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Topic: Do Capricorns get scared easily?
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DreamingBull Newflake Posts: 2 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 25, 2013 12:55 PM
Just a quick question. I'm dealing with someone whose chart is mainly Capricorn (Aqua Sun, though). We have been talking for around a year, and we told each other we liked each other and wanted to see where we could take things a few months ago. Living in different cities and having both of us travel a lot has proven to make that difficult, so I feel as if things have become a little stagnant lately. I know that he cares for me, but lately I've been feeling like he is probably over it.Last night after a few days of being crazy busy, I decided to message him (he usually initiates all of the conversations, and the Bull in me hates doing so but I took the reigns for once) and say that I hoped his week went well (I know he is going through a lot right now, his high stress job and his home life are a little rocky, so he says he has been feeling a little depressed. I have tried to give him space while still letting him know that I am thinking about him) and that I knew things were busy but I hoped they were getting better. Ended it off with telling him that I was thinking of him, and said goodnight. He never said anything. I feel as if I might have freaked him out because those sentiments are very rare coming from me. If he was into the idea of something friendly and not serious after all of this time a part, could I have just ruined things with this Cap? Maybe it seems like its coming off too strong? I don't know! If you're a cap how would you feel? IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 424 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 25, 2013 01:10 PM
Why did you make a new account?------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
DreamingBull Newflake Posts: 2 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 25, 2013 01:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: Why did you make a new account?
Im confused... This is my first account on this website lol IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 424 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 25, 2013 01:28 PM
I remember you and now you only have 2 posts...------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 4847 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted February 25, 2013 01:48 PM
Unlikely. As far as I'm concerned, I'm scared of hardly anything.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 3994 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted February 25, 2013 02:18 PM
Hmm. Capricorns aren't scared like that. They may not respond in hearts and flowers back to you immediately but they are sensitive and like that stuff none the less.My first thought went to the fact he's an Aqua sun. Aqua Suns tend to be like Sagittarius suns in that they are affectionate but aren't good at receiving affection. It weirds them out (Yes, this is all from my experience. No, it's not written at stone so please don't go "I'm a this and that and I don't this and that." Thank you.) IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth Knowflake Posts: 1979 From: Gaea's Omphalos Registered: Aug 2012
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posted February 25, 2013 02:21 PM
Capricorns are incredibly cautious, especially about where, how, when, and what, they get themselves invested in. Transit Pluto may be amid his Capricorn placements, transit Saturn may be sextile, and the planets cycling through (transit) in Pisces are sextile them, and transit Uranus may be square his planets in Capricorn as well... there's retro-Mercury at this moment, which sometimes effects communication... (that we don't know his houses to see for sure where these things are playing out in transit or his natal, but overall... he would be under a lot of conflicting and strong planetary influences at this moment.) Capricorn doesn't scare easily, but... I can only say that from a Sun perspective. Be open and honest with him, supportive in his tribulations, but make sure you are clear with him on what you are wanting, needing from his as well. He may be indecisive because he's stressed, your stability and reassurance should help... but, as with any relationship... don't allow yourself to be toyed with... (even if it is unintentionally)... Capricorns don't like wasting time, and treasure security and structure in all their undertakings... if he is very Capricornian or Saturnian, he'd greatly respect you to be this way too, (your certainty and confidence will bring out the best in him, and help clear his mind/de-stress him.) I don't think you did anything wrong here~ at least, it doesn't seem like it from my point of view. lol As a Capricorn with multiple transits aspecting all of my planets right now... yeah, times are tough... I've been insanely busy... but, having a supportive friend, and partner would make things a great deal easier to face... though I do not like to communicate much when I'm very stressed and anxious... I tackle things that need to get done, and then feel more (idk) capable(?) of reciprocating and conversing... he might be something like this too, if his mind isn't in the right place... sometimes it is easier (I've found, in my experience), to not speak casually, sometimes I'm short on patience (because of time and stress and priorities), and sometimes I may sound cold when I really wouldn't mean things to sound that way at all... sadly... I am one of those "take care of business" first, types of Capricorns, (though I have 5th house Sun, and do enjoy life's pleasures when I can), it's all about priorities though. ~NOT to say he doesn't see you as a priority... but, take care of the little things and the little things, (as they say)... lol chaos (except my own kind of organized chaos), worries me... so those sometimes arbitrary tasks, need to be handled before I can relax and hopefully, especially... before the pile up and become an even bigger burden. Small things have a tendency to accumulate, I've also found. LOL Anyway- good luck! ^^ @ I'm So Cappy~~~~ I think you may be remembering CuriousBull, no? IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 2973 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 25, 2013 03:23 PM
Hello DreamingBull! Welcome to LL ------------------
"For all those who believe, expect a miracle.” Linda Goodman 1925-1995 IP: Logged |
happyaskings Knowflake Posts: 105 From: Dallas, TX, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 25, 2013 03:42 PM
I find a lot of men with strong Cap placements to be 'pansys' (to put it nicely) until they get older...like 30+. I would just let it be. You opened up to him, the ball is in his court now...give him time and space to man up but dont wait around for him. Do your own thing.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 3994 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted February 25, 2013 07:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by happyaskings: I find a lot of men with strong Cap placements to be 'pansys' (to put it nicely) until they get older...like 30+. I would just let it be. You opened up to him, the ball is in his court now...give him time and space to man up but dont wait around for him. Do your own thing.
Pansies, how? IP: Logged |
ueharaa Knowflake Posts: 439 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted February 25, 2013 07:27 PM
just be yourself. What's the point of having to put on an act because you're afraid if you don't it might scare him, drive him away.. etc.. You didn't do anything wrong. You just told him you were thinking of him. Now caps can be very guarded with their feelings. It's hard to express them properly. As to answer your questions, no, caps don't get scared easily. They're not scared of commitment, of responsabilities and duties, quite the contrary they seek them. Also keep in mind that caps are very determined and know what they want. They're not afraid to go after it. It may take them quite some time though, the time to work out their insecurities, and elaborate a scheme. IP: Logged | |