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Topic: Can someone look at my composite chart with lover?
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ScorpioLove Newflake Posts: 16 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted February 01, 2013 10:34 AM
I'm actually new to this and I'm not sure if I made the chart right but if anyone can help me out I'll greatly appreciate it ! IP: Logged |
ScorpioLove Newflake Posts: 16 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted February 01, 2013 03:56 PM
Can someone pleaaaaaaase interpret our chart? IP: Logged |
Haplesschild* Knowflake Posts: 633 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 01, 2013 04:12 PM
You guys have really big communication issues don't you? And find it hard to understand and 'speak' the same language often? You feel a bond definitely, but being with him is also very frustrating. Often you feel alittle stiffled. The synastry shows some connection (especially with the node conjunct descendant and sun near asc, but the mercury squares and the mercury square mars suggest easy irritation and lack of harmony.IP: Logged |
starfairy Knowflake Posts: 169 From: los angeles, california, USA Registered: Jul 2010
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posted February 01, 2013 05:08 PM
I agree with the communication problems.. Mercury sq mercury sucks. The square from your mars and Pluto to his mercury can mean arguments. Moon sq moon can be tricky. Different temperaments. You might find him cold and distant while he may find your directness off-putting. His Uranus sq your moon may make you feel he is distant and unreliable. You may feel his feelings are very on-off with you. Your sun is right on his asc so you find him quite attractive. You planets aspect his Venus quite well which is great, but you Venus doesn't aspect his planets as strongly. I'm sure he feels adored by you, though. I like the double sun-mars trine, and his saturn trine your sun. Your descendant mars Pluto are on his north node which is very powerful. I think you can help him with developing his individuality and sense of self. With so many of your masculine planets in his first house, I'm sure you're very attracted. Your Venus in his 12th house might make you feel a bit invisible. I see a sexual attraction, but the intellectual and emotional connections may be lacking. There may be fights and arguments. With your Venus square your natal Neptune/uranus conjunction in your chart , you have to be careful in regards to overly idealizing your partners. It shows that the people you attract may tend to be deceptive or unstable IP: Logged |
ScorpioLove Newflake Posts: 16 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted February 01, 2013 05:29 PM
Yes definitely our communication gets mixed up which causes arguments and a lot of the other stuff you both said are very true! Is there a lasting potential that can be seen? Thank you very much btw.IP: Logged |
Haplesschild* Knowflake Posts: 633 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 01, 2013 05:57 PM
I'm sorry but I don't think it would last that long, you guys have pretty hard aspects and moon square moon (by sign) and mercury square mercury will just push a wedge between you. Moon square moon means you'll never really bond on a deeper level because your emotional temperament differs too much from each other. There's no common ground.IP: Logged |
ScorpioLove Newflake Posts: 16 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted February 01, 2013 07:08 PM
That makes me sad we've been close for three years now and a relationship for one, thank you so much! is there a way you can tell what age I'll get married? IP: Logged |
pire Knowflake Posts: 2098 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 01, 2013 09:19 PM
a stranger tells you that ^^^ and you believe it? no offence haplesschild or starfairy, but it is a fact, we are all strangersIP: Logged |
pire Knowflake Posts: 2098 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 01, 2013 09:35 PM
If I try to outline what works, his rising is conjunct your sun meaning you have a lot in common, more than words (mercury) can create, the ruler of his chart is pluto (being a scorp rising), pluto and his north node are both conjunct your DSC, which is significant. it means your asc is conjunct his south node, considering the asc changes degree every 4 minutes, it is quite a big thing to have it conjunct your lover and 3 years friend south node. I use whole sign house system personally and here your moon is in aries while his north node (what he's going to learn) is in the 1st house, I consider it similar energies. your moon is in your 12th house while his sun is in pisces, again very similar enrgies experienced differently. same for your MC and IC being in opposite signs. what is the foundation (IC) for one is what the other is aspiring to be (MC)I know it is very tempting to protect oneself by trying to identify beforehand pitfalls and challenges, I have done it in the past. but from my experience, it is useless. because those who do it are often single. IP: Logged |
Haplesschild* Knowflake Posts: 633 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 01, 2013 09:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by pire: If I try to outline what works, his rising is conjunct your sun meaning you have a lot in common, more than words (mercury) can create, the ruler of his chart is pluto (being a scorp rising), pluto and his north node are both conjunct your DSC, which is significant. it means your asc is conjunct his south node, considering the asc changes degree every 4 minutes, it is quite a big thing to have it conjunct your lover and 3 years friend south node. I use whole sign house system personally and here your moon is in aries while his north node (what he's going to learn) is in the 1st house, I consider it similar energies. your moon is in your 12th house while his sun is in pisces, again very similar enrgies experienced differently. same for your MC and IC being in opposite signs. what is the foundation (IC) for one is what the other is aspiring to be (MC)I know it is very tempting to protect oneself by trying to identify beforehand pitfalls and challenges, I have done it in the past. but from my experience, it is useless. because those who do it are often single.
Angles conjuncting node closely are always significant but it does not indicate a long lasting relationship, it just means these people come into your life for a purpose, to teach you something. Seeing that they have lots of fundamental differences, and based on my experiences, most synastry aspects always play out. I've dated guys with mars square my mercury or mercury square their mercury and even when we had lots of great aspects, the communication differences and basic emotional differences is just too much to overcome. Sun is just one layer of a person while mercury is not just words, it's your whole mental process. Their mercuries clash so they have problems understanding each other regardless of sun conjunct asc. I used to have an ex with his moon near my asc, his moon also opposed my moon and venus, his venus sextiled my moon and venus and his sun conjuncted my MC and trined my sun. However, his mercury squared my mercury and though we clicked, we just found understanding each other very difficult quite often. So I'd put more stock on mercury actually, cos I think to have a long relationship the mercury aspects are actually really important? The way one thinks determines their actions, reactions and impulses. IP: Logged |
pire Knowflake Posts: 2098 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 01, 2013 09:55 PM
may be...in any case, I didn't mean to offend you IP: Logged |
Haplesschild* Knowflake Posts: 633 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 01, 2013 09:59 PM
Lol wtf, you didn't offend me. o_O I just posted my perspective based on my experiences.IP: Logged |
pire Knowflake Posts: 2098 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 01, 2013 10:06 PM
good IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 25049 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 01, 2013 10:14 PM
Welcome!------------------ "Don't worry about the world coming to an end today. It's already tomorrow in Australia." Charles Schultz IP: Logged |
starfairy Knowflake Posts: 169 From: los angeles, california, USA Registered: Jul 2010
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posted February 01, 2013 11:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by pire: a stranger tells you that ^^^ and you believe it? no offence haplesschild or starfairy, but it is a fact, we are all strangers
She told us a lot of what we said was true. I'm reading her chart like she's asking us to. If she didn't want an opinion on her chart, she wouldn't have posted it, or asked if we see potential. IP: Logged |