posted March 08, 2013 08:22 AM            

I've been dating a Cap at a very slow pace. Each time we've gotten together the attraction is magnetic, open, direct and pure. Twice over the last few months. Touching base to follow up on next date was frequent to start and has settled down since the last time we met. It left of a positive note. He told me of all the places he wanted to take me, introduce me to his friends.. The night ended with a sweet kiss.
My plans to move inner city fell through because of a work situation. I was pretty upset about it and partially communicated that. His response: Its okay, when it happens its right.

Thats how it stands now.

His ascendant is my Sun (Leo) and his moon in Cap.

So my question is: Is this good old Cap plugging through and being right there in a withdrawn way?
Or should I be concerned about the zero communication at this point in time?

I've read this is one issue between Leo and Cap. I'm good doing my thing and giving him the same space, but after a several days my heart feels a little heavy and in need of some sweet reassurance. An interesting way Leos need for attention manifests, or is this insecurity? My ascendant is Cancer, so my attention needing balance is largely in the emotional realm.

It might also be worth mentioning at we are both in a rather difficult part of our mid 20s, settling into work, making changes to better suit our longterm goals etc.
He knows I've got his back.

Do Cap's fade out? or are they in it to win it until they make a decisive break?

posted March 08, 2013 11:30 AM            

he is not going to...(what's the english phrase?) put all of his eggs in one basket if he cant be sure that the plans will be carried out...that there is some 'assurance that x will happen'

posted March 08, 2013 12:41 PM            

Your advice is sound.

I can see how my inability to follow through with the move put a brake on things. He asked me to be in touch when I am able to, so I will do just that and see how it goes.

At the moment I am being positive and supportive. Things do take time.

Another question: Do Caps expect the person their dating to treat it like a trail serious relationship? i.e. not date other people?