posted March 17, 2013 09:14 PM              

Sorry just my experience

posted March 17, 2013 10:20 PM            

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Originally posted by starfairy:
I agree with what ELove said.

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posted March 18, 2013 02:09 AM            

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Originally posted by starfairy:
I have this. It takes me a long time to commit. I have a very strong fear of rejection. It takes me a very long time to open up my feelings to someone. I definitely fear vulnerability. I can be quite cold and distant in relationships. I need to know a guy is a loyal, responsible person before I can even begin to think of being with him. Letting down my defenses in relationships is hard. Weird combo for a sag sun lol

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Same here. As a Sag it definitely keeps me grounded and relationships are taken quite seriously.

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Remember, love can conquer the influences of the planets....It can even eliminate karma.

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posted March 18, 2013 02:44 AM            

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Originally posted by starfairy:
My mars is in aqua. It is my only air planet, and sextiles my sun/Uranus/ascendant in sag and moon in Aries. It is conjunct my sun/moon midpoint actually..

Yes fire and earth make an interesting mix! I'm a warm and fun loving person, but I'm cold in relationships lol

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posted March 18, 2013 10:29 AM            

He doesn't want to make it all fb official, he is very loyal as I am to him. I'm in no rush, all that matters is that I am treated the way I want to be treated.

I have Venus in Pisces, before him, I was the one paying for guys...so this is very nice for a change.
And I will pay on the dates sometimes.

I have Venus in the 10th, and his is in the 2nd.

And yes our Venus' do sextile.

posted March 18, 2013 01:15 PM            

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Originally posted by ELoveCherishEndure:
Haha I can only imagine how distant you may seem to a watery and airy person like myself LMAO!

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posted March 19, 2013 06:41 AM            

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Originally posted by goatcat:
So Venus attracts and Mars pursues.

Hoe does Venus in Capricorn attract?

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Hmm good question. My SO whom I am living with now has Venus in Capricorn. But his mars is in Scorpio and is a sag. We've been together for 6 years (and yes he prides himself every year for growing old together).

His biggest way of attracting me was his humor and light-heartedness. But the way he went about pursuing me was kind of sneaky...like for example, asking to see more pictures of my friends but actually was more interested in seeing ME in those pictures with my friends. However, for 6 years already, he has always been there when I needed him. My mother never gave me any financial help besides for the necessities. Even for my college years, she never wanted to pay for my college books and said If I needed them then I should go get myself a part time job. My SO has been paying for everything else that I needed in a way. He spent a lot of money giving me gifts on holidays, but also money for my books, my lunch fees during school and also my transportation costs. As he said to me before this is something he feels proud and good about--the fact that he can provide for me in a sense that my mother didn't.

He is much more practical than the typical Sag, I would say the only thing he got from being a sag sun is the fact that he forgives easily (not really forgetting however), is an optimist, an opportunist, very happy/jolly/has a crazy jolly laugh, loves humor.

However we should note that his ascendant's ruler is Venus(libra) so him having a Venus in Capricorn makes him a bit more grounded. He is a kind hearted person who likes to help. But his way of showing care is by being the breadwinner and providing for us. He has been paying the bills and providing for both of us, whatever i needed or wanted he would get. To him if he didn't care or love me or wanted to have a serious relationship, he wouldn't even think about moving in with me or doing any of this.

I'm a libra and the only thing that I have noticed is that he tends to be horrible at expressing affection. I'm quite verbal and ya...I just leave him be in that department. However, if our conversation is about other things, it's usually pretty good!

posted March 19, 2013 08:31 PM            

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Originally posted by goatcat:
Describe Venus in Capricorn.

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I have Venus in Capricorn and I am anything but boring.

I'm on my 3rd husband!! My biggest problem in love relationships is that I'm always looking for perfection. After 3 husbands I finally realize there is no such thing.

My Venus is also conjunct my MC. One thing I can tell you for sure is that each time I thought I loved each husband but when it was over....... it was OVER. No regrets and I never looked back. If I never saw them again it would be fine, yet I didn't hate any of them.

Despite what people think Venus in Capricorn is not cold physically but perhaps somewhat cold and detached emotionally from the relationship.

Other aspects taken into consideration of course. I have a few bad aspects to mine so if you have this placement don't worry you'll collect a bunch of husbands... LOL.

posted March 19, 2013 09:08 PM            

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Hmm good question. My SO whom I am living with now has Venus in Capricorn. But his mars is in Scorpio and is a sag. We've been together for 6 years (and yes he prides himself every year for growing old together).

His biggest way of attracting me was his humor and light-heartedness. But the way he went about pursuing me was kind of sneaky...like for example, asking to see more pictures of my friends but actually was more interested in seeing ME in those pictures with my friends. However, for 6 years already, he has always been there when I needed him. My mother never gave me any financial help besides for the necessities. Even for my college years, she never wanted to pay for my college books and said If I needed them then I should go get myself a part time job. My SO has been paying for everything else that I needed in a way. He spent a lot of money giving me gifts on holidays, but also money for my books, my lunch fees during school and also my transportation costs. As he said to me before this is something he feels proud and good about--the fact that he can provide for me in a sense that my mother didn't.

He is much more practical than the typical Sag, I would say the only thing he got from being a sag sun is the fact that he forgives easily (not really forgetting however), is an optimist, an opportunist, very happy/jolly/has a crazy jolly laugh, loves humor.

However we should note that his ascendant's ruler is Venus(libra) so him having a Venus in Capricorn makes him a bit more grounded. He is a kind hearted person who likes to help. But his way of showing care is by being the breadwinner and providing for us. He has been paying the bills and providing for both of us, whatever i needed or wanted he would get. To him if he didn't care or love me or wanted to have a serious relationship, he wouldn't even think about moving in with me or doing any of this.

I'm a libra and the only thing that I have noticed is that he tends to be horrible at expressing affection. I'm quite verbal and ya...I just leave him be in that department. However, if our conversation is about other things, it's usually pretty good!

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posted March 19, 2013 09:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbee:
I have Venus in Capricorn and I am anything but boring.

I'm on my 3rd husband!! My biggest problem in love relationships is that I'm always looking for perfection. After 3 husbands I finally realize there is no such thing.

My Venus is also conjunct my MC. One thing I can tell you for sure is that each time I thought I loved each husband but when it was over....... it was OVER. No regrets and I never looked back. If I never saw them again it would be fine, yet I didn't hate any of them.

Despite what people think Venus in Capricorn is not cold physically but perhaps somewhat cold and detached emotionally from the relationship.

Other aspects taken into consideration of course. I have a few bad aspects to mine so if you have this placement don't worry you'll collect a bunch of husbands... LOL.

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posted March 24, 2013 09:17 PM            

My problem was that I didn't think ahead but just for the present. I never stopped to think if this person would make a good husband or father. I think I mistook physical attraction for love. One thing I can tell you about Venus in Capricorn. I thought I loved the first 2 but once I left them... I never looked back. I never saw either again and I moved forward. My present hubby is a keeper. I love him more than I'm "in" love with him and it's like living with your very best friend. So many being IN LOVE is not good for everyone.

posted December 22, 2013 09:08 AM            

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Cappy venus are always looking to upgrade. They will leave you if they see something better (and they are secure in that the other person will accept them). Males with venus in cappy love a career woman, females love being the career woman

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I agree with this. I've casually dated a couple venus in caps, while they didn't leave me for something better I felt like they wanted to date me more as like a status symbol or a piece of arm candy sort of thing. I notice that they always want "the best" or someone who makes them look good by association and are put off by someone who is "uncouth". They don't like messy displays of emotion either, they like their girl to have it together, an independent and successful or career oriented woman.

Let me also be clear that they will not want to date you if they do not respect you... I've been told by a cappy venus + mars that the reason he continues to pursue me is because I wouldn't give it up and that i give him the cold shoulder so to speak. He'd talk about how girls are so easy to get and that as soon as they give in he loses respect for them...

posted December 22, 2013 09:38 AM            

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Originally posted by arcturiann:
I agree with this. I've casually dated a couple venus in caps, while they didn't leave me for something better I felt like they wanted to date me more as like a status symbol or a piece of arm candy sort of thing. I notice that they always want "the best" or someone who makes them look good by association and are put off by someone who is "uncouth". They don't like messy displays of emotion either, they like their girl to have it together, an independent and successful or career oriented woman.

Let me also be clear that they will not want to date you if they do not respect you... I've been told by a cappy venus + mars that the reason he continues to pursue me is because I wouldn't give it up and that i give him the cold shoulder so to speak. He'd talk about how girls are so easy to get and that as soon as they give in he loses respect for them...

Capricorn can be a very cutthroat, to-the-point kind of sign sometimes.

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