posted March 07, 2013 11:59 PM            

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Originally posted by GiggityGirl:
11 - I guess that's an option. But I think most guys are used to women pushing boundaries a bit with petting and what not, and still going home without sex and it not being a game.

I guess what blows my mind is that we had SO much in common before meeting, and clearly had sexual chemistry, so even if he didn't get laid, why wouldn't he pursue things?

Unless, the obvious, is that he was only it for the nooky, despite all of his other BS crap. On our date, he talked of future things we'd do, how his brother lives in town and how I'll meet him at some point...

bleh.

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Yea but your description of what happened sounds a bit too steamy.The way he was all googly eyes over you ,before any touching happened. And then after the touching, he must have been on fire LOL. Yea many guys won't force themselves on you after being turned down.doesn't mean they wont be dissapointed,and wont loose interest.not all men will continue to pursue the girl after being teased like that, with no happy ending lol. If he calls back, or you call him, and you're sure you don't want to have sex with him, then try cutting back some on physical contact. And see if he"s still interested. Because even if he calls back, you do want to know whether or not he's interested in getting to know you, or just to have sex and bounce.

posted March 08, 2013 03:25 AM            

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Originally posted by GiggityGirl:
Venusian - I have no problem with him being sexual. I love sex, too, and yes, the chemistry was strong between us. But this was a first date, and within an hour of meeting, this guy was sucking my fingers and toes deep into his mouth, and trying to get me to go home with him.

I'm just bummed, because he's older (50s), and I'd like to think older men aren't so scummy. He even made a point of telling me he didn't need viagra. lol

So, does all of this mean that even before we met, his only intention all along was to get me in bed, provided I was reasonably attractive (or does that even matter? lol).

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Okay,first of all, old men are extremely scummy through my experience,and its likely that if he's that old, he probably wants sex with you,and isn't going to waste more dates on you..

Sun Sign alone, doesn't say much because you don't know his Venus. My Scorpio ex was very sexual but wanted a committed relationship too. Generally I believe that most men despite their sun sign, will try to get sex on the first date, but if the answer is no,and then they dissapear, I think it's pretty obvious that this has nothing to do with astrology,and the guy just wanted sex.

posted March 08, 2013 03:25 AM            

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Originally posted by GiggityGirl:
Venusian - I have no problem with him being sexual. I love sex, too, and yes, the chemistry was strong between us. But this was a first date, and within an hour of meeting, this guy was sucking my fingers and toes deep into his mouth, and trying to get me to go home with him.

I'm just bummed, because he's older (50s), and I'd like to think older men aren't so scummy. He even made a point of telling me he didn't need viagra. lol

So, does all of this mean that even before we met, his only intention all along was to get me in bed, provided I was reasonably attractive (or does that even matter? lol).

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Okay,first of all, old men are extremely scummy through my experience,and its likely that if he's that old, he probably wants sex with you,and isn't going to waste more dates on you..

Sun Sign alone, doesn't say much because you don't know his Venus. My Scorpio ex was very sexual but wanted a committed relationship too. Generally I believe that most men despite their sun sign, will try to get sex on the first date, but if the answer is no,and then they dissapear, I think it's pretty obvious that this has nothing to do with astrology,and the guy just wanted sex.

posted March 08, 2013 04:24 AM            

Speaking from experience I reacted the same way as you did (praise be to my Capricorn Venus...head always rules heart - or body )

I agree with the other posters, I'm afraid this man was after a good seeing to and you were the lady for the job. Scorpio men are incredibly hard to resist when they've got you in their sights. They literally pull out ALL the stops.

It's easy for me to say but just keep going living your life and dont look back. If he wants anything more with you than just sex, trust me when I say he WILL come back. x