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From: Uranus
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posted March 07, 2013 01:04 PM            

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Are you passive, submissive, and willing to your lovers and people in general? A weaker-willed person? Im just curious...

I have Cancer sun and Mars myself and i feel this way~

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posted March 07, 2013 01:06 PM            

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^^ No.

cancer moon.

But I have sun,merc,venus and saturn in leo. Mars in virgo.

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posted March 07, 2013 01:29 PM            

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I am Cancer sun with a Cancer Venus, and I am very much go with the flow and try to make my partner happy. BUT, I do have boundaries and I will stand up like mad and fight if I feel someone is being unjust to me. Maybe its my ninth house placement of these planets, and the Sag influence in that house.

I am in my early 40s now, and the lines that partners used to be able to walk all over....UH UH. My last guy left because I wouldn't move on some important set boundaries (he had a few of his own too, fear of commitment phobe). I am mellow on 99% of it, but if the core stuff is crossed, I am not at all docile or compliant. I get fierce.

Scorpio Rising as well

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posted March 07, 2013 01:41 PM            

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Hehe you guys have Scorpy Ascendants or Lots of planet in Fire. thats why you guys can stand up more I guess. I have mostly Water and Earth [few Fire] planets, and Neptune conjunct ASC

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posted March 07, 2013 01:45 PM            

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^^ I don't really have to stand up, I normally take the lead

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posted March 07, 2013 02:22 PM            

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I am a Cancer Venus and I am usually pretty submissive when things are getting intimate. Scorpio Moon takes control sometimes though so there is balance. In all other aspects I like things to be 50/50 or just go my way lol.

My best friend is a Cancer Moon and she is extremely submissive in relationships. The guy gets the last word in everything and what he says goes. She goes out of her way so he can be happy even if it makes her unhappy...and then she martyrs herself. Its extremely annoying, this isnt 1945.

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posted March 07, 2013 02:41 PM            

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I don't have any Cancer placements so overlook as you wish. But Cancer Moons and Mars women AND men seem to have submissive tendencies (ESPECIALLY Cancer Mars), but I dunno about Cancer Suns. I've never met an even slightly submissive Cancer Sun. All have been pushy and sort of aggressive. Not as in randomly punch a random stranger in the face aggressive... but as in they want things to go their way and they are independent and are go-getters. Some want control in their intimate relationships. Might have something to do with Uranus in Capricorn opposing their Sun/Merc/Venus, as these Cancers are part of that generation.

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posted March 07, 2013 03:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
I don't have any Cancer placements so overlook as you wish. But Cancer Moons and Mars women AND men seem to have submissive tendencies (ESPECIALLY Cancer Mars), but I dunno about Cancer Suns. I've never met an even slightly submissive Cancer Sun. All have been pushy and sort of aggressive. Not as in randomly punch a random stranger in the face aggressive... but as in they want things to go their way and they are independent and are go-getters. Some want control in their intimate relationships. Might have something to do with Uranus in Capricorn opposing their Sun/Merc/Venus, as these Cancers are part of that generation.

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I have Neptune opposite my Sun.

Hmm I do like to get my way in relationships but I like men to control me, too. hehe.. Plutonian men who like me totally dominate me tho, thats why i like neptunian or lunarian men

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posted March 07, 2013 03:32 PM            

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No

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posted March 07, 2013 04:37 PM            

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I have cancer moon (in the seventh) and I am definitely not submissive. Scorpio sun might be something to do with this. I would say I am very tolerant/ willing to compromise though.

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posted March 07, 2013 05:02 PM            

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Yes and no. I am cancer sun but I have pluto in scorpio in the eighth and mars in aries in the first house, so if someone tries to hurt me I will cut them off and I admit I have a temper when it comes to someone violating me or disrespecting me. but if i trust someone i will be submissive if i feel like im being treated right.

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posted March 07, 2013 08:29 PM            

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No. I have a Mars right on top of ascendant ...My merc and sun is also sq Pluto so things tend to just "come out" of my mouth. I had a terrible temper as a kid!!! Oh boy. I can still feel it under surface sometimes but have learned to control it.

My Mom is a Scorpio Sun/Moon/Merc with an Aries Rising so it was "tough love" when I grew up

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posted March 08, 2013 12:00 AM            

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cancer sun and mercury

whoaaa no. i'm very strong willed and can be pretty selfish and hot tempered. then again i've got moon squaring venus and mars, which then square pluto.

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posted March 08, 2013 08:07 AM            

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im too open-hearted and sensitive for this world, sometimes i feel like blowing my brains out

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posted March 08, 2013 08:49 AM            

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from a pisces venus to you.....i understand completely. lol

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