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Topic: What synastry aspects, are the most fatal and destructive in your opinion?
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I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 9778
From: Death Star
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posted July 26, 2013 11:54 AM
  
What's wrong about Mars-Uranus?------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Knowflake Posts: 9926
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posted July 26, 2013 12:01 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
What's wrong about Mars-Uranus?
Nothing if the two people aren't naturally aggressive. If they're more temperamental, it can get ugly. A lot of synastry charts between people who were in an abusive relationship show a Mars / Uranus connection, sometimes Mars / Saturn or even Neptune.
Actually, Mars in hard aspect to *anything* has the potential to lead to violence / abuse. I wouldn't be too scared of Mars / Pluto, personally.
Maybe because I've had it so many times, it just doesn't seem very dangerous. More like.. super sexy. IP: Logged |
saturn_rising
Newflake Posts: 13
From: MA, USA
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted July 26, 2013 12:05 PM
Doux Rêve, *whew* I'm glad to hear you don't put too much emphasis on Nessus. I never did either, but I've been studying up on asteroids lately and was getting concerned about these Nessus aspects I have with my partner. Also, you're right on about "Mars + Saturn, Neptune, Uranus and Pluto hard aspects." I had Mars conjunct Pluto (his Mars, my Pluto) with an ex, and that was the most abusive relationship I ever had. We had lots of other intense aspects, too, though.IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 9778
From: Death Star
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posted July 26, 2013 12:05 PM
Yeah. I have an opposition in my chart and I'm a good girl  ------------------
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Doux Rêve
Knowflake Posts: 9926
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posted July 26, 2013 12:29 PM
Sorry to hear that, saturn_rising.
Hope it's never going to happen again.What aspects does your Mars make, natally? IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Knowflake Posts: 9926
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posted July 26, 2013 12:30 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Yeah. I have an opposition in my chart and I'm a good girl
I hope you'll never have to go through abuse, cappy.
There's potential (!) with that aspect but I know you know it already.
Just keep your eyes open! IP: Logged |
saturn_rising
Newflake Posts: 13
From: MA, USA
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted July 26, 2013 12:57 PM
Thank you, Doux Rêve. <3
My Mars actually does not make many aspects to the rest of my chart. It is trine my Ascendant and that's it. As for asteroids, it is conjunct my Aphrodite, opposite my Psyche, and square my Spirit and Siva.IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Knowflake Posts: 9926
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posted July 26, 2013 01:02 PM
You're welcome, saturn_rising.
Hmm. No afflicted Mars, then..
What does your DSC do? Any planets in the 7th?
What about your Sun?
I'm trying to figure out where the abuse came from, in your natal chart (usually there are indicators).IP: Logged |
saturn_rising
Newflake Posts: 13
From: MA, USA
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted July 26, 2013 01:08 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
You're welcome, saturn_rising.
Hmm. No afflicted Mars, then..
What does your DSC do? Any planets in the 7th?
What about your Sun?
I'm trying to figure out where the abuse came from, in your natal chart (usually there are indicators).
I have a Cancer Descendant (with my Part of Fortune directly conjunct it), but no planets in my 7th house! I do however have Nessus in the 7th. My Sun does have some affliction: Sun opp Moon (by 1 degree), Sun opp Saturn, Sun opp Pluto (but a rather wide orb). I also have Moon conjunct Saturn and Pluto, and Capricorn Rising. I know you said you don't put too much into asteroids, but I have Sun conjunct Dejanira (asteroid of being the victim of abuse and of submission), as well as Nessus square Dejanira. I read once that Nessus square Dejanira is an "abuse magnet."
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Doux Rêve
Knowflake Posts: 9926
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posted July 26, 2013 01:15 PM
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Originally posted by saturn_rising:
Sun opp Moon (by 1 degree), Sun opp Saturn, Sun opp Pluto (but a rather wide orb).
Now that's interesting, because the Sun traditionally represents the 'husband' in a woman's chart, or more generally the kind of partner she's likely to attract.
And your Sun just happens to be afflicted by both Saturn and Pluto - the two bad guys.
Makes sense. quote:
I also have Moon conjunct Saturn and Pluto
Here again, the same theme is repeated, but it's even more emphasised because the Moon rules your DSC, which represents your partner / relationship.
The conjunction isn't that bad though. quote:
Sun conjunct Dejanira (asteroid of being the victim of abuse and of submission), as well as Nessus square Dejanira.
There may be something to it.. Take good care of yourself!
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I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 9778
From: Death Star
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posted July 26, 2013 01:25 PM
Don't worry Doux, I would never let a man treat me like a punchbag.------------------
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Doux Rêve
Knowflake Posts: 9926
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posted July 26, 2013 01:26 PM
^ That's my girl!IP: Logged |
saturn_rising
Newflake Posts: 13
From: MA, USA
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted July 26, 2013 01:33 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
There may be something to it..Take good care of yourself!
Thanks for the info.  Luckily this relationship was a long time ago, and I'm now in a healthy, very non-abusive relationship! IP: Logged |
slowpoke
Knowflake Posts: 691
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posted August 02, 2013 06:37 AM
Look for the "Black Aspects"There may be an easier way to read and understand complicated Synastry pie chart aspects. Pie chart aspects can also be produced onto a basic Synastry Aspect Chart. Review the sample chart at your leisure. It may help you gain even more insight than you currently have.
http://risingpeople.wix.com/synastry-aspecting
Slowpoke
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Pure
Knowflake Posts: 236
From: UK
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted August 02, 2013 06:51 AM
• Moon square/opposition Mars
• Mercury square/opposition Mars
• Mercury square/opposition SaturnAnger and hurt feelings. IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
Knowflake Posts: 4122
From: vodka fine, I'm so divine
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posted August 02, 2013 07:15 AM
I think the worstest would have lots of Uranus, Neptune, and Pluto, but also Moon and Saturn.IP: Logged |
jennydakota
Newflake Posts: 6
From: Dallas, TX
Registered: Jun 2018
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posted August 12, 2018 11:39 AM
I just found this thread. I had a man enter my life that appeared classic narcissistic. I found out after I dumped him within 3 weeks that his girlfriend of 12 years wasn't happy about our affair. She was dumb enough to stay and 9 months later he popped up again in my life, and me being bored was like sure... you can hang out with me again lol. However, i quickly learned that he and her were indeed not broken up like he said. I just now looked up his chart. It is odd... MY Leo nessus is conjunct HIS moon and north node, exact. I mean, it makes sense... HIS nessus is conjunct MY Cancer venus. He did abuse my love. But I do believe I have highly disrupted his emotional and mental balance, and life path for that matter. I believe his girlfriend of 12 years finally left him. Of topic, but my lucifer is right on his chiron wound as well. I imagine I shed a painful amount of light on his wounds. Not sure how that will alter his path at all...because his ass is blocked! IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 99367
From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
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posted August 12, 2018 02:51 PM
Moving to Interpersonal Astrology.IP: Logged |
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