posted March 06, 2013 09:32 AM            

Are these the ultimate heartbreakers?

posted March 06, 2013 09:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
Elizabeth Taylor had it. She did marry 7 times, but she did love a man (Richard) from the bottom of her heart until she died, and that counts.

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Itīs funny, because I kinda feel this way too. Iīd like to stay singl, even if I really love someone, but I donīt have this placement. However Iīm crushing on someone who does, and heīs the biggest ladiesman Iīve EVER met. Itīs like no matter how meny ladies he has he always want more.

But he seems miserable too, if that makes sense. Like heīs empty inside. Maybe he loves that special someone who he canīt have.

Come to think of it, it seems that these people want what they canīt have (more so than the avarage person).

posted March 06, 2013 10:35 AM            

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Originally posted by 12muddy:
Venus conj uranus in capricorn here. Some people have called me a hearbreaker but I don't think I am. I've always been very clear about my expectations. In a relationship, I look for excitement and romance. I like to be "addicted" to the guy. When I don't get what I want, I leave.

Now I'm married to another "heartbreaker" who has virgo venus square sag uranus =D

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Is your relationship unconventional in any way?

What made you commit to him? Why is he the one? Is your relationship adventurous?

posted March 06, 2013 02:43 PM            

They are both far from heartbreakers!! Lol in fact my sister has always had her heart broken, not the other way around.

Her Venus-Uranus conjunction manifests in her being attracted to men outside her culture. She's definitely a free spirit but has a tremendous desire for
companionship. she definitely wants to get married, have kids, etc. However, she has had difficulty finding a guy because her standards are sky high. She finally found love with a guy who also has this conjunction. They travel a LOT and do lots of fun things together (she's a sag, he has sag ascendant and a full 9th house). She definitely needs a lot of variety and fun in her relationships or she gets bored. She has been complaining lately that their sex life is getting a bit stale lol. She would die before she cheated, though; she's soooo loyal!!

posted March 06, 2013 06:08 PM            

But it just occured to me that the biggest player I know has this in his natal chart.

And we have it in composite chart, so I have given up a long time ago. Itīs a shame, because I felt like there was mutual attraction, but we had no idea what to do with eachother..

posted March 06, 2013 07:11 PM            

Sagittarius Venus conjunct Uranus - 4h

Venus sits on my South Node

they semisquare my Scorpion Mars-Pluto and semisextile my Saturn - and square (well Uranus does, nigh wide Venus) my Ascendant in Virgo.

been the heartbroken party more than the heart-breaker.

I've had a lot of short relationships that ended because of my Saturn-Moon opposition, or my Mars-Pluto conjunction, before I learned to let my Venus hold the reigns.

the positive aspect to Saturn and their placement within the 4th house combined with 9th house Taurus Moon and Libra 2nd house...

I wouldn't do anything to harm others, while I can't say I have never been a heart-breaker, I just do not know really~ I've never intentionally been flighty... I've often been the one blindsided by a bad romance, but... but... yes - my relationships are often unconventional/different, in some way... it's just that I have my own moral code, my own virtues, and I'm too darn stubborn and yet accepting to be flakey or fickle~ (well sometimes - I can be fickle... but,that's Jupiter-Mercury-Neptune's fault... honest!) lol

My recovery speed after unrequited romance, or a failed romance is only fast because of Venus-Uranus and being Capricorn with these and those Saturn aspects... ("fundamentally empirical Sagittarianism" hmmmmmmmm?)

I've dealt with a lot of heart-breakers in my life, Uranus-Venus seems to not be a common pattern with those.

There were two men though... (both Aries Suns, total studs... =x sorry! haha 8h talkin'!) with Venus opposite Uranus. I swear to the astrogods, these guys had a new girl for every other hour at their beck and call and a few curious men in their harems as well, (oddly enough or not)... (they were certainly not to be envied though, since they attracted a lot of jealousy and hatred from others without even doing anything to deserve it... Guys hated them because they "looked" like a threat, girls that liked them would fight endlessly over them tooth and nail... even though they weren't even approached by the guy(s) for that purpose~ both just liked to keep the company of as many people as possible, usually women came to them naturally... understandably so... right!!? I only know the one guys asc, Cancer-Leo cuspy - given the other guys hair-obsession, and crazy pride - I'd guess he may have been a Leo riser too! haha) In their defense though, both had impossibly strange ideals for their partners, and when they did find someone who matched what that ideal was, they were indisputably faithful... but just like the few conjunctions I know of... they seem to always be the ones to get the (pardon) shaft, from these partnerings... :/ ~so maybe Ura-Ven people DO sorta' have that whole "want what they cannot have" issue in common... XD iunno! I wouldn't say it is "always" the aspect of a heartbreaker... to me that sounds more like it would involve the Ascendant, or Mars... ^^; (Aries naturally rules the 1st/Mars *in most traditional housing methods that is*)

Anyway, I'm happy to read this thread~! good to know others out there with Uranus-Venus who aren't all promiscuous the way descriptions tend to portray this aspect. ^^
So thanks to everyone for sharing there influences of this aspect and that of acquaintances with it here~ <3

posted March 07, 2013 07:10 AM            

I belive all of you when you say that itīs not a heartbreak aspect, itīs more of an wanting-excitement-with-that-special-someone - aspect.

These people love challenges and novelty in any form. They have a need to be stimulated, otherwise they almost get depressed. I could be wrong, but thatīs how I see it.

This guy that I know likes his relationships to be like a battlefield almost. We had alot of tension going on between us because I donīt like his personality (who likes players, right?) and I noticed that that was what kept him interested. But the more interested he got the more empty his feelings for me seemed.

He even tried to get close to me once, I think so anyway, unless Iīm totally wrong about his intensions. I felt so much attraction for him, like I said these peple have an electric quality, but my intuition kept telling me - Run girl! So I did.

posted October 27, 2014 01:29 PM            

My paternal grandfather had a Venus/Uranus aspect and he was married a few times. It was conjunct. Oddly, his Saturn trined his Venus. In his latter years, he did settle down with a wife, until his death.