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Topic: So....ummm...I guess I'm getting married...
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charlie Knowflake Posts: 385 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 09:52 PM
.....at some point. Am engaged now. There is something that worries me. I have a Venus sq Uranus and Neptune....and anything you can Google about these aspects is me. All of it! I am also ruled by Uranus by delineation....in second place comes Pluto... These are VERY strong forces within me, especially the Uranus! If I feel trapped I'm a GONER and there's no return after that. Is this a maturity "thing" or am I doomed?? I love him with more than my heart and beyond and I WANT everything that marriage and living together entails, incl the arguments....but Uranus....sigh IP: Logged |
starfairy Knowflake Posts: 367 From: los angeles, california, USA Registered: Jul 2010
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posted February 26, 2013 10:17 PM
You definitely have some challenging Venus aspects. I think a lot depends on your partner, and your synastry with your partner. If he is the type who will give you a lot of space and freedom, perhaps you won't feel trapped.IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 385 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 10:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by starfairy: You definitely have some challenging Venus aspects. I think a lot depends on your partner, and your synastry with your partner. If he is the type who will give you a lot of space and freedom, perhaps you won't feel trapped.
He's 99% Air with an Earth singleton. Libra stellium, Aqua Moon. I have an Air singleton and I am VERY Air... IP: Logged |
cappy1277 Moderator Posts: 1434 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted February 26, 2013 11:24 PM
Lol then you hit the jackpot. Im sure you wouldn't have said yes if you had any doubt that you could be attached to someone. IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 385 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 26, 2013 11:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by cappy1277: Lol then you hit the jackpot. Im sure you wouldn't have said yes if you had any doubt that you could be attached to someone.
It's hard to explain!! It's something that happens in my brain and I can't seem to overcome it! It's like a "switch" and when it goes "on" I'm toast!
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cappy1277 Moderator Posts: 1434 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted February 27, 2013 08:36 AM
That's love lol IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 385 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 27, 2013 10:54 AM
No one understands me!!! See what I am saying? Bloody Uranus...IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 4869 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted February 27, 2013 11:50 AM
Stop worrying and just get married!I have Venus Conjunct Uranus and Venus Trine Uranus in Synastry. I have Venus Sextile Uranus in Composite. My natal Uranus is even in the 7th House of marriage, and Conjunct Pluto. Her Uranus Conjunct Pluto in the 4th House of home. None of this matters. We'll be celebrating our 20th anniversary. Let the haters be haters. Nothing and no one matters except you and him and you two together. The astrologers who talk smack - a lot of them can't even hold a successful marriage. Something to think about. IP: Logged |
cappy1277 Moderator Posts: 1434 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted February 27, 2013 12:27 PM
Because you are over rationalizing lol. Some things just are and just happen and some people are just meant to be...when it's like that, it's easy to keep going with it. Go with the flow of it all because if you don't, you might find or create a problem that never really existed to begin with. ❤❤❤------------------ "No dream is ever too small; no dream is ever too big." IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 4869 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted February 27, 2013 12:30 PM
^^. Thank you twin sister. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 797 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 27, 2013 12:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by charlie: It's hard to explain!! It's something that happens in my brain and I can't seem to overcome it! It's like a "switch" and when it goes "on" I'm toast!
I know whatcha mean uranus sq venus,mercury,sun,saturn,ascendant,trine moon. IP: Logged |
quinnlycanastro Knowflake Posts: 380 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted February 27, 2013 01:16 PM
I haven't got Venus in aspect to Uranus but I do have Sun sextile, and the moon is in opposition to Uranus. I'm forty this year ~ and still couldn't get married. I can't commit just for the sake of it and once I know that the relationship isn't going to last forever ~ I'm out. IP: Logged |
cappy1277 Moderator Posts: 1434 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted February 27, 2013 03:20 PM
You're welcome twin brother! Quinnly- I have venus in Aquarius, sun sextile Uranus and moon quincunx Uranus. I'm slowly giving up on the idea of ever being married myself. I hate to be stuck in a dead end relationship myself...I can usually intuit who will be in my life for a long time or at least who seems to be promising. Charlie- I totally understand you but being that I was giving you a piece of advice, I hope you understand what I was trying to say ❤ IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 4869 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted February 27, 2013 03:30 PM
Twin sister, would you like to put our charts together and have a look?IP: Logged |
cappy1277 Moderator Posts: 1434 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted February 27, 2013 03:34 PM
Give me the info and let's have a look see...I will start another thread so we won't take over Charlie's thread IP: Logged |
Sorcha Knowflake Posts: 830 From: Registered: Mar 2012
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posted February 27, 2013 03:40 PM
charlie,I get what you're saying. I'm not sure if you are more worried about getting in to that panic mode or how you might respond to that panic mode. Just a thought, if/when you feel the stirrings of that trapped feeling, just take the time you need (10 minutes, an hour, a day, whateves) and just breathe through it and ground yourself. I know how hokey that sounds but panic, regardless of its source, is still panic. It's fight or flight (well, in your case just flight) and simply bringing yourself back to a calm state will likely help you to put things back in to perspective. Also, congratulations!!! IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 4869 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted February 27, 2013 03:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by cappy1277: Give me the info and let's have a look see...I will start another thread so we won't take over Charlie's thread
I started a new thread in Personal Readings. Sorry about the thread cr4p, Charlie. IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 385 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 27, 2013 06:23 PM
*5hrs deep into Lotus position....is breathing in and out....* Thanks for kind words IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 4869 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted February 27, 2013 07:54 PM
Charlie, we're all rooting for you and I'll send you my prayers. Congratulations on finding the love of your life and look forward to a lifetime of happy moments together and a blessed union in eternity. IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 385 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 27, 2013 08:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: Charlie, we're all rooting for you and I'll send you my prayers. Congratulations on finding the love of your life and look forward to a lifetime of happy moments together and a blessed union in eternity.
Thank you!! That is so sweet! IP: Logged |
cappy1277 Moderator Posts: 1434 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted February 27, 2013 10:48 PM
Definitely a big congratulations is in order!! I wish you the best of luck! ❤❤❤❤IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 4023 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted February 27, 2013 10:51 PM
i remember when you posted you'd found the one!! I was like "Psh, whatever." Not because I didn't believe you, but I wrestle with the idea of "the one." Anyways, congratulations! I love engagements. IP: Logged |
cappy1277 Moderator Posts: 1434 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted February 28, 2013 12:11 AM
There's a lid for every pot IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 8344 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 28, 2013 12:16 AM
quote: Originally posted by cappy1277: There's a lid for every pot
adorable quote! LOL IP: Logged |