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virgolotus
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posted January 28, 2013 06:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for virgolotus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So I think the reason my Leo fell back was because I probably hurt his ego... I always say stupid crap when I'm nervous that offends people to conceal my awkwardness--I did it to him. :s
Also I was trying to hide his naked body from my mom so I threw him into the closet. ><
Do you think that hurt his pride? Lol
How can I heal it and show him I think he's perfect if he won't even let me see him?
Letters? Gifts? Leos, helppp~

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posted January 28, 2013 06:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Debby4     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by virgolotus:
So I think the reason my Leo fell back was because I probably hurt his ego... I always say stupid crap when I'm nervous that offends people to conceal my awkwardness--I did it to him. :s
Also I was trying to hide his naked body from my mom so I threw him into the closet. ><
Do you think that hurt his pride? Lol
How can I heal it and show him I think he's perfect if he won't even let me see him?
Letters? Gifts? Leos, helppp~

LMAO! xD Omg! When I read " Also I was trying to hide his naked body..." I almost lost it! I don't think this hurt his pride. Why would it? .o. If you weren't SUPPOSED to be doing... whatever you were doing then I'm sure he knows. He might feel a little awkward knowing your mom almost saw though.

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posted January 28, 2013 06:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for birdy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
awww... your story was cute.
I think he'd be understanding why you threw him in the closet. lol. I dont think it hurt his pride. Can you draw? write? Maybe write him a love letter telling him how you feel.

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posted January 28, 2013 06:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for virgolotus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lmao! Idk it's cause I know Leos are sensitive about those things and are all hung up on their dignity and pride. Lol
I'm too cold for this, agghh!

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posted January 28, 2013 06:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for virgolotus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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awww... your story was cute.
I think he'd be understanding why you threw him in the closet. lol. I dont think it hurt his pride. Can you draw? write? Maybe write him a love letter telling him how you feel.

I can do both ?

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posted January 28, 2013 06:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peachbeigeblue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hahaha. He probably just feels embarrassed. I wouldn't talk about the actual event that you think hurt his pride. Ever. Pretend it didnt happen. I'm a Leo and if someone offends me accidentally - I just want to move on. Not dwell on it. That just makes me more mad. My friend drew a picture of me I hated at trivia a lil while back - I was more annoyed at her she kept bringing up I was offended. She made my nose look real bad and the fact she kept bringing it up like "oh I can't draw" just annoyed me more bc the subject was still on something I didn't want to talk about. Esp with our other friends there.

I've also dated Leo's and my two best guy friends are Leo's. I NEVER try to hurt their pride and if I think someone else does - will not bring it up. If they want to talk about it - Im all ears. But it's not my place to bring up something that their pride is wounded about. Misunderstanding or not

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posted January 28, 2013 06:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lazyscarecrow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well you might not like to hear this (and it does make Leos look bad) but you might have to come up with the best apology ever. Or you might not. Sometimes I get really irritated or mad at people when my pride is injured. What happens is I act all butthurt and sulky for a while but eventually I come around without the other person having to do much. Leos can be a -little- passive aggressive in the sense that they sometimes won't tell you what you did wrong, and expect you to know. But he had Cancer and Virgo placements so he could still be nursing his wounds. Yup I'd just apologize for hurting him. It should warm him up and work like a charm, if he's a typical Leo. But if he responds to your apology with chilliness and distance, I'd distance myself and let him come around.
I don't really think you did anything wrong.

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posted January 28, 2013 06:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peachbeigeblue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh and my Leo ex and I had a similar situation. He was embarrassed / mortified and only wanted me to come to his house thereafter.

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posted January 28, 2013 06:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for virgolotus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Hahaha. He probably just feels embarrassed. I wouldn't talk about the actual event that you think hurt his pride. Ever. Pretend it didnt happen. I'm a Leo and if someone offends me accidentally - I just want to move on. Not dwell on it. That just makes me more mad. My friend drew a picture of me I hated at trivia a lil while back - I was more annoyed at her she kept bringing up I was offended. She made my nose look real bad and the fact she kept bringing it up like "oh I can't draw" just annoyed me more bc the subject was still on something I didn't want to talk about. Esp with our other friends there.

I've also dated Leo's and my two best guy friends are Leo's. I NEVER try to hurt their pride and if I think someone else does - will not bring it up. If they want to talk about it - Im all ears. But it's not my place to bring up something that their pride is wounded about. Misunderstanding or not


I wasn't planning on bringing it up lol. But I did make fun of his {car} when he first got there cause I was really ******* nervous. UGH
That's his pride atm -_-

&Pshhh, you're beautiful. Don't even sweat it

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posted January 28, 2013 06:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peachbeigeblue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
Well you might not like to hear this (and it does make Leos look bad) but you might have to come up with the best apology ever. Or you might not. Sometimes I get really irritated or mad at people when my pride is injured. What happens is I act all butthurt and sulky for a while but eventually I come around without the other person having to do much. Leos can be a -little- passive aggressive in the sense that they sometimes won't tell you what you did wrong, and expect you to know. But he had Cancer and Virgo placements so he could still be nursing his wounds. Yup I'd just apologize for hurting him. It should warm him up and work like a charm, if he's a typical Leo. But if he responds to your apology with chilliness and distance, I'd distance myself and let him come around.
I don't really think you did anything wrong.

^ yeah I get all quiet and pout. I get over it pretty quickly though. Usually a joke will get me out of it. I often don't really want to talk about the specifics though - if it's actually concerning my pride

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posted January 28, 2013 06:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for virgolotus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
Well you might not like to hear this (and it does make Leos look bad) but you might have to come up with the best apology ever. Or you might not. Sometimes I get really irritated or mad at people when my pride is injured. What happens is I act all butthurt and sulky for a while but eventually I come around without the other person having to do much. Leos can be a -little- passive aggressive in the sense that they sometimes won't tell you what you did wrong, and expect you to know. But he had Cancer and Virgo placements so he could still be nursing his wounds. Yup I'd just apologize for hurting him. It should warm him up and work like a charm, if he's a typical Leo. But if he responds to your apology with chilliness and distance, I'd distance myself and let him come around.
I don't really think you did anything wrong.

Aw you remembered his placements!
Yeahh, I have no idea what to do I think I'll just have to write him something super cute. Put my mercurial dominance to use ^_^
He has his Sun as his only Leo placement though.. Don't know if that makes him more or less of a Leo.

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posted January 28, 2013 07:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peachbeigeblue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by virgolotus:
I wasn't planning on bringing it up lol. But I did make fun of his {car} when he first got there cause I was really ******* nervous. UGH
That's his pride atm -_-

&Pshhh, you're beautiful. Don't even sweat it


Just be positive as if you know he's gona come back around. It's not a question. Worrying isn't gona help! I can sense when someone is tryin too hard and it puts me off. But I'm just one person

Good luck, sweets and keep us posted

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posted January 28, 2013 11:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for virgolotus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't think it's gonna happen. I sent him a song as my last attempt, no reply. I have a feeling after I completely stop reaching out it's going to be >>>the end<<< which is what I'm going to do now
Wutever..

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posted January 29, 2013 11:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by virgolotus:
I don't think it's gonna happen. I sent him a song as my last attempt, no reply. I have a feeling after I completely stop reaching out it's going to be >>>the end<<< which is what I'm going to do now
Wutever..

Hopeless romantic fo lyfe


imo you shouldn't have to alter yourself to make someone else happy. if you're outspoken and it hurts the guy = not the right guy for you. your personality would mesh with the right guy and you wouldn't have to worry over such small things. if anything he was probably just upset your mom didn't get to see his body... lol, leos are all about showing themselves off

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virgolotus
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posted January 29, 2013 12:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for virgolotus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^LOL yeah you're right. On both things lol

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Jessica2407
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posted January 29, 2013 12:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jessica2407     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
''leos are all about showing themselves off''

Not all Leos.


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