posted February 09, 2013 02:00 PM            

Does the Node person always has the upper hand or could it go either way? More importantly, is there a possibility that they CAN build a long-term relation. I have this with someone right now (I'm node and he's saturn). Any experiences or opinions would be appreciated

posted February 09, 2013 03:29 PM            

My mom's Saturn square my NN (1)
and in composite we have Saturn conjunct NN (2)

posted February 09, 2013 04:20 PM            

There is a guy who is really attracted to me with this conjunction(also his Mars conj my Venus ) We met because he walked into the room where I was sitting at a party that was dying down, walked straight up to me and introduced himself. I was distracted at the time because I'd just had a very vertexy encounter with someone who I share a lot of karmic ties to. Looking back, it is very interesting to me that I kind of blew this guy off who would be considered a much better catch by most (he was in a major label band and when you type his name into google, it autocompletes with "girlfriend" after his name) But with his Venus as well as sun and jupiter on my north node, it's just a bit overwhelming and there is something much more comfortable about this other guy I was paying attention to that night who's north and south node I touch with my Moon and Sun/Mars respectfully.

I haven't had a Saturn touch my NN, that I know of, but I can imagine the weight of it could possibly feel even more overwhelming.

I also had a strange pseudo relationship (I would say artist/muse but I don't want to make myself gag ) with another musician (my NN is on Aquarius cusp) where his Venus touched my NN and my Venus touched his SN. This was interesting in that our dance around each other went on for YEARS when I was 18-21ish.. while never culminating in a real relationship. The encounters with each other did seem to help bring us both to a place where we could each find our own more well suited pairings with other people. The fascination with each other has definitely worn off and we don't run into each other anymore.. it seems he had some loose ends to tie up with the south node, while I needed my eyes opened in love a bit wit my NN. Before meeting him, from the way I was raised, I never thought anyone could really love me and with the nodes as well as some neptunian influence the whole thing seemed very dreamy and unreal and loving. While it never (thankfully!) culminated in anything, it opened my heart more to the possibilities of love.

posted February 09, 2013 05:00 PM            

I did a little more research on Saturn-NN, and I have found couples who were married for long periods of time In the end, it makes me more comfortable to know that the Node person determines how the relationship will turn out.

Laurence Olivier's conjuncts Vivien leigh's North Node 4d (married 21 years)

posted February 10, 2013 01:22 AM            

I think it's a karmic aspect and a separative aspect ultimately. It specifically link both people for a specific time span for a specific reason. Purpose: To probably impose a few hard lessons on you, make you swallow them the hard way.I had it with the 2 so-called loves of my life.

In brief, it was very,very painful, hard lessons were learned.

posted February 10, 2013 02:24 AM            

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Originally posted by Moonfish:
@Jessica2407
That stinks I'm sorry to hear that. Were you the Saturn or Node person?
and if you don't mind me asking, how do relationships generally work out for you having saturn in the 7H?

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Had to go to astro, cause I forgot who was NN and who was saturn

Let's see,Guy# 1: My NN in 10th inconjunct his Saturn in H3 at 0 degree. His NN conjunct my venus, and mercury both in 7th H at 0 degree, and inconjunct my mars in 8h at -1 degree

guy #2 : My NN square his Saturn, my NN semi sq his mars.

''how do relationships generally work out for you having saturn in the 7H?''

Those two were the milestones of my life LOL. Like I said hard lessons were learned. Guy #1 - the separation occurred due to circumstances beyond both our controls, like we were not destined to be together. I know he probably suffered as much as I did.

posted February 10, 2013 02:31 PM            

Perfectly.

''or if something will ever happen''

Someone I know has Saturn aspect to her NN. They are not involved romantically but he is
her boss. She feels ''stuck'' and had really tough moments at work- now she tells me it's much better,although the lessons she had to learn were quite hard,but now feels have strengthened her resolve more than ever. She is just waiting for the right time to leave her job for something better. IMHO, she will 'get released' from this situation as soon as the lessons she had to learn are over.

posted February 10, 2013 02:45 PM            

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Originally posted by sharpei:
jessica- i really like your take on things- i am like this as well- whenever something tough happens the only way i can turn it into a positive is by taking responsibility and learning what i can so i dont make the same mistake again.

although ive had pain in my life i would not take it back in a second because it made me who i am today and i needed that pain to grow

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posted February 10, 2013 03:08 PM            

Amazing... You guys have answered so many questions. i am in the middle of this process you were talking about. I've become a more mature person... i see my own mistakes... this guy and i walk in the same circles... he runs from me, but when he does come around he is over for 6hrs or on the phone until the battery runs out. I ended up undergoing a really radical transformation. I am such a different person. I reconnected with all my past... my family life, career... everything has been affected. I have no clue if I will ever see him again or if we will ever have a workable relationship because the attraction is off the charts... but its all so painful.

posted February 10, 2013 03:37 PM            

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Originally posted by scropiojunkie85:

I have a 7H saturn/desc/sn in scorpio and its conjuct his sun/nn/ mercury opposite his moon. :/ I just posted the chart in another forum... what do u think? [/B]

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I took a look at your chart in the personal reading forum.

I wasn't sure if I should spam your thread with my own experience of node /angles contact.
I've had the node/dsc conjunction and honestly what I wrote "Sometimes you're just meant to meet someone and not see them ever again. However hurtful this might be, it doesn't necessarily mean it wasn't meant to be since obviously you were meant to meet." was what helped me to cope with the "separation".

I had to learn acceptance and to let go.
It was extremly hard for me to do, took me many years and I really had to talk myself through this. I am not even sure I have fully learned everything from the whole experience yet but it sure isn't pleasant doing so.

Your synastry with this guy is very heavy.
Like I said, my take on nodes contact is that there always is some lesson to learn, and that lesson is the main purpose of the "meeting"/ "coming together"
It must have triggered some very strong reactions in you. Maybe you did get a feeling of already knowing him?

I am going to say something that might not be very welcomed in an astrology thread but I honestly believe that when faced with such heavy synastry, one has to take a step back and focus on the real side of the relationships (and not the potential, or if there is some hidden meaning, significance). It can really drive someone crazy to feel and find proofs that things are meant to be, that this person is the one, that you're soulmate or even twinflames, only to later realize that well things are a lot different than this. The person is away. You're no together etc..

Of course I'm getting a bit ahead of myself here as I don't know your situation with this man.

posted February 10, 2013 03:56 PM            

i guess i posted it to get some perspective and reading some of these posts have super helped me realize a lot of things.

If I had to summarize my general feelings about this relationship is... I am scared to never see him again and horrified by the idea of seeing him again.