posted March 19, 2013 10:32 PM            

I'm saying this because people seem to get much more emotionally attached when the feminine planets are involved.

If we are talking positive aspects involving the Moon & Venus like the conjunction, trine and sextile.. there will usually not be much reason to miss each other - because you often remain friends and remain in contact.. even after a breakup.
With the square it's iffy... It can lead to people having a genuine dislike for the other - and maybe there isn't enough of an emotional connection to really miss them.
But with the opposition it is usually a close-knit relationship... that can end just because the people are too different or moving in opposite directions - but it still hurts and you still miss them.

posted March 20, 2013 05:19 AM            

The most recent ex also had his south node exactly on my sun.

posted March 20, 2013 05:29 AM            

Usually love stelliums will make you miss someone, but for constant missing or someone who you really find it hard to do without, what i've noticed is the above.

posted March 20, 2013 07:37 AM            

:s

posted March 20, 2013 07:40 AM            

With Mercury, I noticed I respond extremely well with really tight trines and to a lesser extent, sextiles. I don't do well with Mercury squares.

If I have easy aspects with those planets with a woman, yup, I'd miss her!

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

posted March 20, 2013 08:16 AM              

Neptune sometimes is a vague longing; but this bonecrunching feeling of missing someone is more Plutonian.

(Venus-Pluto of course counts, too; but it is a different feeling)

So I definitely agree with RAS here.

As for minor aspects, so far I find the 5th, 7th and 8th harmonic series of aspects suprisingly valid (IF in very tight orb at least).

posted March 20, 2013 08:21 AM              

We meed to see eachother everday.

Its not over bearing type of energy.

posted March 20, 2013 08:40 AM            

Interps I've read have said that that would indicate a deep attatchment and a strong shared tendency to want to be physically together (bonus points for "at home and/or alone"), as I can say that I've really seen that play out.
Both of us independently decided that "Home" by Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeroes is one of our songs (minus the dumb spoken word bit), so that aspect also plays out in that way, too.
Subjectively, I can say that I feel emotionally all itchy when we're apart, and he's indicated the same.

posted March 20, 2013 10:54 AM            

There is the sweet, loving, affectionate type of energy which just makes you feel so comfortable around the other person because they make you feel good. That would be Moon & Venus aspects, especially to the other person's soft planets like Moon, Venus and Neptune.

Then there is the more insistent type of attachment, when you feel the urge to be with the other person, something that makes you feel tense and restless, borderline obsessive. I would associate this type of reaction to Pluto contacts with soft planets (Moon, Venus) and Moon or Venus in hard aspect to Mars.

posted March 21, 2013 02:01 AM            

What I had in mind was more this urge, need to be with someone that makes you miss them and not forget them. The kind that makes you wish you could just hug them.

Does this sound like pluto? moon-venus?

I had never thought about the nodes being responsible for attachment but well it does make sense somehow. Especially yes the familiarity that creeps on you and which nothing compares to. I can definitely see some neptune at work for the longing part.

posted March 21, 2013 07:26 AM            

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Originally posted by ueharaa:
I don't know if pluto is more about attachment or possessiveness.
Thinking a lot more than usual about the other person is definitely pluto as it is more obsession than attachment in some case. Also pluto can be quite melodramatic in that being with the other person becomes a life or death issue and yet you feel as tormented as you were when you actually are with them.

What I had in mind was more this urge, need to be with someone that makes you miss them and not forget them. The kind that makes you wish you could just hug them.

Does this sound like pluto? moon-venus?

I had never thought about the nodes being responsible for attachment but well it does make sense somehow. Especially yes the familiarity that creeps on you and which nothing compares to. I can definitely see some neptune at work for the longing part.

Could the IC be responsible too somehow? especially moon-IC or venus-IC

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Yes, definitely Moon/Venus connections. The energy is just really nice. I had Moon conjunct Venus in Cancer less than half a degree (I was Venus) with an Aqua girl and I still miss her sometimes. We had a great relationship but she had some issues that were deal breakers. That Moon/Venus energy was so prevalent between us.

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

posted March 21, 2013 11:21 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Moon needs to play a part probably, as it signifies emotional attachment.

Neptune sometimes is a vague longing; but this bonecrunching feeling of missing someone is more Plutonian.

(Venus-Pluto of course counts, too; but it is a different feeling)

So I definitely agree with RAS here.

As for minor aspects, so far I find the 5th, 7th and 8th harmonic series of aspects suprisingly valid (IF in very tight orb at least).

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Exactly. Moon aspects.

posted March 02, 2014 01:35 PM            

we both still text each other and "check in"

He is in a committed relationship now and has been for a few years, I've had a child with someone else and am single but we both can't really "let go"