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I'm so cappy
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From: Saturn
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posted February 06, 2013 03:11 PM
  
Are you attracted to older men only? Are you unable to imagine yourself being with a younger guy or peer?------------------
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andstuff
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posted February 06, 2013 03:21 PM
Ok, I don't consider myself Saturnian, but i am officially a Capricorn with Venus square Saturn (orb of 5)AND i LOATHE older men. i think they have no right to possess youth and beauty, every time i see a couple made up of an older man and a younger girl it GROSSES me the &*$£%£% OUT IP: Logged |
sharpei
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From: london
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posted February 06, 2013 03:26 PM
im capricorn- i dont loathe seeing an older man with a younger woman- whatever makes you happy!me personally i seem to struggle to attract older men though- its generally younger men that are attracted to me- i look youngfor my age though and im very slender and petite so perhaps that is it. i do sometimes find older men attractive but they seem to have no interest in me. i can see why a capricorn woman would be attracted to an older man though- particularly if you value experience and stability (which i do) but i think it is possible to get stability if not experience from a younger man- nto all younger men are wild. IP: Logged |
andstuff
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posted February 06, 2013 03:30 PM
ha! i dated someone twice my age. once. then it started feeling gross. i just said to myself never again. and the man changed from still hot to way over the hill, so i never regretted it. wouldn't mind learning techniques though, but my lovers never cared. also yeah, i'm like 28 but they still won't sell me cigarettes/alcohol/let me enter pubs without id IP: Logged |
starfairy
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posted February 06, 2013 03:34 PM
I have Venus in Cappy, and the ruler of my 7th house, Mercury, is in Cappy. My chart ruler is in Cappy.I would never, ever date a younger guy. I have difficulty dating guys who "look" young, too. Every guy I have dated has been at least 3 years older. I have dated much older men, too, and I liked it. They were all very successful and stable, and had their **** together, which is very attractive to me.
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I'm so cappy
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From: Saturn
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 06, 2013 05:01 PM
Andstuff, I'm worried about you.------------------
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andstuff
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posted February 06, 2013 05:06 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Andstuff, I'm worried about you.
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I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 2126
From: Saturn
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 06, 2013 05:36 PM
It just seems like they're some kind of monsters for you...Even 1 year your senior is too much?------------------
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andstuff
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posted February 06, 2013 05:41 PM
2-3 years older is my absolute top. but it's almost the same age, i can barely feel a difference. i also have a rule against saturnian/cap guys. zero of that please. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 2126
From: Saturn
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posted February 06, 2013 05:43 PM
Interesting.------------------
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SaturnineMoth
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From: Gaea's Omphalos
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted February 06, 2013 06:20 PM
With very few exceptions~ I've maintained a minimum of 4 years age gap, (in favour of those senior). I'm more lenient with women's ages than my male partners... that's just my particular taste, nothing concrete to the rule, just preference. My husband is nearly 2 years my senior, and happens to be one of the youngest. Cap Sun - 5th house, Cap Mercury - 4th house
(Taurus moon 9h, Virgo Rising) Saturn in 3rd (opposite Moon), exact conjunct Eros, Ishtar, Lova~ lol Saturn ranks in at either 3rd or 4th in dominance according to Pullen... (depends on how you count the equal percentage betweeen my chart ruler Mercury and Jupiter, colour places them the same, but with Mercury slightly over Jupiter instead.) Anyway, I'd consider myself 1/4 Saturnian, I call it Lunar-Saturnian (Moon ranks higher, Cancer ranks higher than Capricorn in Pullen) Mercurial-Jupiterese, Lunar-Saturnian~ something like that, wth, with a side order of Pluto and Gemini just to make it interesting! *snort*  I have a lot of issue accepting the idea of being with a younger gentleman, but as I get older, the idea isn't so unappealing, I must say. ^^ My oldest partner was 17 years my senior, the youngest was about 8 months younger, but it only lasted a week (2 dates). ^^; Maturity is attractive, and when you are young, you find that easily with older men, but as your own generation and the younger age, there's more maturity to go around and after a few older bad/rotten apples, you learn the grass isn't so much greener over the hill anyway. .. so age isn't the most important factor, it's just for me, those silver foxes are very handsome, and I happen to love wrinkles, but what I really want is just maturity and respect from a partner, they can be any age if they have these two traits.... But, I definitely still have trouble picturing myself with a younger fella. lol ^^; Trying to be more open-minded though~ *trying* Just being honest in my own perspective~ ^^
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starmoon
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posted February 06, 2013 07:10 PM
cap moon. i only date older men and have since i was 18. between 7-10 years - never more than 10 and never less than 7. current bf is 9 years older. i did try guys in my age group and they were immature. several older guys have been immature too :-) but it's always been a preference - in the 'hope' they are more settled/mature, since i have always been as well. and no daddy issues, lol - i have a great dadIP: Logged |
11nahyt
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From: Neptune. where the mermaids take your soul, and the witches wear givenchy
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted February 06, 2013 07:41 PM
I'm Saturn dominant. And yes. Even as a child , I was attracted to men who where old enough to be my father. Now at 23, I'm still the same. attracted to men At least 8yrs or older than me. I'm not usually attracted to guys within my age bracket.. But i am not attracted to older men because they're older. Its just what I look for in a man, has so far only been found in men much older than me, in my case. ..Yes ive found many guys within my age to be physically good looking. But I'm not actually attracted to them. Even with all the men I've found physically good looking, it was those that were much older than me I found looked better than the dudes around my age too. With that said, it doesn't mean I will only date guys who are much older than me. It's just that so far, I've never found a guy around my age that makes me want to be with him. IP: Logged |
4lifephrases
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From: London, United Kingdom
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted February 06, 2013 07:48 PM
What do you mean by Saturnian woman ? The one which worship Saturn and not God types?Isn't dating older men is like father issues? Jokes apart. Saturn in 11th, Capricorn 2nd house.I attract older men and had relationship while I was having Saturn Transit in 5th if that counts and I have leo there so I had extremely bad relationship.Now I have learnt my lesson (sort of)so I know when somebody is getting attracted and I be aware. Not to respond. I have admiration for older men but wouldn't think about romance. I have several colleagues / friends 40 years elder to me who are married to younger wives. I do not see anything wrong. IP: Logged |
11nahyt
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From: Neptune. where the mermaids take your soul, and the witches wear givenchy
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted February 06, 2013 07:59 PM
Apart from that. I think I also have an old man fetish LOL. Never had sex with an actual old man (60+).. But plenty of guys that age are still handsome to me. And do turn me on. But its just urely sexual to me. Nothing more. I don't feel like i want to be their girlfriend . or anything that serious.. I just wanna do serious kinky sh1t with them .IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted February 06, 2013 08:12 PM
When I was in my teens I was very anti-age gaps. I used to think I could never like an older guy. Later on I ended up falling in love with a man who is 19 yrs older who is just the most amazing person in the world.. and I still wish all men were just like him.
My longest relationship was with a guy who is my age. I've also had close male friends who are younger but we did not date. I'm open to dating someone younger though.At this point - I'm 26... I simply don't care about age at all. I feel like 'age is a number'. I care about their maturity level, how emotionally expressive they are, how they treat other people including myself etc. My Moon, Mars & DC are in Capricorn + Sun trine Saturn. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 2126
From: Saturn
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 06, 2013 09:38 PM
Years ago I had a crush on a guy who was a few months older than me but we didn't even met so that doesn't count  quote:
What do you mean by Saturnian woman ?
Saturn's b*tch 
I was expecting only Saturn dominant ladies to respond but ok, whatever ^^
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I just wanna do serious kinky sh1t with them
Like resuscitation?
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starfairy
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posted February 06, 2013 09:43 PM
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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
Apart from that. I think I also have an old man fetish LOL. Never had sex with an actual old man (60+).. But plenty of guys that age are still handsome to me. And do turn me on. But its just urely sexual to me. Nothing more. I don't feel like i want to be their girlfriend . or anything that serious.. I just wanna do serious kinky sh1t with them .
OMG me too. The oldest guy I've ever been with was 25 years older (I was 26 at the time), and it was hot. Though, I think a 60+ guy would have to be pretty hot for me to be with him... IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
Moderator Posts: 4221
From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 06, 2013 10:50 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Are you attracted to older men only? Are you unable to imagine yourself being with a younger guy or peer?
I'm not attracted to older men,not at all,however am very attracted to serious, mature types. VERY ATTRACTED. Great turn on for me  . Most of them, ( happens to be) younger, I have always dated younger men. Saturn, chart ruler in 7th house. Makes tots of aspects in my chart, conjunct sun (leo), mercury (leo), venus ( leo), sq uranus, trine neptune, sextile pluto,sq NN, opp my asc. IP: Logged |
starzy54
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From: CA
Registered: Feb 2010
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posted February 06, 2013 11:00 PM
lol I remember way back when i was single talking to a guy i met online and he said he was 27 but had this utterly sexy personality, maturity and charm, i was just hypnotized, then i found out he was lying and was actually 50. If he had been honest maybe things would have taken another turn, but after that i realized I find older men (their personality) quite attractive. I tend to attract older guys as well. As for physical appearance I like older guys who appear younger than they actually are. Like a boy-ish youthful look, even though he's in his 40's...nice. All my relationships have been with an older guy, varying from 3-5 years older. I think its more about maturity than age. I'm 26.Cap sun, Cap merc - I can totally dig a young dude though, as long as he's mature. IP: Logged |
11nahyt
Knowflake Posts: 1755
From: Neptune. where the mermaids take your soul, and the witches wear givenchy
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted February 06, 2013 11:24 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Like resuscitation?
Kill 'em with my sex, and then resuscitate them.. Y'know ? Honestly, that's one of the main reasons I'd prob say no to having sex with a man that old. No matter how bad I want him.. I'm truly scared I might break something. Or unintentionally kill him LOL. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 2126
From: Saturn
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 06, 2013 11:26 PM
Hahah. But that would be a beautiful death  ------------------
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Lonake
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posted February 06, 2013 11:49 PM
Nope. I can be with a man of pretty much any legal age as long as he fits my criteria (whatever it might be at that moment in time).IP: Logged |
FireMoon
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From: Minnesota
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted February 06, 2013 11:57 PM
I'm Saturn dominant (Cap sun conjunct Saturn and NN, also Cap DSC) and generally I'm attracted to guys my own age, although the idea of dating someone older has always seemed logical to me since most guys/people my age aren't really ready for anything serious yet anyway.And I have briefly tried dating older guys- up to 8 years, but it hasn't been anything lasting. Although if things don't work out with the guy I kind of have my heart set on right now I have to say it's seeming like an ever more appealing option as time goes on lol IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 07, 2013 12:07 AM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
Nope. I can be with a man of pretty much any legal age as long as he fits my criteria (whatever it might be at that moment in time).
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