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sharpei
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posted February 10, 2013 01:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sharpei     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hey all,

anyway i am capricorn (as if you all didnt know :P ) and all my life my goal has been to find a good husband, ie not just any man that will have me but a GOOD man- successful, good looking, one i have a deep connection with.

ive only ever felt strongly about one man once in my whole life a few years ago (a few little crushes along the way sure)

now all i want is a husband. i do worry i seem to only attract men younger than me - men my own age or older seem to have no interest :er:

anyway im curious about guys experiences with capricorn girls or cap girls experiences with men- i like european men best- i would never be with a man from an english speaking country i dont think - i mean if i was in love i would not rule it out but they are just not what get me going so to speak.

here is my chart - its much easier to read here i think http://s1276.beta.photobucket.com/user/charlot51179863/media/astro_w2gw_01_charlotte_hp_63957_13614_zpsf515c47b.gif.html#/user/charlot51179863/media/astro_w2gw_01_charlotte_hp_6395 7_13614_zpsf515c47b.gif.html?&_suid=136051905520005156369219156542

let me know your thoughts or if you can see anything in my chart of interest regarding men and marriage

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starfairy
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posted February 10, 2013 01:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starfairy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Umm, well I can definitely see that you are a relationship-oriented person with Sun in your 7th house.

Neptune in the 7th house can cause problems, as you might have very high and lofty expectations from relationships which may be difficult to fulfill. However, you seem to have a lot of Saturn influences in your chart, which would help you be more realistic about things. Regardless, I think it's important that you don't let your ideals get the best of you. Finding the 'perfect' guy can be difficult if your expectations aren't realistic. Do you find that you get disillusioned by men or no?

You also have Venus square Saturn.. This can definitely lead to problems in relationships (i.e. you might have to deal with unrequited love scenarios in your life). This also indicates why you attract younger guys. My friend has Venus square Saturn in his chart, and there is always some kind of barrier between him and his ability to find love. There is always something that gets in the way (i.e. age gap, religious differences, different locations, etc..). Has that been the case for you?

With all that Cap and Venus conjunct your MC, I can see why you'd want an older man. Also, the ruler of your 7th, Jupiter, is in your 8th, which could mean you'll marry a rich guy

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sharpei
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posted February 10, 2013 01:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sharpei     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi starfairy,

i suspect ill marry rich

i think i have high but realistic expectations-i am willing to compromise alot when i do find the right guy- i see it as my role to serve and adapt

i have had problems in the past with men but i think ive dealt with them more or less- i mean i learnt alot from those problems and didnt blame them i took responsibility- i think saturn square venus is more something you need to be aware of and learn from rather than something inevitable.

i just do not seem to have much luck attracting older men- but there are plenty of guys a bit younger than me who are still responsible and have good jobs- it is more important the guy is stable and successful or will be successful than that he is super rich and well established.

im having my saturn return so i am reviewing my past experiences and overall i think i attract good men i just need someone who is good but who i also have amazing chemistry with and who i can give my all.

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starmoon
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posted February 10, 2013 02:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
my guess is it could be your gemini asc. getting in the way of older guys being attracted to you. gemini people have a very youthful air about them and i bet that is the vibe you give off first to men/women, despite being a more serious, relationship-oriented cap. your sun in 7th does show a person who is relationship-ready. i am a cap moon and i've always attracted much older men, as many cap women do. like you said you can find some guys in/around your own age bracket that will be serious and ready, so don't be too stuck on an older guy. my bf is 10 years older and is less mature and ready than me :-( so even in an older age group they aren't necessarily ready. my bf also has many of your placements, including the venus aqua and pisces mars, and with those two signs, coupled with your reserved cap sun i would say that when you do meet a potential guy don't hold back feelings and interest too long.

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sharpei
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posted February 10, 2013 03:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sharpei     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yah- i think you may be right re: the gemini rising- i do look young for my age and am very sporty and fit etc

i wonder about other placements in my chart that may indicate marriage or relationships, like the pluto placements in 5th house or the venus conjunct mars etc?

also other cap girls can post their own charts or info and get feedback too! dont let this just be about me!

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I'm so cappy
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posted February 10, 2013 04:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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also other cap girls can post their own charts or info and get feedback too! dont let this just be about me!

Ok...If someone's bored you can tell me something about my perfect man (who doesn't exist but who cares ) and I'll tell you what I think.

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sharpei
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posted February 10, 2013 04:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sharpei     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i need to go to bed - its 11pm where i am (greece) but it would help me if you posted like a table with the info you can get that from 0800 horoscope as i am a newbie and find graphs really hard to read still

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Odette
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posted February 10, 2013 05:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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they are just not what get me going

Interesting. I'm an Aries with Cap Moon and I am often more attracted to EU men... but I'm European myself.

I've never had my heart set on marriage though.. like literally *ever*. I'm 26 now and still could basically care less about it, so I don't relate on that.

However... in my experience - the men who would be the absolute best in terms of marriage-material.. are fixed suns - specially Leo and Scorpio.. and have a fixed Mars (again - specially Leo and Scorpio).
If a guy has NO Leo.. NO Scorpio.. and NO Taurus happening --- you'll have serious problems getting him to the altar.
- just my experience....

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Odette
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posted February 10, 2013 05:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm so cappy... -- I'd say the same thing to you really. As a Cap influenced girl (w. Moon & Mars there) - my perfect match is Scorpio-influence although Leo is quite good as well.. and a mix of the two is best.
These signs are SO stable.. and very *into* Capricorn women.

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anno_lucis
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posted February 10, 2013 05:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anno_lucis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
*shock*

Odette you are 26?? i feel so immature now lol. geez that cap influence really comes through! thought you were much older, or at least, older than me lol.

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I'm so cappy
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posted February 10, 2013 05:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Odette. I don't care about getting married either. Strong Scorpionic/Plutonic energy would probably freak me out but I don't know, maybe I'd get used to it

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Odette
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posted February 10, 2013 05:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Strong Scorpio/Plutonic energy would probably freak me out but I don't know, maybe I'd get used to it

Don't diss it till you try it!

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Odette
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posted February 10, 2013 05:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Odette you are 26??

LOL I just replied to this & it disappeared :\
& it was a funny reply... *darn it*

Anyhoo I was saying *trust me* you're not immature at all!!!! Why in the world would you think you're immature?
My Sag ex - NOW he is immaturity personified *facepalm*

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I'm so cappy
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posted February 10, 2013 05:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Don't diss it till you try it!

Tell it to my poor Libra moon

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anno_lucis
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posted February 10, 2013 07:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anno_lucis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Odette:
LOL I just replied to this & it disappeared :\
& it was a funny reply... *darn it*

Anyhoo I was saying *trust me* you're not immature at all!!!! Why in the world would you think you're immature?
My Sag ex - NOW he is immaturity personified *facepalm*



thx hun! i don't know why - we're both aries, but you always come off as very cool and considered to me, so i always assumed u were older

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andstuff
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posted February 10, 2013 09:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for andstuff     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hm men who are "into Capricorn women" - what exactly are they like? If its about a Capricorn moon or Venus, it's like a far cry from what I would ask for in my prayers : D

I have been SO working towards shedding the seriousness and all that sh1t. And the last thing I want is to be loved for Capricorn traits. I want to be loved for other things I've got that have an approximately zero correlation with my sun sign

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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted February 10, 2013 10:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sharpei. (Why did you choose to name yourself after a Chinese dog anyway?)

Just want to tell you that I find you very pretty.

I'm out of the partner shopping business and I'm way too old for you (but my birthday is December 28th), but if I were still in circulation, I would be giving you a call. Lol

I don't know too much about astrology, but the elementary bit that I do know tells me the Synastry is flaming hot.

I had two serious past Capricorn girlfriends who remain excellent friends.

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starmoon
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posted February 10, 2013 11:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Odette:
I'm so cappy... -- I'd say the same thing to you really. As a Cap influenced girl (w. Moon & Mars there) - my perfect match is Scorpio-influence although Leo is quite good as well.. and a mix of the two is best.
These signs are SO stable.. and very *into* Capricorn women.

i'm a cap moon and bf is a leo moon and despite some differences it does make for a very stable and fixed relationship. both work very hard to maintain the relationship and work issues out - both don't want to 'lose' so end up not giving in when other couples would. quite a stable match imo. i think the scorpio energy is good too, but in a different way - scorps give caps that security we need, but it's coming from a place of obsession/possessiveness which bothers me

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sharpei
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posted February 11, 2013 02:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sharpei     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yah i like scorpios- they make me feel secure and are VERY passionate which is super important to me. leos like me because im not attention seeking and i am not showy- in london most women are like peacocks- nails done, expensive highlights, bright showy clothes whereas i am more...demure- little make up, natural hair, simple clothes for a leo it is nice to be able to shine that bit brighter

i sometimes like capricorn guys but they seem to have little interest in me maybe it is too much of the same thing im not sure, virgo and taurus ive never had much interest in but would not rule it out.

leos often like me- one leo dude (very rich- penthouse in knightsbridge, villa in marbella, also good looking) started discussing marriage after meeting up a few times but i just never felt the depth of feeling i would want to feel to whomever i married plus we had really different ideals like i would want my children to do music lessons, dance, gardening whereas he would probably be quite happy for them to be slumped in front of the tv watching mtv or something.

thank you andyourstruly - i named myself that because it sounds a bit like my first name and last name- i am not a dog lover by any stretch of the imagination.

re: synastry i did that for the one guy i was insane about and our synastry was like you said flaming hot...lots of pluto connections i honestly have never felt that intensity in my life.

ALOT of men like capricorn women andstuff- kate middleton, carla sarkozy, michelle obama, irina shayk (dating christiano ronaldo), kate moss, pam courson (lover of jim morrison!!!), helena christensen the list goes on of very desirable capricorn women who have had or continue to have marriages with highly desirable successful men in all fields. being capricorn rocks!

of COURSE men love capricorn women andstuff- if a man is successful in life and an alpha male scorpio/capricorn type he does not want some drunken lush badly dressed causing problems for him- he wants a girl who is fertile and knows how to bring up children properly (earth sign), will stay looking good, knows how to behave in public without running her mouth, will support him and impress his friends, will be different in private from how she appears in public.... those are all highly desirable traits and i do not mind one jot stepping over the spine of my less traditional feminist sistas to get a man through those capricorn means- life is about getting ahead and if other girls choose to drink themselves to a stupor and act like tramps around guys who are pulling faces at them then in public i just smile sweetly and say ''aw they are just having a good time'' while i take a few sips from a glass of wine but privately i almost want to kiss them for making my life easier

see andstuff the difference between all those other girls and a cap girl is that a cap is willing to WORK for what she has got as well as use her god given talents- sure im cute looking and have sex appeal but i wont rely on that ALONE- ill take dance lessons so i dance better, pay 60 pounds a session for one to one yoga lessons so im more bendy, pilates classes to improve posture, cookery lessons so i cook better, ill be reliable, dress well, carefully pick out make up that subtly enhances how i look, swallow my tongue when i feel like gutting someone, serve a man where other women will expect to be served- all these things another girl wont because she thinks she is such a perfect little princess and to try is above her- well lets see who gets the cars the houses the husband the children

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andstuff
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posted February 11, 2013 04:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for andstuff     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well I'm afraid im a dishevelled artist in ripped shorts and with a rolliie in my hand. And I wanna be loved for my emotions and intensity, not my fertility or other objective parameters

I know a lot of men dig cap women, I just asked what they were like. I simple meant I wanted to be loved for other things and chosen on a different basis. For my charisma, my fiery side, all that. I wanna snog at gigs and all, not bring up children, I feel too young for that : D

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sharpei
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posted February 11, 2013 04:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sharpei     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
you can be that girl though! pamela courson was so is kate moss just take from being a capricorn what works for you and leave what does not- there are no rules only guidelines mwah!

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andstuff
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posted February 11, 2013 04:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for andstuff     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Kate moss? You must be kidding look at her boyfriends, one worse than the other. And her husband totally got lost in her shadow. I don't want some sub by my side. A lot of ppl do though I know

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sharpei
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posted February 11, 2013 05:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sharpei     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yeh but she is not the typical capricorn ''society hostess'' type like say kate middleton is is what i meant- she is cool and subversive- i would not want any of the men she has been involved with either but my point is i doubt men are interested in her because she is reliable and grounded haha

and pamela courson- well to me jim morrison is the ultimate man in every way possible and pamela is like 1st degree capricorn- i doubt he was with her because her prostituting drug addicted self made great afternoon tea!


i dunno i love being capricorn- i think capricorn women are interesting- and earthy and can be quite sexy as well- nigella lawson is loved by men-i mean i could go on really ooh! francoise hardy- wow she has so much soul. i am definitely ruthless and determined and for many men that is quite the turn on...

thing is men can love many traits about a woman but to truly love a woman they need to trust her- a man may fall love you andstuff for the reasons you suggest bt he wont stay in love with you unless he can see he can entrust his heart to you- so being reliable, and stable and all those othercap traits means a man can trust you with his love- men are much more cautious in love than women and trust is actually more important to them than it is for women- women will just FEEL and that is enough but a man feels even deeper than a woman and knows if she betrays him his very being will be shattered so if he does not trust her he wont let himself love as deeply as he could love a woman- so being cap if yo uwant deep love- its a good thing

i think the real dull stepford wives of the zodiac are virgos- always fussing about the cushions and worrying what the neighbours think capricorn women are too busy getting ahead to care.

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andstuff
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posted February 11, 2013 08:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for andstuff     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@sharpei: every sign can offer LOADS of really cool examples, but what does their coolness exactly have to do with anyone else?

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sharpei
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posted February 11, 2013 10:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sharpei     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
well i guess it seems you dislike the fatality of some astrologers regarding capricorns or specific placements such as venus square saturn etc so i was just offering an example of people for whom those stereotypes do not hold true.

like i said just take what you feel is true about yourself and leave the rest- you ARE very intense i can feel that even over the internet lol.

to me astrology is just a suggestion nothing more- i see it as a tool not a master - lots of things about capricorns hold true for me but other things just do not so i leave them to one side

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