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GrlyGirl200
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posted March 22, 2013 12:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrlyGirl200     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've been talking to a Venus in Scorpio man for a bit. We aren't exclusive (or even dating...or talking to date...he's said he's not really sure if I'm gf material yet...he has to see if my personality vibes with his more) but he has really pushed that he wants to have sex with me (he's also asked me if I want to sleep with him).

I haven't had sex in a year and he's convinced I gave sex up because I'm afraid of getting hurt. Partly true...I don't want to get hurt. But I didn't have anyone I wanted to have sex with (Sun/Mars/Jupiter/Uranus Yod can turn it off and on with a switch lol), and yeah I have been burned alot (and told him I'm afraid of being burned again).

Anyway we were making plans about me coming to see him this weekend...and I asked should I stay one night or two (he first replied that it was my trip so I can stay as long as I want to stay...even though he knows that I'd be going to the middle of nowhere to see him). I then asked was he gonna hang out with me if I stay both days...he replied with a joke that he will if he was gonna get laid.

Anyway it upset me that he said that so I said he was cruel for the comment he made. And that if I sleep with him I will get attached and want more (he knows this I've said it a few times...he even said thinks I'm the type to get attached after sex (I'm actually not...in true water sign fashion I get attached when I like someone after sex). Anyway after I said his comment was cruel, I also said I don't want to get hurt and attached to someone who shows that they only think of me as a random piece of a$$ (referring to his opinion of me). My Venus in Scorpio Libra Sun friend alerted me that this outburst from me may have hurt him (that I think he has a low opinion of me). Wtf??

He's a Virgo/Taurus so I KNOW he'd judge me if I slept with him too soon. Why would someone want to push to have sex with someone when they know the person will get attached. He knows I like him...so why push for that.

Most guys I know will jump at sex...but steer clear of a girl they knows gets attached! So why is he not? Plus he says that a lot of women want him and want to date him (ugh Leo Rising and their need to boast!!!) so why not sleep with them?

I just don't understand him, we originally met on an online dating website. One time we recently talked (this week) I said something about how I recently went on a date and I said something about women on there...and he asked me if I care about him being on there. I replied with I shouldn't care (I actually do care lol...but I'm def NOT going to say that). My Libra friend also said he was trying to figure out if I care or not.

I should add 4 months ago he got BADLY burned in a relationship with someone he wanted to marry. He was with her for 2 years (she was a Pisces) and he FINALLY let down his Venus in Scorpio wall and let her in and in the end she cheated on him and broke up with him for someone she's with now. He also said she started to give him less and less attention. Since then he has just been sleeping with people. He said the last time we spoke on the phone that letting his wall down won't happen again because he trusted her and look what happened. And that even if he does find someone that is worth the trouble and he lets down his wall they will end up doing something to disappoint him.

Our synastry isn't bad at all!!! But I'm struggling on why he's so abrasive and why aren't any of the good aspects weighing in (we have DW Sun/Venus aspects, Trine Moons, Sun/Moon Trine, Moon/Venus Conjunction, Sun/Mars/Asc Jupiter aspects, and other things). I feel a draw to him. But still...plus he's gotten more and more uncommunicative and really overly serious, and private (which he admitted he is). He won't talk about anything. I asked him about online dating and if he had done it prior, he said he won't tell me because he knows I want to know! I thought Venus in Scorpio was nice and Taurus Moon was nice! Why is he being weird?

Rising: Him - Leo, Me - Cancer
Sun: Him - Virgo, Me - Cancer
Moon: Him - Taurus, Me - Capricorn
Mercury: Him - Libra Me - Leo
Venus: Him - Scorpio Me - Taurus
Mars: Him - Virgo/Libra Cusp Me - Cancer
Jupiter: Him - Cancer Me - Aqua

His Dob 9/19/89 born in Atlanta, Ga at 4am
My Dob 7/3/85 born in Bellflower, Ca at 5:34 am

I should add our convo's are over the phone and in texting/im. Not in person.

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GrlyGirl200
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posted March 22, 2013 12:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrlyGirl200     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can someone close this for me? My page froze while I was submitting so I resubmitted this and created two of the same topics. Thanks!!

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