posted February 02, 2013 10:14 PM            

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I must say, I really indentify with all of that so strongly. Where did you find it if you do not mind?

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posted February 02, 2013 10:20 PM            

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Originally posted by violet7887:
My dads a Libra Mars and I get along with him just fine, dont know why that is. We are usually able to agree most of the time. It is like okay I respect your views and you respect mine, lets end it at that. In my fam I seem to have much greater issues with my mother and sister in terms of communication. Not that we have bad relationships, that way we are just fine but the communication factor is very low. My moms a taurus mars while my sisters a taurus moon, i'm startng to think that is the pattern for some reason. I have a [b]very hard time with stubborn people.

and yeah I'll put this out there the three worst words someone can say to a Cancer mars or porminant cancer person are "I dont care." I am very put off and angered by selfish behavior. Like take responsibility for your actions !

And yeah, Cancer Mars, totally aWsome placement! =][/B]

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LoL Sorry for being honest. I have 5 planets in Water. When I would have confrontation with my brother he would always act like he was superior or better then me. Always made sure that it was known that hes Alpha dog. We would have heated words between each others... That was when I was young Violet. Maybe 8 to 10 years old. Had a temper problem for sure. I didn't know how to control my outburst because it felt as if I was flooded and over-taken by a pool of emotions. Actually felt like a wave of heat would suddenly strike me.

It just offends me when somebody must have their say... Then when it comes towards hearing you out they make sure its known that they don't care about what you have to say. Its like putting salt on an open wound for me. Feeling attacked - Getting defensive but over-reacting by being too sensitive. Its easier to prove a point then to defend one.

Rejection of your own blood sucks. My brother ALWAYS said that him and my sister were a different generation then me. They were born during a "Different Era"...For Pete's sake the man is 3 years older then me.

We get along great now tho. Took us to adults to solve our differences and conflicts. My brother told me a few months back before I jumped on a train to the other side of the country...

"I will always love you Allan, you will always be my brother regardless."

Both my sister and brother have Pluto conjunct Mars in Libra. We all knew how to fight growing up. Dad did 3 tours of Vietnam himself. So war was reality at home. We saw first-hand the destruction of War. Dad has many mental illnesses. Though its not his fault he served his country and was drafted. He did his civil duty by reporting to the armory.

When I say I Don't Care... Maybe I mean more-so you don't appreciate me as a human. If were going to put a "Feel" behind those words that's what they would be.

My family are the only people that know how to make me feel vulnerable. two Sag Parents, Leo Sister, Aries Brother and the black-sheep Cancer-Self. It wasn't until about 23 years old that I realized not to take them so seriously. Like a light clicked and turned inside my head all the sudden. My family really does like to fight. Not violent throw fists though but very argumentative. They scream and get mad at each others frequently. About 15 minutes later after their heated debates their over it and laughing again. My family will proudly admit there a bunch of a-holes. We make fun of you to show that we love you. I admire fire signs. They can resolve a conflict just as fast as they got into one.

Myself, I always took every word thrown around to heart. The fight replays inside my head over-and-over...It just doesn't feel right. Its important for A Cancer to feel that we are understood and accepted by others. Especially when it comes towards are families. Cancers like peaceful homes where everybody feels secure and at peace.

I got Sun/Mars/Mercury in Cancer btw. So its not just Mars. Might be a collective blend of those signs. Libra is squared to Cancer its considered to be tense relationship. Good to hear that you had a wonderful connection with your Father. Though think of it... Sibling's are supposed to make your life hell. Though they protect you from anybody else besides themselves from picking on you.

Its all outta love lol

Air isn't that understanding of Water. Emotions make no logical or rational sense. My passions are driven by my emotions. Libra is WAY better with words then a Cancer is. Water has a hard time verbalizing their motives and can't put things into words that easily. Libra wants a coherent answer that makes logical sense. My emotions don't make any sense to the Libra. Hardly can I express myself in words. I'm daised and confused... Air-headed spaced out Cancer energy lol I just know that it feels right, gut just KNOWS. Think how that feels growing up from a child's perspective. Nothing I said is taken seriously (then again indirectly nobody takes anybody seriously apparently)

Give me a hug, accept me regardless if I don't make sense. Just hear me out...Please don't put labels on me! Don't tell me I am wrong. Its just how I feel how can that be wrong?

Yada Yada excreta...excreta... lol I'll stop rambling here.

posted February 02, 2013 10:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Sugarplum:
astro-rayology something like that.

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posted February 02, 2013 11:12 PM            

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hehe i feel the same way when provoked i take it personal :P. The hitting part idk haha

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I think that's because Cancer is a Cardinal sign 2PM. We want and desire to be in control. Even though we are the reluctant leaders of the Zodiac...Regardless we do tend to take the leadership role and take on personal responsibilities towards others. Others do seem to put their trust and faith in us. Cardinal is where we take action. Its the cardinal signs that are the initiators of the zodiac. Provoking Cancer Mars is like asking to be stared down as an idiot. Deliberately being mean is punishable...Its offensive.

Personally for me its more offensive if its towards somebody else other then myself... Even if its a complete stranger best bet I will get aggressive and protective (not defensive cause I'm already set that I am going to put you back in your place), and finally confrontational. Hate gossip. You really don't see Cancer energy as really being mean towards others. Our humor is never insulting or at the expense of somebody else. We don't go out of our way to pick on others or bully. Seeing somebody doing that to another individual makes me feel like its my right to put the tyrant back into their place.

I got a tough shell...It doesn't break that easy. Insult me all you want tho. I'm used to being misunderstood and taken wrong on first contact. If you just got to know me, you would think differently. Confidence in myself.

posted February 02, 2013 11:48 PM            

Hi, lol no problem rant all you like

I can totally understand where your coming from. Feeling everything out is how we go by. I am Moon, Mercury and Mars in Cancer myself but then I am also Air sun and rising. I am Lobra rising so that maybe why I can stand that square just a little better.I think Cancer influenced people have a very primal need to clearly understand all situations and people becuase comfort or comforting is important to us.We need to know eveyone around us is happy and healthy. This is exactly why I think we can loose it really fast with others when they are not willing to open up to a better understanding.

posted February 03, 2013 12:27 AM            

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@allanbeau

Hi, lol no problem rant all you like

I can totally understand where your coming from. Feeling everything out is how we go by. I am Moon, Mercury and Mars in Cancer myself but then I am also Air sun and rising. I am Lobra rising so that maybe why I can stand that square just a little better.I think Cancer influenced people have a very primal need to clearly understand all situations and people becuase comfort or comforting is important to us.We need to know eveyone around us is happy and healthy. This is exactly why I think we can loose it really fast with others when they are not willing to open up to a better understanding.

Anyway, you are the only Cancer in a fire family, ouch! although I am sure you find your ways to find good understanding in that too! I would love to go on but I have just had travel vaccinations and my god im about to pass out! they have got me feeling doozy. good night for now zzzzZZZ.

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Sleep well Violet. Enjoy your beauty rest!

Yeah the only planet I have in Air-Jupiter Aquarius and for Fire Uranus-Sagittarius.

I'm ALL Water/Earth...Lack a complete polarity! Most of my planets are in Feminine signs and houses. Makes me wonder what happens being unbalanced that way. lol

People complain about being Water/Fire or Earth/Air and I find a flaw in two compatible elements.

I'm the alien of the family!

Though I will say fire people seem to be the only people that can put up with me in the long-run.

Air and Fire seems to accept me more-so then Water and Earth signs... In all honest truth. Too much Water for Earth people...Too much Earth for Water types.

Libra is just the only one that confuses me the most.

The rest see me as being strange... But interesting. Intriguing. Maybe cause i'm void of it. Comes off as being odd. Usually people are attracted towards what is unique or different. Nobody wants to be known as normal. Though I have no choice in that matter. I would LOVE to be normal. Swear being left-handed automatically makes you different from others lol

I would rather be a new soul over an old dusty soul :P ANY DAY! Besides most people that talk about being an old soul sound like they live miserable lives. One that is full of hardships and set backs. Or some kind of flaw... A martyr with a lot of excess karma baggage! Never really read about the "old soul" as living a carefree and simple life...Just enjoying the roses. Taking life easy. Being in love with love. NOPE Always tormented and punished souls. Would think if you did good, accumulated karma would reward you the simple pleasures and delights... To wonder, dream and to be amazed.

posted February 03, 2013 01:21 AM            

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i love guys with mars in pisces or cancer bc it makes them adorable, even tho a bit effeminate...still freakin adorable

As a cancer sun, i obv love that.

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Yeah I agree with you... Mars in Pisces people are definitely a rare gem. To me they are just as passionate as Aries Mars. Care for a lot of people... Truly empathetic and have that weird ability to cheer you up when you are down. Having one fight for you, its kinda shocking how devoted they can be towards a cause. There quite fierce with emotional displays of affection. They don't give up that easy.

You know in classical astrology if Mars is at the end of Pisces its EXTREMELY Powerful...As its in term, face and in element. (Even more-so then Capricorn, Aries, or Scorpio) Mars rules over the Water element in classical astrology.. Go figure!

You know Mars in Scorpio people arn't too bad. They arn't all too aggressive and competitive as you would think. They just know that they are passionate and powerful. Make love not war. It could be cause I got Mars in Cancer I seem to bring out a softer side of Scorpio Mars. They don't really challenge people. Not really that confrontational. I don't know if its a wise choice to get into conflict with these people tho. Cancer Mars to me is more aggressive and likely to attack you then Scorpio Mars. These people don't just get into useless, pointless fights. Usually liked by most people. Total sex addicts tho. Always complaining about not getting enough!

posted February 03, 2013 07:44 AM            

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Still not bad as a Libra Mars though. Worst affliction for mars.
We dont have much stamina after a argument. We retire into 2-3 days of rest,music and leisure.
Secondly the mind wanders too much into girls and marriage.
Particularly Libran girls.
It can be quite a contradictory if you are a work oriented sign like virgo.
Believe me a cancer mars is way better

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Well you know Baizzatbari that's not completely true of my Mother. She works non-stop like a power house. She has been working in the same hospital for 42 years. Always wore high heels and dresses to work. It did take a toll on her back wearing heels over the years.

She did struggle with being over-weight most of her life...In her late 40's she managed to lose 200 pounds from exercising and dieting alone. Now she goes to the gym all the time. I'm going to have to look at her chart and see if that Mars makes any aspects.

Growing up she was OBSESSED with romance novels. Would read a huge black garbage bag full of books in a week tops. Parents have been divorced and remarried to each others 3 times so far over a 35 year period. When she was divorced from my father she didn't date anybody. Didn't have her eyes set on any man. Just escaped in her romance novels.

Mars conjuncts Neptune and trines Jupiter.

Also my Brother and Sister have Mars in Libra.

You know Libra can also be related to war. Conflict can be caused by polarization.

"As above, As below" - All is fair in love and war.

My family LOVES to have arguments from my perspective anyways. If they don't like to argue surely they don't know how to back down from one. I need to study Libra Mars in more depth. Maybe that will be my next research.

My sister doesn't date anybody. She has a baby daddy and seems to be married to her child. Not interested in relationships at all. Though I always thought that's cause she has a Capricorn Moon. Not easy for her to share her emotional self with others.

My brother dumped his Leo girlfriend because she didn't eat vegetables. That's messed up lol Just think how insulting a Leo would take that for a reason for being dumped. He thought it was disgusting that she only ate junk food.

Do you think that Libra Mars could indirectly cause the opposite effect and cause disruptions in relationships? Its not like Mars takes on Venus traits. Though we seem to unconsciously confuse Venus and Libra like they are interchangeable (Like look at Taurus for instance. That's a face of Venus that really doesn't have nothing to do with "Love", its about "Self-Worth") Mars is the planet of War and Strife. Maybe it causes disruption in relationships.

I read somewhere that Mars and Venus really can't take the attributes of one and another because they are completely opposite in expression. I think it was something I read while dabbling into Vedic astrology. It stuck in my head. Makes since to me cause one planet is seen as the Masculine and the other the Feminine.

Oh well... If others on this thread say Cancer Mars isn't all too bad. Then Libra can't be too bad :P . Mars is annoying planet anyways. Always causing some sort of disruption regardless what sign he is in. It is known as the *Lesser Malefic* for a reason.

My dad has Mars in Capricorn...That's supposed to be exalted. He feels like he restricted himself and limited his choices in life because of being obligated towards his family. Always regrets being an MBA Accountant and getting into business. Told me if I was to ever get into accounting he would shoot me in the head.

posted February 03, 2013 08:04 AM            

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and yeah I'll put this out there the three worst words someone can say to a Cancer mars or porminant cancer person are "I dont care." I am very put off and angered by selfish behavior. Like take responsibility for your actions !

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Really?? The opponent whom I want to crush has Mars in Cancer. Heard them utter the "I don't care" line, and it sounded so hollow. Now I know why.

posted February 03, 2013 09:14 AM            

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Really?? The opponent whom I want to crush has Mars in Cancer. Heard them utter the "I don't care" line, and it sounded so hollow. Now I know why.

Nice, I needed ammo for the upcoming week. Good stuff.

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Your funny Nine lol

Yeah that's a lie coming outta that Cancer Mars mouth. "I don't care" under the breathe probably was a projected fear. Cause I just know I can't stand people saying that to me. If I was to say I don't care...That's probably from having a sensory overload.

Bet that person cares *all* too much what you have to say.

Ignore them. Don't give them your attention. When your around that person don't show any enthusiasm. Turn it around and say I don't care. Don't speak another word. Let the Cancer Mars boil up inside. We thrive on reactions. Cancer is pretty subjective and reactive of a sign. When the person tries to explain themselves...Say

"Yeah, yeah I already know what your going to say. Don't got to tell me anymore your pretty predictable".

I can't stand others telling me what I was thinking. Don't give this person a cookie or a bone. I have a feeling this person takes you personally already. The more you ignore the more ****** off they get.

"I don't need you to explain something I already know".

Huh you didn't even allow me to explain myself.

Totally step on the toes. Now the anger comes on, attention is attention. This is where your tone of voice becomes dull and uninterested. When that person tries to defend themselves, cross talk.

"No, No I don't have the time to hear you out. I'm far too busy, it will have to be some other time."

"really I don't care this is silly non-sense anyways"

Don't give them a period or a time. Leave the Cancer Mars blind. Not later today or in a few hours. Just sometime in the future.

Leave the scene like you have more important things to do then to deal with this person.

If they try to stop you. Reassure them that you don't need their input. You already pretty much know and understand.

Not being able to explain myself when I just feel like I have to is one of the most crappiest feelings. Were Cardinal signs afterall...Impatient by nature.

This is just a situation if you were like a co-worker with this person. Play with the formula a bit. Dont minimize me!

Minimisation -When one avoids acknowledging and dealing with negative emotions by reducing the importance and impact of events that give rise to those emotions.

"It's not that big of a deal"

posted February 03, 2013 11:06 AM            

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Your funny Nine lol

Yeah that's a lie coming outta that Cancer Mars mouth. "I don't care" under the breathe probably was a projected fear. Cause I just know I can't stand people saying that to me. If I was to say I don't care...That's probably from having a sensory overload.

Bet that person cares *all* too much what you have to say.

Ignore them. Don't give them your attention. When your around that person don't show any enthusiasm. Turn it around and say I don't care. Don't speak another word. Let the Cancer Mars boil up inside. We thrive on reactions. Cancer is pretty subjective and reactive of a sign. When the person tries to explain themselves...Say

"Yeah, yeah I already know what your going to say. Don't got to tell me anymore your pretty predictable".

I can't stand others telling me what I was thinking. Don't give this person a cookie or a bone. I have a feeling this person takes you personally already. The more you ignore the more ****** off they get.

"I don't need you to explain something I already know".

Huh you didn't even allow me to explain myself.

Totally step on the toes. Now the anger comes on, attention is attention. This is where your tone of voice becomes dull and uninterested. When that person tries to defend themselves, cross talk.

"No, No I don't have the time to hear you out. I'm far too busy, it will have to be some other time."

"really I don't care this is silly non-sense anyways"

Don't give them a period or a time. Leave the Cancer Mars blind. Not later today or in a few hours. Just sometime in the future.

Leave the scene like you have more important things to do then to deal with this person.

If they try to stop you. Reassure them that you don't need their input. You already pretty much know and understand.

Not being able to explain myself when I just feel like I have to is one of the most crappiest feelings. Were Cardinal signs afterall...Impatient by nature.

This is just a situation if you were like a co-worker with this person. Play with the formula a bit. Dont minimize me!

Minimisation -When one avoids acknowledging and dealing with negative emotions by reducing the importance and impact of events that give rise to those emotions.

"It's not that big of a deal"

Oh well here I go rambling on again lol

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Good stuff. Thanks Allan

posted February 03, 2013 11:56 AM            

They would **** me off, then I would **** them off, on and on it went until I just wanted out. So it came as a pleasure when they stopped talking to me, and cut all contact.

Then I don't know what signals I was sending but MiC felt it safe to put out feelers, and I rejected them. I was happy with the new arrangement. From here they became hostile - telling nasty stories about me and manipulating our mutual friends to side with them.

In the past week they scored a major coup. Someone I counted as a dear friend and hoped would at least take a neutral stance (I'm not one for exclusive friendships) jumped on on their side. I'd like to think I'm not bothered by it, but I do feel let down.

posted February 03, 2013 11:59 AM            

I have a lot of friends with Cancer Mars. As much as I loved my ex-husband and care for my friends, my opinion of Cancer Mars is pretty low.

First off, Mars is the physical ego. The Sun is your vitality and theoretical ego, but Mars is how you can crystallize your ego/will on the most real terms. Because of that, Capricorn Mars is exalted because it is the most well controlled sign to control Mars. Aries and Scorpio are both very confident and well anchored to be domicile. Taurus is detriment as it has the danger of being indulgent.

I think Cancer Mars is the most busted Mars position, much akin to a flaccid penis. I find that people with Cancer Mars are so very quickly prone to whining and pouting/crying instead of just DOING something about it.

It's as if Cancer Mars is comfortable at complaining and content with zero changes even though they actually do want change. The lack of control and motivation is not appealing and really useless. There's like a foundation of ineptness that goes with Cancer Mars that I find just totally unacceptable and annoying.

posted February 03, 2013 12:34 PM            

Some manifestations of Cancer mars within myself:
-Action based on my feelings (ALWAYS) - if I am feeling well then I everything is fine, if I am feeling bad everyone notices it, since it's directly manifested in my actions (moon-mars sextil may influence this too);
-Indirect ways of manifest anger (yeah a bit lame :/) but it's against my nature to use anger in a direct/out-lashing way - which just happens if someone really crosses the line with myself and others;
-Highly protective of others, babysitting, I care way to much for others feelings and try to make everyone feeling well contributing to the harmony on the outside;
-Tenacity, home protecting, perseverance, however I at the same time highly non-conventional, traditional breaking, rebellious action (which may happens from the uranus opposition in my chart);
-Highly attuned to authority issues, authority breaking, system milking (which in my case, may come from the sun-mars square);
-My family gets me so angry and sometimes I can't even explain it, it's like they all want to control you/ have power over you (again, I also have sun in 4th +squaring my sun);
-Emotional outlets for anger: listening music, watching movies, etc.

Wow great post Sugarplum.

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1. A tenacious physical body.
2. Blood rushes to solar plexus
3. Weakening, devitalizing etheric body through astral influence. The astral body is directly connected to the physical body. Loss of vitality because of emotionalism
4. The power of great devotion, especially to one’s blood family and (later in the evolutionary process) those who are considered to be an extended family.
5. Later—lots of devotion
6. Patriotism: fighting for the “Motherland”; ability to defend; sentinel
7. Hunger project; fighting for the nurturance and protection of humanity.
8. Courage in the help of one’s family. Courageous devotion to family, and to near and dear.
9. Struggle for survival; survival of the fittest.
10. Fourth elemental—the personality, the dominant controlling lunar lord ruled generically by the number four will be empowered in this fourth sign. Feeding lower personality with solar plexus en
11. Dangerous if threatened—the “Mother Bear” in defense of her cubs.
12. Disturbances and fights in one’s family life.[/B]
13. Abuse within the home
14. Strong fears and hostility—family life not peaceful
15. Defensiveness
16. Constant irritation
17. Arousal of instinctual nature; unconscious insecurities.
18. Psychological projections on ‘them’; xenophobia
19. Jealousy based upon insecurity.
20. Aggressiveness, in defense of loved ones.

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posted February 03, 2013 01:33 PM            

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I was married to a Leo Sun/Scorpio Moon/Virgo Rising/Cancer Mars.

I have a lot of friends with Cancer Mars. As much as I loved my ex-husband and care for my friends, my opinion of Cancer Mars is pretty low.

First off, Mars is the physical ego. The Sun is your vitality and theoretical ego, but Mars is how you can crystallize your ego/will on the most real terms. Because of that, Capricorn Mars is exalted because it is the most well controlled sign to control Mars. Aries and Scorpio are both very confident and well anchored to be domicile. Taurus is detriment as it has the danger of being indulgent.

I think Cancer Mars is the most busted Mars position, much akin to a flaccid penis. I find that people with Cancer Mars are so very quickly prone to whining and pouting/crying instead of just DOING something about it.

It's as if Cancer Mars is comfortable at complaining and content with zero changes even though they actually do want change. The lack of control and motivation is not appealing and really useless. There's like a foundation of ineptness that goes with Cancer Mars that I find just totally unacceptable and annoying.

I haven't met a person with Cancer Mars, no matter how well placed, that hasn't been BUSTED.

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Damn! IM BUSTED. Can I go to the store and get a refund already?

I will agree that I have a hard time going after what I want out of life... But I end up managing. Trust in the Universe and it will provide. Have traveled all over the country by myself. Have explored many worlds. Met many people from many different walks of life. I am a traveling gypsy. Have lived all over the West coast. Lived like a hippy along the Ocean front outta a sleeping bag. Right now I am about 3000 miles away from my parents in the middle of nowhere Texas. Always somewhere different. Might end up going to Wisconsin in a couple months.

I communicate with people from all over the world daily. People love me when they meet me. I Am an amazing person. Others want to protect me. I don't lack sense. Whenever I have been lost I have ALWAYS been able to find my way back home. I trust my intuition completely. It hasn't failed me yet.

Strange for a Cancer Sun/Mars/Mercury. I haven't lived where I have grown up in years. I'm not your typical Cancer. I do have a lot of spirit and not afraid of danger. I don't pout or cry or even whine. I'm a big kid and can put on my own pull-ups training paints...Thank you very much. I've probably cried maybe 5 times tops in my life. Got the biggest smile somebody could have on their face at all times. Hardly ever get sick, can't even recall the last time I've been sick. Very strong immune system for a *Weak* Cancer Mars. Mom breast fed me for 3 years and worked at a hospital. She passed down a strong immune system.

I live on complete instinct. Yeah I might have Mars in Cancer but I also got the SN conjunct Saturn in Scorpio. I'm addicted to losing it all and starting new. Used to it like its normal. Its a vicious cycle...The world will always change for me regardless if I want it to or not. I'm a walking Tower card.

Yeah maybe I am busted like a broken bottle, like a perfume bottle. Most of the fluid has evaporated but there's still a mild scent that still perminates from the empty bottle. The smell, the essence is still alive in me. I refuse to be a victim or to feel powerless, or that I cannot be FIXED!

I got a REALLY nice Penis. Its not flaccid and shriveled all up. Its a grower not a shower. It kinda works like A Mr. Coffee Pot on automatic drip. Very watery. Used to think that I was below average when I was younger... To discover that I am JUST RIGHT! Know how to work it.

My Mars conjunct Sun in Cancer 10th trine Pluto in Scorpio 2nd. I'm good at what I do. And it just comes naturally. Didn't even have to learn. But in all honesty I am really not that sexual as I am sensual. Complete sensationalist - touch, smell, sight...the pleasing of senses. Foreplay is more exciting to be then the actual act of sex. Venus in Taurus likes physical contact.

I have done a lot of Crowley sex magic and tantra. Was with a Scorpio for 4 years. We were in such synch sexually... It was as if we did yoga positions during sex. After ending that relationship I've been celibate for about a year. Go weeks not touching myself.

We all seem to be screwed in some way in my family May. Brother,Sister,Mother all have Mars in Libra. I Mars in Cancer. Dad Mars in Capricorn. All of them in aspect with each others. It makes me wonder what kind of family pattern or karma is associated with it.

Oh well done ranting lol

posted February 03, 2013 02:27 PM            

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Cancer Mars people are very defensive about anything other people say about them because they're not secure within themselves. Being indecisive is akin flaccid penis.

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Ohhhh now I got you May lol Yeah I am very indecisive towards myself. But do things at the drop of the hat without any planning or thought. If its towards directing others, No problems. I can coordinate and lead others. People seem to come to me during times of chaos and crisis being asked for my advice.

Having Sun perfectly opposed Neptune doesn't make it any easier!

posted February 04, 2013 12:05 AM            

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Really?? The opponent whom I want to crush has Mars in Cancer. Heard them utter the "I don't care" line, and it sounded so hollow. Now I know why.

Nice, I needed ammo for the upcoming week. Good stuff.

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ah, your planning revenge? good for you if thats what you like to do. I cant say for sure for who ever it is you speak of but I only mind those words from people I actually care about to begin with. If I really dont care about you, I really dont. Pretty simple no? But I try to keep healthy respect peace for everybody regardless. I'm curious, what are you going to get out of saying those words deliberately ? Pleasure out of someone elses anger? I do not get it.

My god do I need to get off this board. Too many weird people.

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ah, your planning revenge? good for you if thats what you like to do. I cant say for sure for who ever it is you speak of but I only mind those words from people I actually care about to begin with. If I really dont care about you, I really dont.

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They care.

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I'm curious, what are you going to get out of saying those words deliberately ? Pleasure out of someone elses anger? I do not get it.

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It's complicated. But this is someone I trusted who stabbed me in the back, and has since engaged in some nasty behavior - read up on the Aries break up. This person has Aries Asc.

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posted February 09, 2013 03:19 PM            

I'm reading this and its a complete description of myself!

I have Scorpio moon 12th h
Mars/merc cancer 8th h
venus in taurus 7th h