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Topic: Chiron in the 4th, Some Q's
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Lonake
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posted February 24, 2013 09:29 PM
  
1) How has it impacted your family life
2) Are they a burden / do they bring you down, etc.
3) Also do you find yourself comparing your family to that of others, in particular your children to the children of others in your social circle.
4) Do you take the failings of your children too much to heart, that their actions indicate a bad mark against you.
5) Or, do you think your children have had to face many more obstacles in comparison to their peers.IP: Logged |
milyi
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posted February 25, 2013 09:49 AM
Chiron in the fourth house is a hard position. My family has been my biggest problem. It still is. I feel they were the greatest obstacle in my life. Also because of this I have no desire to have a family of my own.IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 25, 2013 10:03 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Lonake:
1) How has it impacted your family life
2) Are they a burden / do they bring you down, etc.
3) Also do you find yourself comparing your family to that of others, in particular your children to the children of others in your social circle.
4) Do you take the failings of your children too much to heart, that their actions indicate a bad mark against you.
5) Or, do you think your children have had to face many more obstacles in comparison to their peers.
*raising my hand* to chiron in the 4th house. I have SN too in the 4th. 1)Very Painful.
2) Yes.
3) Yes to the first part of the question. ( I don't have children)
4) If I alter the question slightly to - do I take the failings of my parents too much at heart and that their actions leave a bad mark against me- Yes.
5) I wouldn't know about that, I hope my 4th house chiron will not impact my children... IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted February 25, 2013 12:14 PM
1) How has it impacted your family life
I don`t really know. I had a very happy childhood, very protected. Maybe sometimes too protected. We are very closeknitted.
From an outside perspective maybe the fact that my middle brother has the Down syndrome, and my mum`s younger sister has been growing up in our family, and we were living in a house with our paternal grandparents would be seen as challenging; however though we certainly were different than other families because of these circumstances, I didn`t experience it as a burden.
2) Are they a burden / do they bring you down, etc.
No.
However, I think the problem here is that it is hard to separate myself from the tribal family-net and be an individual. In this sense it might be considered a burden (which is at the same time a support)
3) Also do you find yourself comparing your family to that of others, in particular your children to the children of others in your social circle.
Hmm, not really.
4) Do you take the failings of your children too much to heart, that their actions indicate a bad mark against you.
I have no children.
5) Or, do you think your children have had to face many more obstacles in comparison to their peers.
see above
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Lonake
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posted February 26, 2013 05:01 AM
Thank you, guys, Yea that's something I didn't ask but you guys are right, it applies, regarding giving extra support to your family. I wonder if that's valid, that they depend on you more than siblings? Parents on you more than your siblings, even as they age. And then extending that to children depending on you more than their other parent.milyi I can understand that, thanks for sharing  Ceri,
"and be an individual."
---Close family ties are you giving them support in some way? Feeling responsible for such or no?
That's a v.interesting family situation w.your sibling, would you say you're v.sensitive to this brother and his disability, or more as in treating him like a regular brother nothing different than that? Some people choose to recognize disability and others put it on the back burner in case the person would view sympathy as a sort of free pass. Hope I make sense here. Different people have different approaches. Jessica,
"I wouldn't know about that"
---I was wondering but only in the sense of children being part of your family. Likely Chiron in the 5th would be more directly related, maybe moreso toward conception, or getting involved in love affairs to begin with. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
Knowflake Posts: 763
From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 06:36 AM
hmmm...no, children were not part of my family...But I want to have children despite having had a difficult unhappy childhood. IP: Logged | |
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