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Topic: Been thinking....more than usual....'bout my disapproval of Virgo's..
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charlie
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From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 02, 2013 12:17 PM
  
When I say that I can't stand them I really mean it! And I have met many..even dated a few. Now, I DO have a Virgo Asc conj. Mars. Mars however, sits at 29 degrees in 12H. So my chart ruler is Mercury and my Natal Mercury is in a stellium in 11H and I have Uranus in the 3H. By delineation, Mercury is also the highest ranking planet, by FAR, followed by Uranus. By Progression, I still have a Virgo Asc and drum roll..........a Mercury, Venus and Mars all on top of eachother at the very end of 12H. And, for some bloody reason, every year, my Solar Return chart seems to deposit personal planets in the 6H. This year it happens to be Moon and Venus. I am starting to think I don't like other Virgo's and their traits because I have the same very traits....and thus I don't like myself. Or is it Mercurial tendencies I don't like? But that wouldn't make ANY sense because I ADORE Gemini's!! Thoughts? IP: Logged |
Debby4
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From: TX,USA
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted February 02, 2013 12:25 PM
Most people don't like things that are TOO similar to them. It's called psychology.  We want adventure!IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted February 02, 2013 01:15 PM
Charlie, yes.. I think it might be a projection problem. If you have prominent Virgo yourself, but that for some reason you don't like it, obviously you won't like it in others.And maybe you keep attracting Virgo-influenced people so you can learn to see their positives, too, and subsequently see these good parts in you and accept and integrate them? IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted February 02, 2013 01:18 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Charlie, yes.. I think it might be a projection problem. If you have prominent Virgo yourself, but that for some reason you don't like it, obviously you won't like it in others.And maybe you keep attracting Virgo-influenced people so you can learn to see their positives, too, and subsequently see these good parts in you and accept and integrate them?
Man, I am trying!! I really am. I have been on a "spiritual journey" the past year but I think I need to dig deeper and release some unwanted patterns within myself. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted February 02, 2013 01:33 PM
Well, what matters is that you're trying, so you're on your way. You are self-aware, and it's a very good thing.And maybe, just maybe, you need to find that one Virgo person who can make you change your mind about them. IP: Logged |
starfairy
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From: los angeles, california, USA
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posted February 02, 2013 02:00 PM
Familiarity breeds contempt I can relate to you.. I have Sag Sun and Ascendant, but I'd never date a Sag! A know-it-all cannot date another know-it-all! I have good Sag girl friends, though. The men are just too annoying and cocky for my taste. With your Mars in Virgo, perhaps people who have planets on it annoy you because they bring out your Martian energy. Strong aspects to Mars can definitely indicate sexual attraction, but also annoyances, irritability, conflict, etc.. I'm sure Virgos are very attracted to you, though. IP: Logged |
andstuff
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posted February 02, 2013 03:11 PM
God.. I don't think acknowledging and integrating is not quite it. If you truly dislike certain traits, why not just eradicate them in yourself, lol? As opposed to "I'm a shy boring earth sign, let's see how I can integrate and embrace this" You are not obliged to be what you don't wanna be  IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted February 02, 2013 03:13 PM
^  starfairy has a good point.. andstuff too. Which one will you choose, Charlie? haha. IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 329
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Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 02, 2013 03:18 PM
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Originally posted by andstuff:
God.. I don't think acknowledging and integrating is not quite it. If you truly dislike certain traits, why not just eradicate them in yourself, lol? As opposed to "I'm a shy boring earth sign, let's see how I can integrate and embrace this" You are not obliged to be what you don't wanna be
HA!! True.. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 02, 2013 03:25 PM
What about virgos annoy you? I love them, they're always awesome to study with, they're the friend that gives you good advice. They will tell you not to drink anymore when you're shitt faced and pouring drinks on people you don't like..
I'm not attracted to them but I see them as a little sister (Yes, even if they're are men) The virgo guys are kind of girly. heh
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charlie
Knowflake Posts: 329
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 02, 2013 03:34 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
What about virgos annoy you? I love them, they're always awesome to study with, they're the friend that gives you good advice. They will tell you not to drink anymore when you're shitt faced and pouring drinks on people you don't like..
I'm not attracted to them but I see them as a little sister (Yes, even if they're are men) The virgo guys are kind of girly. heh
I couldn't honestly tell you. It's an instantaneous and emotional reaction. I think it might have something to do with activating my Mars and it makes me aggressive, sometimes to the point where I have felt I could actually have gotten physical. :-/ Picture yourself walking towards a black alley and something inside of you says "NO, don't go there!!" That's how I feel with Virgo's. I can't go "there" because something will happen. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted February 02, 2013 03:38 PM
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HAHA they sure won't jump you, they'll probably just criticize your outfitIP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 329
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Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 02, 2013 03:40 PM
And to the rest of you:I read somewhere that having Mars in the 12H will evoke negative feelings towards the sign Mars is in. The person in topic had Mars in Leo and he detested Leo's without knowing exactly why. Can't remember if he had a Leo ascendant. So could it be that having Mars conj. Ascendant will make One feel aggressive towards the negative traits of that sign? Almost as if you want to "punish" the other person for not seeing the lack of "perfection" that Mars OBVIOUSLY has! (that last part was sarcasm...  ) IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted February 02, 2013 03:46 PM
Well, I guess it could manifest that way.Is your Mars afflicted?
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Kerosene
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From: Mercury
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posted February 02, 2013 03:49 PM
Maybe it is afflicted because most of my relationships were with people who had the same sign as my mars.
I find that to be the norm for most peopleIP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 329
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 02, 2013 04:01 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Well, I guess it could manifest that way.Is your Mars afflicted?
It's square Jupiter (Taurus 9H) and Neptune (Sag 4H) and semi-square Moon (Cap 5H). And some short "black-dotted" line to my Sun in 11H. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted February 02, 2013 04:38 PM
Oh.
Well, that's a quite afflicted Mars, then!
I think the square to Neptune might be it..
Cause Neptune rules Pisces, Virgo's opposite.Anyway, I hope you'll have a better opinion about Virgos, very soon! Some of them really are sweethearts. IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 329
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 02, 2013 04:44 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Oh.
Well, that's a quite afflicted Mars, then!
I think the square to Neptune might be it..
Cause Neptune rules Pisces, Virgo's opposite.Anyway, I hope you'll have a better opinion about Virgos, very soon! Some of them really are sweethearts.
Hmmm...so basically, all these years, I've been running away from Virgo's and ended up with Pisces' and created all kinds of messed up situations? Because Neptune has made everything a tad "blurry"? Everthing is SO easy with Pisces' and SO hard with Virgo's! Like night and day. You seem nice! As most of people here. And thank you for all of your thoughts!! I appreciate it very much! IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted February 02, 2013 04:52 PM
Pisces is on your DSC!
That may be why.But hey, it's okay if you don't get along with some people or don't really like them. Stick to the Fish
Aww, thank you!
When I'm feeling good, all I wanna do is connect with people in a well-mannered, cute way - I have a Libra Venus <3
And yes.. people here are really sweet, for the most part. That includes you too! 
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peregrine
Knowflake Posts: 390
From: Finding my place in the cosmos
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted February 02, 2013 11:54 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Pisces is on your DSC!
That may be why.
Good observation. Scorp is the least likely sign I am attracted to. It's the opposite sign of my taurus dsc. IP: Logged |
Baizzatbari
Knowflake Posts: 66
From: India
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted February 03, 2013 06:48 AM
well charlie may I ask your sun sign? Well things are about to change for virgos and taurus as their foster rulership is about to expire. Nobody has explained the new Taurus or Virgo. Only Linda has explained virgo and that too in tidbits here and there. But I have felt changes to my character, mental faculties and good luck as my sun, mercury and jupiter are in virgo.
When I see older virgos who have mercury's effect still lingering, I see the earlier myself as a jerk, insensitive, uncaring,cruel, cold hearted and pray to God I dont die in the deepest pits of hell for it.
Now mercury rules mind and is an affliction on virgo. So a virgo ruled by mercury is mentally handicapped and dont make fun of him/her. That person's brain is a tumour in itself forget about brain tumours. Would you make fun of such a person? Would you? P.s. I m a true virgo male in case you missed it and I am a person who still has flaws but not a flaw who is a person.  IP: Logged |
luisbunuel
Knowflake Posts: 156
From: Hampshire, England
Registered: May 2009
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posted February 04, 2013 07:15 AM
VIRGOS, not Virgo's!!With a typing error like that in your opening post, I'm not sure why any Virgo would like you! IP: Logged |
Got Gemini??
Knowflake Posts: 625
From: The Planet Mercury
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted February 04, 2013 08:51 AM
I also have Virgo Asc conjunct Mars by 6°. I used to absolutely DESPISE Virgos due to a few bad experiences with some. Then I came here and met a Virgo female and we were instant friends back in 2007 or 2008.She doesn't post here anymore but man, she's super awesome! Because of my friendship with her, I started to rethink about my disdain for Virgos and now I really like Virgos! While I don't like the nagginess in some of them, I found out that not all of them are like that. Most I have noticed are very laid back! ------------------
Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |
Orange
Knowflake Posts: 137
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted February 04, 2013 09:13 AM
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Originally posted by luisbunuel:
VIRGOS, not Virgo's!!With a typing error like that in your opening post, I'm not sure why any Virgo would like you!
LOL
I like you!! ~ from another Virgo IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 329
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 04, 2013 10:57 AM
Luis or Louis?OMG!! You just gave me a idea!!! If I keep making speling error's no Virgo will ever look/talk/yell at me agian!!!! Thank you!!!!!!!!
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