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posted March 14, 2013 07:37 PM            

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Now when I was younger, 3-5 years ago I liked older men! Now that I have my boyfriend who is my age I cant say that as much.

What in the natal chart indicates an attraction to older men in general??

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posted March 14, 2013 07:48 PM            

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People who feel "older" than their age, or feel more mature than their peers. They identify with the older age group so they will be attracted to the experienced, older people.

I'm thinking capricorn influence, or saturn influence, venus/saturn perhaps ?

For me though, I admire their experiences and maturity, but I don't have any sexual/romantic interest in them =D

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posted March 14, 2013 07:54 PM              

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Check saturn connections to planets. Definitely capricorn too.

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posted March 14, 2013 08:13 PM            

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^ they're spot on. I have Saturn trine asc, along with Capricorn on the cusp of my 7th and 8th houses and I find older men sooo much more attractive than guys my age. although age is just a number...

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posted March 14, 2013 08:16 PM            

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Honestly, I dont know why I did, but I mixed my friend with my own personal experience.

she has a strong neptunian aspect

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posted March 14, 2013 08:27 PM            

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I have Neptune in the 7th as well, trine venus, square sun, opp moon, so I could also see that as being a factor. "crushes" and fantasizing about people you can never actually be with. sigh

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posted March 14, 2013 09:23 PM            

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Strong Saturn and Capricorn. I'm an example.

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posted March 15, 2013 12:50 AM            

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Like most people said, you need to check for your Saturn contacts, planets in Capricorn and 10th house migth show something too.

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posted March 15, 2013 03:38 AM            

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Originally posted by 12muddy:
People who feel "older" than their age, or feel more mature than their peers. They identify with the older age group so they will be attracted to the experienced, older people.

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Very true....
I attribute this to my Saturn conjunct Descendant....coz i have nothing in 10th house or Capricorn....and only sun sextile saturn.

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posted March 15, 2013 04:10 AM            

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Yep, I agree with all these. I have a Sag descendant but Capricorn occupies almost 70% of the entire 7th house. I also have Venus trine Saturn. Plus, Capricorn is the sign on my 8th house cusp with its ruler, Saturn in it.

I am attracted to older men, but I have a wide range of age preferences. I have been attracted to guys my age and those who are about 2-3 years younger. Prolly because of my Gem/Sag AC/DC.

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posted March 15, 2013 04:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Juliet41894:
I have Neptune in the 7th as well, trine venus, square sun, opp moon, so I could also see that as being a factor. "crushes" and fantasizing about people you can never actually be with. sigh

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I have this (neptune in the 7th) and this is the story of my love life. :/

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posted March 15, 2013 11:11 AM            

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My bf is 8 years older than me. I have venus semisquare uranus, sun conjunct saturn in the 10th. Usually I am attracted to somewhat older men.

In synastry we have a lot of saturn, ssturn (him) square sun, saturn (him) sextile venus, saturn square saturn. Not sure if this counts for anyyhing, but my natal saturn conjuncts his vedic ascendant.

Uranus can be a factor as well, it gives an attraction to unusual, taboo, weird, or bizarre.

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posted March 15, 2013 11:24 AM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Now when I was younger, 3-5 years ago I liked older men! Now that I have my boyfriend who is my age I cant say that as much.

What in the natal chart indicates an attraction to older men in general??

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I get what you're saying! For some reason, I'm also attracted to older men. I don't know what it is.. Almost all my exes were older than me by at least 4 years. I only had one boyfriend who was my age. It was the worst relationship ever.

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posted March 15, 2013 04:01 PM              

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I am 30 and my boyfriend is 39. In june i will be 31 and he will turn 40. I usually date guys close to my age so this was a surprise to me.

I have capricorn Dsc

Mars conjunct saturn

Mercury trine saturn

Saturn opposition Mc

Saturn conjunct pluto

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posted March 15, 2013 04:28 PM            

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I'm attracted to older men.

Venus in Capricorn.

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posted March 15, 2013 04:28 PM            

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I have Venus Saturn (orb of 5) and I have zero attraction to older men. My age plus/minus 3 years is all that I find acceptable.

Neptune in the 7th, mars in Pisces, Venus trine Pluto and sextile Neptune, gem Asc, Juno in libra

On second thoughts I was extremely attracted to my university lecturer more than twice my age, apparently heavy flirtation w him helped me deal with the fact that I had never had an emotional bond w my father, so now I am only able to consider normal boys without wrinkles wrinkles are so the opposite of hot

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posted March 17, 2013 09:15 AM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Now when I was younger, 3-5 years ago I liked older men! Now that I have my boyfriend who is my age I cant say that as much.

What in the natal chart indicates an attraction to older men in general??

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In my natal chart I have Venus trine Saturn, Saturn in the 10th house. My boyfriend is 21 years older than me (all my boyfriends were older than me, I have never had boyfriend my age). The same natal aspect has Catherine Zeta-Jones her husband Micheal Douglas is 25 years older than she is

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posted March 17, 2013 09:25 AM              

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women were once girls and the little girl first knew of a strong older man, not a little boy, this image sticks in their minds. Then you have mans intellectual capacity which is much smaller than a womans. Women will always come to find that guys her age are just dumb, they always look for guidance and for the advanced man who actually has more woman inside of him, than she does....

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posted March 17, 2013 10:42 AM            

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Depends on what you mean by "older"!
Some women are attracted to men who are like 15-20 years older than them and that's definitely not my case. I'd say that in their case it's probably a strong Saturn (on the DSC for example).

Personally I'm more attracted to guys who are older than me but not to the extent where they could be my father (5 -8 years older, usually).

I have DSC ruler trine Saturn.

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posted May 13, 2015 04:16 PM            

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capricorn stellium here and I'm early twenties and love love love men around 10 years+ older than me so around 30-35 years old.

older than that i don't bother. not a practical choice

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posted May 13, 2015 04:28 PM            

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From what i've seen most women prefer men 3-5 years older than themselves. I don't think it has anything to do with astrology.

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posted May 13, 2015 04:54 PM            

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i've felt seriously attracted men who were 15+ years older than I was.

the last guy i felt attracted too is a top medical student 2 years older than me. He has discipline i would say.
he actually has venus square saturn and i heard him mentioning that a certain female doctor who was 42 was pretty hot(he is like 23).

i have venus conjunct saturn, square pluto and in the 12h house.
And my 7th house ruler is conjunct saturn.

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posted May 13, 2015 09:26 PM            

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Venus trine/sextile Saturn..
i know a few people with this contact, and all are in a relatioship/marriage with an older partner....

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