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Topic: Virgo ascendant's perfectionism
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 431 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 25, 2013 10:06 PM
Is this curable? Flaws annoy me so much it's sick... ------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
peregrine Knowflake Posts: 1549 From: sand castle Registered: Apr 2012
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posted February 25, 2013 10:10 PM
eliminate the flaw. my sun is in the virgo decan. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 431 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 25, 2013 10:13 PM
You're right...*cuts her head off* Ahhh, I feel better now. Thanks.
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TaurusInParticles Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted February 25, 2013 10:19 PM
Post your chart and I'll help assess the damagesIP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 431 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 25, 2013 10:21 PM
What damages?------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
TaurusInParticles Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted February 25, 2013 10:27 PM
Yeah, I debated with myself briefly on whether to use that word or not. I'm sorry, I meant no disrespect..Post your chart so I can see the big picture. IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth Knowflake Posts: 1981 From: Gaea's Omphalos Registered: Aug 2012
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posted February 25, 2013 10:39 PM
I try to embrace it. But, I admit... when it takes that long to put jelly on toast so that it is all spread "just right", and then the toast is cold... yes, I get peeved at myself! XD doh! Virgo decan Virgo Ascendant, trine Mercury and his buddies, sextile Saturn, Mars, Pluto (equally wide on both sides)... and, dear ol' Cappy Sun in Virgo decan as well... order... everything must be in order... not anyone else's though, so much as my own (that organized chaos thing I mentioned before *blame Uranus square*)... or else... I go all atomic inside... I'm praying my progressed ascendant will start compensating sooner than later... but, nope. so far, the natal placements are the stronger, far as I can tell at least. haha Not going to cut my nose off to spite my face though... Uranus squares my Ascendant with Venus... I can accept my physical flaws... but the health related nonsense that has bubbled up in recent years, in some part, possibly influenced by these energies... (Aquarius rules my 6th (Virgo house), squaring Virgo from Sagittarius... nicht so gut, eh.) Mostly I struggle to contain my perfectionist urges from imposing my standards on others, and to not be so hard on myself in failing to maintain them as well, (falling short of my own expectations).... it's sort of self-betrayal, when the mind gets too busy with making things "perfect" all the time... take a deep breath~ and accept the things that are beyond your control, and that things are not and cannot always be "perfect". Works for me... eh... 'bout half the time, at least. lol ^^; IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 431 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 25, 2013 10:39 PM
Hey, it's ok, I know I'm f... up
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 431 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 25, 2013 10:47 PM
I know I can't be perfect, no one and nothing can. But it's stronger than me. At least I want to be perfect, I need it I'm way more understanding towards other people's imperfections.And now I'm laughing at myself. I'm nuts. ------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
TaurusInParticles Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted February 25, 2013 11:25 PM
The ruler of your ascendant is in Sag so I'm thinking your drive to perfection is fueled by a need to find a basic truth in all things. Merq is conjunct Lilith, so this might manifest in a dark way. The Sun in Capricorn also implies perfectionism. Plus Saturn, Uranus and Neptune are nearby; maybe you create and impose standards and limits(Saturn) on yourself(Sun) that are unattainable and dreamy(Uranus and Neptune). On the plus side, all the earth in your chart makes me think you are solid enough bring your dreams to fruitionIP: Logged |
goatcat Knowflake Posts: 433 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 01:42 AM
Look at my chart tooIP: Logged |
goatcat Knowflake Posts: 433 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 01:45 AM
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 431 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 05:17 PM
Thank you TIP.------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |