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Topic: Hurting by a Saggi
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3333
Knowflake Posts: 121
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted March 10, 2013 03:37 AM
  
I am in love with a Saggi,but he doesnt know that ...we are at the same age...i cant understand him,sometimes he is nice to me and some times a jerk...but most of the times he is just hurt me(he ignores me,he likes every photo that he is inside on facebook expept mine and the worst i think is in a relationship with a fat and short Leo who is 2 years younger than him  ...What can i do?Please help me!!!!
Ps another question is how to understand if a Saggi doesnt sympathize u???IP: Logged |
Padre35
Knowflake Posts: 1318
From: Asheville, NC, US
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted March 10, 2013 03:47 AM
I'm a Saggie myself and can see this happening as i've done similar things myself.Saggies (us) will happily just interact with someone at need, but not really have an attachment to the situation. The problem happens is others, in this case you, invest emotional capital in the situation and it just never really occurs to our mutable nature. Basically, we can blow hot and cold as is our mutable nature, which causes hurts that we don't realize we are inflicting.. Sorry 3333 IP: Logged |
3333
Knowflake Posts: 121
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted March 10, 2013 03:54 AM
Its ok Parde35 btw i am ScorpioIP: Logged |
Padre35
Knowflake Posts: 1318
From: Asheville, NC, US
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted March 10, 2013 03:56 AM
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Originally posted by 3333:
Its ok Parde35 btw i am Scorpio
I have several Scorpio placements too Keep in mind with a Saggie, we are bit busy doing juggling tricks or studying whatever to really hear anyone else Basically, to get a Saggie's attention, think jack hammer not subtle nuance IP: Logged |
3333
Knowflake Posts: 121
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted March 10, 2013 04:03 AM
We will see but in my opinion i think he doesnt deserve my attendion at all!!!He is a jerk!!!!But this doesnt mean that i hate Saggis actually i really like Saggis!!!!This jerk is actually a shame for being a Saggi -_-IP: Logged |
Padre35
Knowflake Posts: 1318
From: Asheville, NC, US
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted March 10, 2013 04:08 AM
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Originally posted by 3333:
We will see but in my opinion i think he doesnt deserve my attendion at all!!!He is a jerk!!!!But this doesnt mean that i hate Saggis actually i really like Saggis!!!!This jerk is actually a shame for being a Saggi -_-
 You are right though, the best way to deal with a Saggie is not anger, it is dismissal. At the Saggie's core, the crave for attention is just like a force of nature. Love or Hate are both fine..indifference just messes with a Saggie. I'm sure things will work out for you though 3333, je'amor je'amor. Spring is just around the corner, people become more social able IP: Logged |
3333
Knowflake Posts: 121
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted March 10, 2013 04:27 AM
Hahaha i think you are right  and thanks a lot for your helpful and really good advises i apriciate it a lot IP: Logged |
rosedl
Knowflake Posts: 34
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Registered: Jan 2013
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posted March 10, 2013 05:51 PM
Indifference seems to be a magic magnet for most men, not just the Saggies (if they have any interest at all, otherwise it is just indifference).I have never had a man I cared about not do an about face and pursue once I really gave up and became indifferent to the relationship. I give my all in a relationship, so when I withdraw, I suppose it must be dramatic. I have not had one man who broke up or was wishy washy about commitment not come back and express interest to try again once I just withdraw. It infuriates me beyond belief. What a stupid game. They don't know if you want me when I give them love, devotion, attention, and make them laugh and rub their feet, But, they leave for a bit or I walk away because I get sick of being taken for granted, and then, let's try again. My new rule is no more pursuing, regardless of how I feel about a guy. I am happy to meet someone half way, and I am fine with being the first to ask out. But, if he isn't into me, I am done trying to figure out how to make it something else. It never works except short term. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
Knowflake Posts: 4122
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted March 10, 2013 06:46 PM
I'm going through the same thing! But mine likes every photo change I make, almost all my statuses, my cover photos on Facebook but he hasn't texted me in awhile or put much effort in conversation. Like, okay... ugh.IP: Logged |
PixieJane
Knowflake Posts: 1809
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted March 10, 2013 07:25 PM
I don't think Saggis are inclined to care anywhere as much on just how skinny or tall or what age someone is as many other signs do. And not being so shallow they tend to be much more forgiving of what others might consider flaws. You have to interest their mind (or at least entertain them somehow), not just their eyes. However, they're also cautious about committing themselves to someone (and thus imposing limitations on their independence) and so can can come off as hot & cold while they make up their minds. They also tend to prefer that you have your own life and self-confidence (as that Leo likely does), too, rather than someone who's obsessed about what he thinks of her.IP: Logged |
3333
Knowflake Posts: 121
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted March 11, 2013 02:19 PM
You are right guys the only way its just ignoring him,but i think its a waste of time trying to talk to that guy,especialy of what i learned about him today i think it will make me to ignore him completely,This guy is just a waste of time and the biggest jerk that i ever met!!!IP: Logged |
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