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swampys
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posted March 08, 2013 08:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for swampys     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What aspects, etc. could explain this?

Like, I really like this guy and he has a blog and when I find it he deletes it, which is good because I know he likes other girls and I think he talks to them on there, but I still want to find it even though I know I'd be disappointed and really sad and mad. I'm Plutonian. Also, I feel guilty because he's entitled to his privacy and I don't want to make him feel uncomfortable.

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hannaramaa
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posted March 08, 2013 08:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ROFL. It's like I'm reading my own post except my guy doesn't delete his. And you're what? 19, 20? I feel the same way and the guy does the same thing (again, except deleting it.)

I have Moon trine Saturn and Moon opposition Pluto. Pluto in the 5th house. Mars in Gemini in the 12th house, so there's a lot of watery influence in my chart. I also have Saturn and Neptune in the 7th and I think Saturn somewhat likes angst, and Pluto loves intensity. Then again this could be unrelated astrologically since I think I'm also emotionally hungry. I have Sun and Venus square Saturn so I can't always see I'm loved even when it's there.

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posted March 08, 2013 08:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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swampys
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posted March 08, 2013 08:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for swampys     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
ROFL. It's like I'm reading my own post except my guy doesn't delete his. And you're what? 19, 20? I feel the same way and the guy does the same thing (again, except deleting it.)

I have Moon trine Saturn and Moon opposition Pluto. Pluto in the 5th house. Mars in Gemini in the 12th house, so there's a lot of watery influence in my chart. I also have Saturn and Neptune in the 7th and I think Saturn somewhat likes angst, and Pluto loves intensity. Then again this could be unrelated astrologically since I think I'm also emotionally hungry. I have Sun and Venus square Saturn so I can't always see I'm loved even when it's there.


I'm pretty watery, too.

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Doux Rêve
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posted March 09, 2013 06:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I used to be verrrry masochistic but now I'm not into it that much. Still the tendency creeps out sometimes, especially in love/romance.

I think it's due to my Moon / Saturn opposition.

But maybe Pluto has something to do with it, too. Cause negative emotions are usually intense and I guess a negatively expressed Pluto energy could manifest that way. Self-destructive tendencies, emotionally at least.

It kinda sucks, tbh.

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Faith
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posted March 09, 2013 04:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ You're so articulate, Doux.

I can be emotionally masochistic...lately I have been, anyway.

I keep reading extremely sad, true stories before I go to bed. It's like I feel some weird, irresistible duty to empathize with other people who are suffering or dying.

But then I actually lose sleep or have nightmares where basically I am part of the tragedy I just read about, or in a similar desperate situation.

8H Pisces moon ruling my 12H. My 8H is loaded with transiting planets now...ugh VERY uncomfortable but I feel stuck with my impulses.

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Doux Rêve
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posted March 09, 2013 04:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh why, thank you, Faith!
You are articulate, too.


I think the 8th house planets are definitely responsible for what you describe. I usually feel transiting Moon in my 8th very strongly, I get very emotional - negatively emotional.. It's like all the buried things I've been repressing for so long start coming out during that time.


I hope you don't get too deep into it, though! Take care of yourself and make sure you experience positive emotions, as well. And that you can sleep well at night! ~

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Faith
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posted March 12, 2013 04:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you, too, Doux!

I haven't paid much attention to the moon transiting my 8H, but after reading your comment, I will.

The sun is transiting my moon these past few days, and I feel better than when I posted; making more of an effort to stay positive and take care of myself.

Cheers to us, Scorpio energy can be a lot to grapple with sometimes! (I'm Scorpio NN)

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7thGuardian
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posted March 12, 2013 04:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 7thGuardian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2INfnfP4wU8

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I07xDdFMdgw

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Faith
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posted March 12, 2013 05:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Not to belittle the lamp's feelings, though.

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7thGuardian
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posted March 12, 2013 05:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 7thGuardian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Faith:

Not to belittle the lamp's feelings, though.


^^ true, but they used a psychological trick to portray it - a trick based on a personification, same trick that's used in any story where a character is personified (even objects - like toys... like Toy Story ^^). So, it's not about the lamp - as an object, but more about the idea of being replaced, being thrown out in the cold rain... and forgotten.

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