Going. On lol.


Did i mention his mars squares my entire Scorpio stellium? Ha. Mars trine mars almost exact... sighs.

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