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posted February 14, 2013 11:12 AM            

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Hello and happy valentine's day!
It's a romantic day so let's talk about sex
I would like to know, which are your favorite aspects in synastry for sexual attraction, lust, desire and only..not romance! and why do you think is that?

For me and from my experience so far.
when Her mars Conjunct my Moon in virgo 7th house.

when her Uranus Conjunct my Mars in capricorn 11th house.

when my pluto in scorpio 8th house trine her venus or conjunct her sun.

I think my moon is the most sensitive "spot" for me , because my 5 house cusp is in cancer and my moon is in 7th house... every time someone touches my moon with their mars or venus or moon I am super attracted to them, they remind me of sex
So what's your soft spot?

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posted February 14, 2013 11:41 AM            

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When someone's planet/s ( the more of them, the better) fall into another's 8th house. And if ASC is there too - Instant arousal by just looking at them.

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posted February 14, 2013 12:01 PM            

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Uranus/venus aspects for me...it's like magnetism. of course pluto trine venus makes things steamy as well. I think both of these aspects can make a relationship very difficult though.

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posted February 14, 2013 12:22 PM            

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this topic is all over the place ... I guess it has the highest number of results in the search page among other astrological topics. In reply to your question, I prefer:
1. Mars-Sun ( especially when it's in a fire sign)
2. Venus-Mars, specifically the square. IME the square was more sizzling than the conjunct.
3. Eros square Psyche , double whammy.
4. Moon -Pluto

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posted February 14, 2013 12:30 PM            

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I agree with you orange. 8th house must work out..

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posted February 14, 2013 12:32 PM            

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Originally posted by vickymadness:
this topic is all over the place ... I guess it has the highest number of results in the search page among other astrological topics. In reply to your question, I prefer:
1. Mars-Sun ( especially when it's in a fire sign)
2. Venus-Mars, specifically the square. IME the square was more sizzling than the conjunct.
3. Eros square Psyche , double whammy.
4. Moon -Pluto

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thank you for the answer
appreciate it

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posted February 14, 2013 12:42 PM            

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Eros-Mars
Eros-Venus

Even Nessus or Dejanira is hot.. ouch

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posted February 14, 2013 01:09 PM            

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Originally posted by lunatic:
I agree with you orange. 8th house must work out..

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the magnetism works even between same sex people who do not intend on having sex together.

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posted February 14, 2013 04:46 PM            

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1st house: mars/action
Mars/Venus 1st house overlay (synastry or composite)
Mars-Venus
Mars-Pluto
Venus-Pluto
Mars-Sun
Moon-Pluto

The 8th house isn't that instant grabbing, messing around. Its that push/pull, attraction/repulsion, stay away/never leave, resistance and surrender. BUT it can also be your most trusted confidant, and not someone who you feel overwhelming sexual tension with.

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posted February 14, 2013 06:37 PM            

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I like
Mars/moon
Venus/ uranus
Moon, Venus/Pluto
Sun/mars

I don't really.like Venus, mars.. Its attraction but not deep or intense..
I like a more.deeper attraction..

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posted February 15, 2013 12:16 AM            

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Moon/Mars
Mars/Mars
Mars/Venus
Venus/Pluto
Mars/Pluto
Sun/Mars

Love it!

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posted February 15, 2013 12:33 AM            

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For me most relationships had venus conjunct mars.
Or some aspect with venus and mars

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posted February 15, 2013 12:56 AM              

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i don't really get sexually attracted without some form of banter except for 1 ex gf. her venus in gemini was on my lust asteroid. otherwise she was a virgo rising, cancer sun, leo moon. wood ox.

also if they talk about the possibilities... my mind starts to open up to what is possible... scenarios... adventures... so i suppose it's a mercury connection for me... the way they think really... merc rules my 8th.

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posted February 15, 2013 12:22 PM            

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speaking of 8H overlays... a man had both his moon and mars in my 8H, and I still remember how bad and desperately I wanted to have his babies.

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posted February 15, 2013 01:30 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
When someone's planet/s ( the more of them, the better) fall into my 8th house. And if ASC is there too - Instant arousal by just looking at them.

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posted February 15, 2013 02:06 PM            

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Originally posted by lunatic:

I would like to know, which are your favorite aspects in synastry for sexual attraction, lust, desire and only..not romance! and why do you think is that?

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Impossible for me personally to separate both of them . For me, it has to be a partnership before it can lead to something more physical.

Anyway, as to what aspects are my fav. ones when it comes to sexual chemistry? Well... Pretty much majority of the Sun, Moon and Pluto aspects in me and my better half's synasty chart .

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posted February 16, 2013 02:39 AM            

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Sun conj Mars
Mars conj Asc
Mars opp Asc
Mars trine Mars
Mars opp Mars
Mars opp Pluto
Venus in the 8th
Venus sq Pluto
Venus opp Pluto
Eros conj Asc
Eros conj Sun

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posted February 17, 2013 07:53 AM            

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Thank you all for your answers *grouphug*

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