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Topic: CAPS: Quick Advice
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DreamingBull
Newflake Posts: 10
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 19, 2013 04:48 PM
  
If I messaged you about being in town, and we spoke about it and you told me to tell you when I was "around" would you try to initiate a hang out? I was the one to message him about my visit, I don't want to keep pushing. He said he'd make time to see me even if he didn't have time, but he knows I've been home for two days now and he hasn't said anything at all. He's a busy guy so I'm worried, and I don't want to push at something he might not be fully into because most guys will pursue things if they're interested.Caps, quick advice: Do I message him again? Asking to hangout? Or was the initial heads up enough. IP: Logged |
moonram
Knowflake Posts: 132
From: Neptune
Registered: May 2011
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posted March 19, 2013 05:24 PM
You messaged him you were gonna be in town, and he told you to tell him when you were around?Tell him you're around. When my friends tell me they're coming into town, I tell them to get ahold of me once they get into town when they get some free time. Sometimes they have dozens of people to see and I don't make the cut. I certainly wouldn't text them - crush or friend - "So...did you make it?" I'll carry on with my life as usual but definitely make time for the out-of-towner when they arrive. (Not a Capricorn, but my DSC is at 21º Capricorn, I've got a 10th House Sun and Jupiter, and Neptune in Capricorn.) IP: Logged |
DreamingBull
Newflake Posts: 10
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 19, 2013 05:30 PM
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Originally posted by moonram:
You messaged him you were gonna be in town, and he told you to tell him when you were around?Tell him you're around. When my friends tell me they're coming into town, I tell them to get ahold of me once they get into town when they get some free time. Sometimes they have dozens of people to see and I don't make the cut. I certainly wouldn't text them - crush or friend - "So...did you make it?" I'll carry on with my life as usual but definitely make time for the out-of-towner when they arrive. (Not a Capricorn, but my DSC is at 21º Capricorn, I've got a 10th House Sun and Jupiter, and Neptune in Capricorn.)
He's an Aqua with strong Cap placements so anything helps. I guess I shouldn't test* people like that, aha. IP: Logged |
starfairy
Knowflake Posts: 569
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Registered: Jul 2010
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posted March 19, 2013 05:40 PM
Ooh my ex is an aqua with Venus in cap. Personally, I have mercury, Venus, Jupiter and Neptune in cappy.I agree that you should let him know you're around. But don't bug him lol  I know how it can be to deal with an aqua/cap man! Lol they can be kinda shy and distant.as a Venus cap, I don't usually initiate meetings, so a friendly reminder is always great.
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DreamingBull
Newflake Posts: 10
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 19, 2013 05:59 PM
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Originally posted by starfairy:
Ooh my ex is an aqua with Venus in cap. Personally, I have mercury, Venus, Jupiter and Neptune in cappy.I agree that you should let him know you're around. But don't bug him lol I know how it can be to deal with an aqua/cap man! Lol they can be kinda shy and distant.as a Venus cap, I don't usually initiate meetings, so a friendly reminder is always great.
Oh man. If you can shed any light on the aqua/cap man then please help a sister out. Sometimes I feel as if hes just keeping me around but his sentiments are always on point. He seems to care...I think. The Taurus in me is so skeptical. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 5026
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted March 19, 2013 06:24 PM
Capricorn man responding. Contact him and talk to him. He meant what he said, and now it's up to you to tell him straight up that you would like to go out with him. Capricorns play it straight. IP: Logged |
starfairy
Knowflake Posts: 569
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Registered: Jul 2010
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posted March 19, 2013 06:27 PM
where are the rest of his planets? Where are yours?Right off the bat, Taurus and Aqua are in square by aspect. They are both fixed signs, but your personalities are quite different. Aqua is generally emotionally detached and independent, while Taurus is very practical and security-driven. His intellectual detachment and need for freedom may put you on edge. HOWEVER, he has Cappy in him, which will vibe with your Taurus sun quite well. I've dated a lot of Aquas, and I have found that I really love the Aqua/Cappy combo in a man. Cappy seeks stability, and is very responsible and dependable, which is great! The thing I struggled with the most with him (at first) was the fact that he seemed very emotionally detached and kinda distant. As a Venus Cap, I was never sure what to think. However, I soon realized that he's very shy. HIm and I are both Venus Caps, so neither of us liked to make the first move, and expressing feelings to each other was pretty difficult. Aquas need plenty of intellectual stimulation. Good conversation and debate is great for them. Because of his Cap planets and other aspects, he was quite shy and insecure, particularly in his relationships. As I said before, he was not fond of making the first move, so the fact that I was a bit forward and aggressive with him (at first) made me very attractive to him. IP: Logged |
Vicki_S
Newflake Posts: 10
From: Cullowhee, NC, US
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted March 19, 2013 07:07 PM
Just contact him. My dad's a Capricorn; he usually just waits for people to call him, but he likes to be contacted. IP: Logged |
DreamingBull
Newflake Posts: 10
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 19, 2013 08:43 PM
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Originally posted by starfairy:
where are the rest of his planets? Where are yours?Right off the bat, Taurus and Aqua are in square by aspect. They are both fixed signs, but your personalities are quite different. Aqua is generally emotionally detached and independent, while Taurus is very practical and security-driven. His intellectual detachment and need for freedom may put you on edge. HOWEVER, he has Cappy in him, which will vibe with your Taurus sun quite well. I've dated a lot of Aquas, and I have found that I really love the Aqua/Cappy combo in a man. Cappy seeks stability, and is very responsible and dependable, which is great! The thing I struggled with the most with him (at first) was the fact that he seemed very emotionally detached and kinda distant. As a Venus Cap, I was never sure what to think. However, I soon realized that he's very shy. HIm and I are both Venus Caps, so neither of us liked to make the first move, and expressing feelings to each other was pretty difficult. Aquas need plenty of intellectual stimulation. Good conversation and debate is great for them. Because of his Cap planets and other aspects, he was quite shy and insecure, particularly in his relationships. As I said before, he was not fond of making the first move, so the fact that I was a bit forward and aggressive with him (at first) made me very attractive to him.
See the thing is, he seems really, really confident. Maybe thats just because he is really light hearted and playful, or maybe it is because he gets a LOT of attention through his job, but I don't know. He doesn't strike me as a shy person. He seems to go for what he wants, he ruthlessly pursued me and wooed me when we first started talking. Things have settled into a really comfortable spot, which is worrying to me. IP: Logged |
DreamingBull
Newflake Posts: 10
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 19, 2013 09:21 PM
Ahhh nevermind. I got my answer lol.No reply, even though he is blatantly on his phone. Thanks guys! IP: Logged | |
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