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Topic: My Life Revolves Around My Relationships
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goatcat Knowflake Posts: 452 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 03, 2013 01:30 PM
Whyyyy?Is it my Pisces Venus? Cancer Mars? Pisces is on my seventh house cusp. I love drowning in the sea of love. I tend to live through the person I'm with. I become immersed in him to the point where I don't know where I begin or end. I'm the type to see my partner every single day, and even though I get tired and irritated with them, I would rather be with them than without them. IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 1158 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 03, 2013 01:37 PM
My bffl is the same way. She has venus in pisces conjunct descendant EXACT. I swear she's like the goddess of dating. She's always in a relationship and she's 100 percent dedicated. Even if her boyfriends suck. Any person who has her is one lucky son of a gun.. Too bad most people don't deserve her love, I probably don't either...IP: Logged |
goatcat Knowflake Posts: 452 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 03, 2013 03:13 PM
I think Venus Pisces makes for a devoted, chameleonish lover.IP: Logged |
ueharaa Knowflake Posts: 455 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted March 03, 2013 03:19 PM
Venus in pisces in the 7th house wow, sure you would be very involved in your relationship. Vensu is exalted by sign and furthermore in its own house so that's a double dose of venus there.Do you find that you need a close binding relationship to feel loved? If you don't mind me asking, where is your moon? IP: Logged |
goatcat Knowflake Posts: 452 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 03, 2013 04:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by ueharaa: Venus in pisces in the 7th house wow, sure you would be very involved in your relationship. Vensu is exalted by sign and furthermore in its own house so that's a double dose of venus there.Do you find that you need a close binding relationship to feel loved? If you don't mind me asking, where is your moon?
No my Venus is in the sixth house. my descendant is in Pisces. I guess I would need a close binding relationship. I spend every day with my lover. I can't do long distance. My moon is in Scorpio and it trines with my Venus. IP: Logged |
peregrine Knowflake Posts: 1917 From: sand castle Registered: Apr 2012
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posted March 03, 2013 09:34 PM
i have venus on descendant too. i know where i end and she does for the most part but i can be very devoted yes.IP: Logged |
JohnFKennedy Knowflake Posts: 563 From: US Registered: Aug 2009
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posted March 04, 2013 10:38 AM
Iiiiinteresting thread. You know, my entire life I always thought I would make the worst girlfriend. I was so positive I would be very emotionally detached, minimal on the physical affection, and I would find the thought that my partners emotional problems would somewhat become my own very abhorrent. I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 17 and this absolutely played true. I have an Aquarius Moon and a Venus in Aries so I figured a long term relationship wasn't for me. I would date around with noncommital dudes who loved my laid back demeanor but deep down inside this little pattern of mind began to depress me and I didn't understand why. Flashforward to my current relationship of 8 months and I have not gone one single day without seeing him since our first date. We've began to share the same mind, I dote on him and bring him lunches, massage him after a long days work (these favors are mutual, trust me lol), have become something like a nest when something is bothering him. I had NO idea I had this sh*t in me, you know? And yet, like most people in this thread, I have a Pisces descendant with Venus in the 7th house (in Aries, mind you, but still). Plus Venus square Neptune is the strongest orb in my chart. IP: Logged |
goatcat Knowflake Posts: 452 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 06, 2013 07:49 AM
My partner becomes my God when I'm in a relationship. I love serving my partner with back rubs and fixing his food. My Venus is in the sixth. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 2337 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 06, 2013 09:21 AM
Wow. I live for my relationships and I'm a very devoted partner (7th house stellium, Pisces moon). I always hought there was a danger I'm too emotionally needy or clingy until seeing this thread. I now realize that I might be more Aquarian than I thought. I mean, seeing your partner every single day with no breaks? I don't think I could handle that and I don't desire it. So maybe I'm more airy than I thought. I DO require daily communication, though.IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 2337 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 06, 2013 09:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by goatcat: My partner becomes my God when I'm in a relationship. I love serving my partner with back rubs and fixing his food. My Venus is in the sixth.
I love Venus in the sixth Especially after being with an eleventh house Venus and being the last priority. IP: Logged |
rosedl Knowflake Posts: 25 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted March 07, 2013 08:07 PM
It is one dangerous way to live. I did it for years. Defining your sense of self through relationships ultimately leaves you bereft of your own identity. Take it from me, I did it for twenty years. Relationship to relationship to relationship.Relationships can end at any time. People change. People leave. People grow apart. It is rare that two people are truly content to spend a lifetime together. So many stay out of fear of change and live lives of quiet misery. I have finally come to realize that we are all ultimately alone. We can share many things, and bring each other great joy. We can't hold or maintain anything as life is perpetual change and it takes two incredibly evolved souls to grow together without holding on. I would like to think I am developing that capacity, I have managed to keep a friendship with my long time partner, now ex. The next guy I am now working on forgiving and not holding on, it is coming along (especially since it was just two weeks ago, and the pain is loosening if the missing is still there). It was a tough break up as well. I thought we might be more then another lesson in disentangling co-dependency. In my 40s and having had my fill of projected romance, I think I am just tired from all of it. IP: Logged |
hikoro Knowflake Posts: 394 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 07, 2013 08:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by rosedl:
I have finally come to realize that we are all ultimately alone.
beautiful.... back then, i thought this was sad, had a relative mentioning this once to me, but now...i understand this.
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Lunae Knowflake Posts: 253 From: Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 07, 2013 09:14 PM
I have my NN in the 7th so that means my life direction gears towards relationships/partnerships. My Libra Venus, however, is squaring my NN.With that placement, I do feel that my purpose in life is to establish a commitment, but I am having difficulty doing that esp with Sag/Cap in my 7th plus Uranus and Neptune conjuncting in it. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 148 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 07, 2013 09:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by goatcat: My partner becomes my God when I'm in a relationship. I love serving my partner with back rubs and fixing his food. My Venus is in the sixth.
lol me too ------------------ Gemini sun 12th Cancer asc 1st Taurus moon 11th Taurus venus 11th Libra mars 3rd Gemini mercury 11th IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 148 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 07, 2013 09:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aquacheeka: Wow. I live for my relationships and I'm a very devoted partner (7th house stellium, Pisces moon). I always hought there was a danger I'm too emotionally needy or clingy until seeing this thread. I now realize that I might be more Aquarian than I thought. I mean, seeing your partner every single day with no breaks? I don't think I could handle that and I don't desire it. So maybe I'm more airy than I thought. I DO require daily communication, though.
guess u shouldnt get married lol IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 1649 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted March 07, 2013 11:25 PM
quote: I'm the type to see my partner every single day, and even though I get tired and irritated with them, I would rather be with them than without them.
You're the exact opposite of me in ever single way O_O We should compare our charts!! IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 1649 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted March 07, 2013 11:27 PM
quote: I don't think I could handle that and I don't desire it. So maybe I'm more airy than I thought.
I don't desire that either and I have zero air in my chart.. and I have no desire to get married... unless I absolutely have to. IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 1649 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted March 07, 2013 11:31 PM
goatcat & venusian moon and anyone else who can relate to the initial post... Were your parents very encouraging about love-relationships and marriage? Did they have a stable/happy relationship?Everyone in my family... from parents to grandparents... has been telling me to "focus on my career" and "never get married" - basically since I was born. IP: Logged |
goatcat Knowflake Posts: 452 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 08, 2013 11:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: goatcat & venusian moon and anyone else who can relate to the initial post... Were your parents very encouraging about love-relationships and marriage? Did they have a stable/happy relationship?Everyone in my family... from parents to grandparents... has been telling me to "focus on my career" and "never get married" - basically since I was born.
My parents aren't very encouraging about love and marriage. My family tells me the same "focus on your career" thing. I never agreed with them because while you're so focused on your career and you're ready to "settle down", everyone's fat, pregnant, and taken. There should be a balance definitely. IP: Logged |