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Topic: What indicates detachment/attachment after sex?
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swampys
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posted February 16, 2013 08:01 PM
  
What signs, houses, and planetary alignments can cause this?IP: Logged |
peregrine
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posted February 16, 2013 08:18 PM
scorpio wants to be attached forever! dun dun dun!IP: Logged |
swampys
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posted February 16, 2013 08:20 PM
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Originally posted by peregrine:
scorpio wants to be attached forever! dun dun dun!
 You're silly! IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted February 16, 2013 08:54 PM
I'm a Virgo sun, with alot of air in my chart and am quite uranian so I can separate sex from emotions. I have only had sex with people I had relationships with but since I don't get emotionally attached to a person easily, the majority of the guys I've slept with were people I liked and cared about, but didn't 'love.' (slept with around a handful) However, the two times I fell in love and 'made love' it was amazing.I don't want anything else but that right now. I'm cool with waiting for the right person, nothing beats emotional sex imo. But yeah, I can detach myself and I don't form attachments based on sex. I get attached through alot of mental and emotional connecting. So I say uranian energy, or air. IP: Logged |
swampys
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posted February 16, 2013 09:02 PM
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
I'm a Virgo sun, with alot of air in my chart and am quite uranian so I can separate sex from emotions. I have only had sex with people I had relationships with but since I don't get emotionally attached to a person easily, the majority of the guys I've slept with were people I liked and cared about, but didn't 'love.' (slept with around a handful) However, the two times I fell in love and 'made love' it was amazing.I don't want anything else but that right now. I'm cool with waiting for the right person, nothing beats emotional sex imo. But yeah, I can detach myself and I don't form attachments based on sex. I get attached through alot of mental and emotional connecting. So I say uranian energy, or air.
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hippichick
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posted February 16, 2013 09:13 PM
I agree with Hapless, very airy detachment...very watery atachment...IP: Logged |
venuscorpio86
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posted February 16, 2013 09:14 PM
venus/pluto in natal - the worst is when two ppl have venus/pluto in natal, then they have venus/pluto mutually aspecting in synastry...can you say obsession, passion, intense, drama...IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted February 16, 2013 09:16 PM
I also have to mention I think Sag placement people have the ability to detach easily too, as well as Gemini. Therefore if you meet a Sag mars guy, not only is he usually more sexually promiscuous on average, he can hit it and leave pretty easily.IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted February 16, 2013 10:22 PM
I'll tell you a secret.
When I kiss people I keep my eyes open.
I think only one time I closed my eyes..IP: Logged |
Got Gemini??
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From: The Planet Mercury
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posted February 16, 2013 10:26 PM
My placements indicate attachment after horizontal mumbo but only if I am into her.------------------
Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |
ail221
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posted February 16, 2013 10:26 PM
Was this posted after *ahem.....  IP: Logged |
swampys
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posted February 16, 2013 10:38 PM
I just want to say that I'm a virgin! I was just curious for my future!  IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted February 16, 2013 10:46 PM
Lol! You won't know unless you have it and see what happens. ;D They say you get attached to your first, but I wasn't attached at all. HE was the one that was pretty clingy and he had already slept with a handful of girls by then, so I don't know what was up with that.IP: Logged |
charlie
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Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 16, 2013 11:57 PM
I am rolling over, leaving or kicking you out. Do NOT attempt to cuddle and please, PLEASE don'task me questions. I am serious!! Stellium in 11H and Cap moon in 5H. All square Pluto IP: Logged |
GrlyGirl200
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posted February 17, 2013 12:10 AM
Actually I think all placements have the ability for attachment and detachment. I know the most watery of charts with ppl who sleep around and cheat...they sleep around and dump someone for the emotional need. And are only superficially attached. So I really think this depends on the person. I'm a Cancer Mars and by all indications I should get attached easily...I don't unless I'm already into you (this has literally only happened to me twice ever out of the ppl I've dated and slept with, like Got Gemini.... IP: Logged |
Tofu addict
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posted February 17, 2013 12:27 AM
quote:
Originally posted by charlie:
I am rolling over, leaving or kicking you out. Do NOT attempt to cuddle and please, PLEASE don'task me questions. I am serious!! Stellium in 11H and Cap moon in 5H. All square Pluto
Ha, ha, i am the same.
Stellium in Pisces in 12, but VENUS in ARIES. That is the culprit.
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peregrine
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posted February 17, 2013 07:18 AM
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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
venus/pluto in natal - the worst is when two ppl have venus/pluto in natal, then they have venus/pluto mutually aspecting in synastry...can you say obsession, passion, intense, drama...
hey i have that. IP: Logged |
anno_lucis
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From: merging into speeding traffic with the truckstop plastic cheap sunglasses
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted February 17, 2013 10:56 AM
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Originally posted by charlie:
I am rolling over, leaving or kicking you out. Do NOT attempt to cuddle and please, PLEASE don'task me questions.
i just need a light  for me that has zero correlation with how emotionally attached i am though. in other words, it doesn't mean i don't love you #thingsamanwouldsay but if we're sleeping together it's safe to say i'm sufficiently attached and not being cuddly afterwards does not negate that. i also keep my socks on. jkk. but i do have lots of mars. inc venus in aries. IP: Logged |
anno_lucis
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From: merging into speeding traffic with the truckstop plastic cheap sunglasses
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posted February 17, 2013 11:02 AM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
I'll tell you a secret.
When I kiss people I keep my eyes open.
I think only one time I closed my eyes..
my leo ex used to HATE me doing that. apparently it meant i wasn't 'into it' enough? wtf?
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