posted March 19, 2013 04:41 AM            

On Sunday, he became quiet and talk a little. I just thought maybe he's tired or thinking about his work (he's a workaholic). So, we just spent quiet time that night. I rubbed and massage his shoulders and his neck. I asked at night about his work and he said work's been really crazy.

On Monday, I left his place and told him try not to worry too much and relax.

At this time, I just think he needs time and space. How do I know that he forgives me and how should I make things better with him?

He has Sun sign at 00 Deg Virgo. Moon at 27 Deg Libra. Mercury at 23 Deg Virgo. Venus at 11 Deg Leo and Mars at 04 Deg Scorpio. Rising sign at 02 Deg Sag.

I have Sun 18 Deg Pisces. Moon at 11 Deg Libra. Mercury at 03 Deg Aries. Venus at 21 Deg Aries. Mars at 25 Deg Aries and Rising at 05 Deg Cap.

Please help me, I love this guy so much and I wanna make it better between us as he wants to make me a better person. We're going through rough patch right now.

posted March 19, 2013 12:25 PM            

I would give him a little space.
T Mars is conjunct your N Mercury so there is the chance
you might say something rash right now.

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posted March 19, 2013 01:37 PM            

Lalalinda is right. Give him and yourself some space to clear your heads first and wait for things to cool down

Astrologically speaking though, my take on this is that your guy will appreciate sincere acts of asking forgiveness, rather than confrontations/long talks (some like talking it out all night long until they come to a mutual understanding-- myself included ). Your guy needs concrete, physical proof that you are sorry and not just through words. The Sagittarius influence in him may show the thirst for truth and sincerity in all things. Virgo sun and mercury (earth signs= physical expression) and his Leo venus (fire signs= action-oriented) needs to be constantly reassured through sincere and simple gestures that your love is not superficial.

But whatever you do, SINCERITY is the keyword. Hope this helped. Good luck to you and your boyfie!

posted March 20, 2013 01:29 PM            

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Originally posted by lalalinda:
Hello deepsea! Welcome to LL

I would give him a little space.
T Mars is conjunct your N Mercury so there is the chance
you might say something rash right now.

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Thank you Lala!

He hasn't been communicative to me for the last 4 days and hasn't been replying to my texts.

posted March 20, 2013 01:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Lunae:
There is no concrete way of asking for an apology. I think that no matter what you do, if you show the person that you are truly sorry from the bottom of your heart, then you will be able to patch things up. You will also have to make an effort not repeat the same mistakes.

Lalalinda is right. Give him and yourself some space to clear your heads first and wait for things to cool down

Astrologically speaking though, my take on this is that your guy will appreciate sincere acts of asking forgiveness, rather than confrontations/long talks (some like talking it out all night long until they come to a mutual understanding-- myself included ). Your guy needs concrete, physical proof that you are sorry and not just through words. The Sagittarius influence in him may show the thirst for truth and sincerity in all things. Virgo sun and mercury (earth signs= physical expression) and his Leo venus (fire signs= action-oriented) needs to be constantly reassured through sincere and simple gestures that your love is not superficial.

But whatever you do, SINCERITY is the keyword. Hope this helped. Good luck to you and your boyfie!

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Thanks Lunae! Yea I don’t wanna push him right now. Tried to send him a text buut he hasn’t replied, but I just let him be. I know I shouldn’t have said it. He might be still mad at me. How long is it usually?

You are right. He is so practical. I was thinking of sending him a heartfelt email telling him how special he is to me and for all the things he’s done to me. I told him 2 days ago that I’m planning to cook for him this Saturday and he said he likes that idea a lot. But again, today he hasn’t replied to my text until now.

He knows that i am sincere, gentle and kind, but obviously from the things I said it made him wonder. What can I do to show him that I am sincerely sorry for what I’ve said?

posted March 21, 2013 10:40 AM            

...from a Virgo perspective he may need time to analyze things, but analysis can turn into over analysis and then obsessiveness (Scorpio Mars). Actually I zeroed in on the Leo/Scorpio thing. I also have Venus in Leo. Did you do/say anything to bruise his pride? Leo/Scorpio may find it very hard to forgive that. If can be forgiven, it nevertheless won't be forgotten. I don't mean to be a downer, but I don't know the context.

But whatever your apology was, likely for a Virgo, it has to have been logical in order to be accepted. If he can pick just one hole in it, the whole thing could come apart. Virgos can be moody, but we're also adaptable and can bounce back.