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peregrine Knowflake Posts: 135 From: The Lion's Den Registered: Apr 2012
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posted January 29, 2013 10:08 PM
Do u ever like a person initially and eventually as you get to know them come to the conclusion that u do not like the person they are at all?What was your synastry like? IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 3745 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 29, 2013 11:59 PM
Yeah. I had this with a Scorpio ASC, Libra Sun, Pisces Moon, Mercury in Virgo (I don't know the rest) but our synastry was FULL of squares. I mean so much red tape in that chart you'd think we were in debt. I really liked him and I thought he was different but after awhile I began realizing his ignorance wasn't fake and it really turned me off from being close friends with him. He stereotypes a lot.IP: Logged |
peregrine Knowflake Posts: 135 From: The Lion's Den Registered: Apr 2012
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posted January 30, 2013 12:04 AM
^what sucked you in?IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 3483 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 30, 2013 12:13 AM
I'm sensitive, and my first reading of a person usually catches a lot. So if I like them at first, I tend to keep on liking them. I actually can't think of a situation where I grew to dislike a person, usually I just adapt to whatever details come out over time, after I've gotten a handle on their vibe, so to speak. Romantic feelings have gone away 180, though...even if I still liked the guys as friends. But that happened so commonly, I wouldn't be able to find a pattern. I think it's me with my Venus-Neptune. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 3745 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 30, 2013 12:15 AM
quote: Originally posted by peregrine: ^what sucked you in?
I don't know, it was the weirdest thing! We worked together for four months and he never engaged me in conversation, then all of a sudden it got around that his fiance broke up with him and started dating his now former best friend. I felt bad for him and he was really open about it which I thought was cool.... but that openness turned into self-centeredness. Months (and months later after I became more objective again) he would text me after weeks of not talking "I got a new tattoo!" and not even ask how I'm doing. So to answer your question, I sympathized with him. And then I discovered he knew what being an empath was, so I thought he was open minded spiritually, which wasn't the case. We were just friends though, nothing romantic although I think he would've taken it there had a mutual friend not spilled the beans of him (the guy, not the mutual friend) admitting he wanted to try messing around with guys. I don't have anything against sexual experimentation in general, but have to draw a line when it comes to the person I'm dating directly. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 25 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 30, 2013 09:47 AM
hannaramaaYeah. I had this with a Scorpio ASC, Libra Sun, Pisces Moon, Mercury in Virgo (I don't know the rest) but our synastry was FULL of squares. I mean so much red tape in that chart you'd think we were in debt. I really liked him and I thought he was different but after awhile I began realizing his ignorance wasn't fake and it really turned me off from being close friends with him. He stereotypes a lot. Don't you just find that annoying? Arghhhh!!!! I had a friend who was like that. We are not on speaking terms anynore. Nothing hectic really, its just that we just grew apart. Another thing I dislike is conventional/rigid/academic thinking. Geesh! But I guess it falls under the same umbrella! IP: Logged |