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Topic: Emotional Masochistic Tendencies?
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swampys Knowflake Posts: 222 From: St. Louis, Missouri, USA Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 08, 2013 08:13 PM
What aspects, etc. could explain this?Like, I really like this guy and he has a blog and when I find it he deletes it, which is good because I know he likes other girls and I think he talks to them on there, but I still want to find it even though I know I'd be disappointed and really sad and mad. I'm Plutonian. Also, I feel guilty because he's entitled to his privacy and I don't want to make him feel uncomfortable. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 4126 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted March 08, 2013 08:36 PM
ROFL. It's like I'm reading my own post except my guy doesn't delete his. And you're what? 19, 20? I feel the same way and the guy does the same thing (again, except deleting it.) I have Moon trine Saturn and Moon opposition Pluto. Pluto in the 5th house. Mars in Gemini in the 12th house, so there's a lot of watery influence in my chart. I also have Saturn and Neptune in the 7th and I think Saturn somewhat likes angst, and Pluto loves intensity. Then again this could be unrelated astrologically since I think I'm also emotionally hungry. I have Sun and Venus square Saturn so I can't always see I'm loved even when it's there. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 4126 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted March 08, 2013 08:36 PM
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swampys Knowflake Posts: 222 From: St. Louis, Missouri, USA Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 08, 2013 08:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: ROFL. It's like I'm reading my own post except my guy doesn't delete his. And you're what? 19, 20? I feel the same way and the guy does the same thing (again, except deleting it.) I have Moon trine Saturn and Moon opposition Pluto. Pluto in the 5th house. Mars in Gemini in the 12th house, so there's a lot of watery influence in my chart. I also have Saturn and Neptune in the 7th and I think Saturn somewhat likes angst, and Pluto loves intensity. Then again this could be unrelated astrologically since I think I'm also emotionally hungry. I have Sun and Venus square Saturn so I can't always see I'm loved even when it's there.
I'm pretty watery, too. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 2574 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted March 09, 2013 06:09 AM
I used to be verrrry masochistic but now I'm not into it that much. Still the tendency creeps out sometimes, especially in love/romance.I think it's due to my Moon / Saturn opposition. But maybe Pluto has something to do with it, too. Cause negative emotions are usually intense and I guess a negatively expressed Pluto energy could manifest that way. Self-destructive tendencies, emotionally at least. It kinda sucks, tbh.
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 4007 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 09, 2013 04:23 PM
^ You're so articulate, Doux.I can be emotionally masochistic...lately I have been, anyway. I keep reading extremely sad, true stories before I go to bed. It's like I feel some weird, irresistible duty to empathize with other people who are suffering or dying. But then I actually lose sleep or have nightmares where basically I am part of the tragedy I just read about, or in a similar desperate situation. 8H Pisces moon ruling my 12H. My 8H is loaded with transiting planets now...ugh VERY uncomfortable but I feel stuck with my impulses. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 2574 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted March 09, 2013 04:31 PM
Oh why, thank you, Faith! You are articulate, too. I think the 8th house planets are definitely responsible for what you describe. I usually feel transiting Moon in my 8th very strongly, I get very emotional - negatively emotional.. It's like all the buried things I've been repressing for so long start coming out during that time.
I hope you don't get too deep into it, though! Take care of yourself and make sure you experience positive emotions, as well. And that you can sleep well at night! ~
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 4007 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 12, 2013 04:33 PM
Thank you, too, Doux! I haven't paid much attention to the moon transiting my 8H, but after reading your comment, I will. The sun is transiting my moon these past few days, and I feel better than when I posted; making more of an effort to stay positive and take care of myself. Cheers to us, Scorpio energy can be a lot to grapple with sometimes! (I'm Scorpio NN) IP: Logged |
7thGuardian Knowflake Posts: 716 From: Transylvania Registered: May 2012
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posted March 12, 2013 04:50 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2INfnfP4wU8 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I07xDdFMdgw IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 4007 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 12, 2013 05:00 PM
Not to belittle the lamp's feelings, though. IP: Logged |
7thGuardian Knowflake Posts: 716 From: Transylvania Registered: May 2012
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posted March 12, 2013 05:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: Not to belittle the lamp's feelings, though.
^^ true, but they used a psychological trick to portray it - a trick based on a personification, same trick that's used in any story where a character is personified (even objects - like toys... like Toy Story ^^). So, it's not about the lamp - as an object, but more about the idea of being replaced, being thrown out in the cold rain... and forgotten. IP: Logged |