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Topic: Venus in Scorpio...I thought they were sensitive??
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GrlyGirl200
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posted March 22, 2013 12:20 PM
  
I've been talking to a Venus in Scorpio man for a bit. We aren't exclusive (or even dating...or talking to date...he's said he's not really sure if I'm gf material yet...he has to see if my personality vibes with his more) but he has really pushed that he wants to have sex with me (he's also asked me if I want to sleep with him).I haven't had sex in a year and he's convinced I gave sex up because I'm afraid of getting hurt. Partly true...I don't want to get hurt. But I didn't have anyone I wanted to have sex with (Sun/Mars/Jupiter/Uranus Yod can turn it off and on with a switch lol), and yeah I have been burned alot (and told him I'm afraid of being burned again). Anyway we were making plans about me coming to see him this weekend...and I asked should I stay one night or two (he first replied that he didn't know it was my trip so I can stay as long as I want to stay...even though he knows that I'd be going to the middle of nowhere to see him). I then asked was he gonna hang out with me if I stay both days...he replied with a joke that he will if he was gonna get laid. Anyway it upset me that he said that so I said he was cruel for the comment he made. And that if I sleep with him I will get attached and want more (he knows this I've said it a few times...he even said thinks I'm the type to get attached after sex (I'm actually not...in true water sign fashion I get attached when I like someone after sex). Anyway after I said his comment was cruel, I also said I don't want to get hurt and attached to someone who shows that they only think of me as a random piece of a$$ (referring to his opinion of me). My Venus in Scorpio Libra Sun friend alerted me that this outburst from me may have hurt him (that I think he has a low opinion of me). Wtf?? He's a Virgo/Taurus so I KNOW he'd judge me if I slept with him too soon. Why would someone want to push to have sex with someone when they know the person will get attached. He knows I like him...so why push for that. Most guys I know will jump at sex...but steer clear of a girl they knows gets attached! So why is he not? Plus he says that a lot of women want him and want to date him (ugh Leo Rising and their need to boast!!!) so why not sleep with them? I just don't understand him, we originally met on an online dating website. One time we recently talked (this week) I said something about how I recently went on a date and I said something about women on there...and he asked me if I care about him being on there. I replied with I shouldn't care (I actually do care lol...but I'm def NOT going to say that). My Libra friend also said he was trying to figure out if I care or not. I should add 4 months ago he got BADLY burned in a relationship with someone he wanted to marry. He was with her for 2 years (she was a Pisces) and he FINALLY let down his Venus in Scorpio wall and let her in and in the end she cheated on him and broke up with him for someone she's with now. He also said she started to give him less and less attention. Since then he has just been sleeping with people. He said the last time we spoke on the phone that letting his wall down won't happen again because he trusted her and look what happened. And that even if he does find someone that is worth the trouble and he lets down his wall they will end up doing something to disappoint him. Our synastry isn't bad at all!!! But I'm struggling on why he's so abrasive and why aren't any of the good aspects weighing in (we have DW Sun/Venus aspects, Trine Moons, Sun/Moon Trine, Moon/Venus Conjunction, Sun/Mars/Asc Jupiter aspects, and other things). I feel a draw to him. But still...plus he's gotten more and more uncommunicative and really overly serious, and private (which he admitted he is). He won't talk about anything. I asked him about online dating and if he had done it prior, he said he won't tell me because he knows I want to know! I thought Venus in Scorpio was nice and Taurus Moon was nice! Why is he being weird? Rising: Him - Leo, Me - Cancer
Sun: Him - Virgo, Me - Cancer
Moon: Him - Taurus, Me - Capricorn
Mercury: Him - Libra Me - Leo
Venus: Him - Scorpio Me - Taurus
Mars: Him - Virgo/Libra Cusp Me - Cancer
Jupiter: Him - Cancer Me - Aqua His Dob 9/19/89 born in Atlanta, Ga at 4am
My Dob 7/3/85 born in Bellflower, Ca at 5:34 am I should add our convo's are over the phone and in texting/im. Not in person.
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happyaskings
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posted March 22, 2013 12:54 PM
I'm sorry I know you like this guy, but he sounds like a total tool.And joking or not, that comment shed some insight on what he's all about. He's not sure if you're "girlfriend material" but he wants to sleep with you? Give me a break, thats a cop out and he will use you if you let him. Find someone that already know your worth not someone that can't decide, you deserve way better than that kind of crap! How would saying you don't want to be a piece of *** hurt HIS feelings? Furthermore, who cares if it did? He should respect you as a friend at the very least. Did he at least try to patch things up after this conversation? We have all been burned, doesn't give us any right to use or hurt people that life brings us after the fact. To answer your intial question, Venus in Scorpios are sensitive but they don't always show it and just because they are sensitive in matters of the heart doesn't mean they're sensitive to everything... IP: Logged |
JohnFKennedy
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posted March 22, 2013 12:59 PM
Yeah, I completely agree with everything happyaskings said above. You need to not give a **** about hurting his feelings because he blatantly doesn't care about yours - most dudes will throw out that "but will I get laid?" charm tactic just to gauge your reaction, but its almost never a harmless joke to be real honest with you. He really does sound like a major douche, he was born in 1989 and has a Leo ascendant - I feel that I can honestly attest to the fact that most Leo rising men are complete and utter horn dogs until they level out at around age 28+. IP: Logged |
SilverFeather
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posted March 22, 2013 01:04 PM
Men with Venus in Scorpio ARE sensitive and they are the type to likely get attached to whom they sleep with. Scorpio Venus cannot truly enjoy sex unless it has some emotional depth to it.
I think he's just unsure about you, he does not know how to act around you so he's hiding behind the facade of Leo ascendant trying to play it cool.
You have to understand that he had been badly hurt before and you know that Scorpio Venus people would give up anything for the one they love but if they are betrayed, they close off completely in an attempt to protect themselves so the hurtful comment he told you is just him trying to appear unaffected and cold.
Be careful though he might try to hurt you just so he can have some sense of revenge for the way his ex-girlfriend hurt him.
You are a Cancer Ascendant so that explains your sensitivity to what he said. If he's playing you, better give it up now before you get even more attached.IP: Logged |
Padre35
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posted March 22, 2013 01:06 PM
Well, just keep in mind with Scorpio in Virgo, they just assume it will end up in a sexual encounter.He sounds like he was sending up a trial balloon for himself, and for you, to see how you'd react. In sales they call that a test close. IP: Logged |
GrlyGirl200
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posted March 22, 2013 01:49 PM
Yeah he goes on about how so many women want him...and how he thinks women should try to pursue him and buy him drinks. That it's not fair that a woman expects anything just because they are a woman. This was in reference to me saying that some men (esp Aries men lol throw out the compliments super thick...I have 1st house sun mars conjunction so I love them lol). And how women want him more because he doesn't treat them special (he said he should be treated special because he isn't like other men).He even said when he's dating a girl he doesn't buy anything (or do they go to see him)...not until he gets into a super long term relationship. He's so abrasive when we talk...usually people can spot that yeah I'm a typical Leo Mercury (I'm not gonna lie I like talking about myself lol)...but that I deeply care about others and at the very least don't try to tear anyone down or be mean (I'm sure those of you who have watched me over the years on here can prolly say the same). Anyway usually people spot that I'm genuine and def worth it. He hasn't...and usually Virgo ppl can with me. He's a Libra Mercury (and maybe Mars depending on if that's the exact time he was born) for goodness sake shouldn't he be more accommodating (I have a 7th house Moon) and polite. IP: Logged |
GrlyGirl200
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posted March 22, 2013 01:53 PM
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Originally posted by happyaskings:
I'm sorry I know you like this guy, but he sounds like a total tool.And joking or not, that comment shed some insight on what he's all about. He's not sure if you're "girlfriend material" but he wants to sleep with you? Give me a break, thats a cop out and he will use you if you let him. Find someone that already know your worth not someone that can't decide, you deserve way better than that kind of crap! How would saying you don't want to be a piece of *** hurt HIS feelings? Furthermore, who cares if it did? He should respect you as a friend at the very least. Did he at least try to patch things up after this conversation? We have all been burned, doesn't give us any right to use or hurt people that life brings us after the fact. To answer your intial question, Venus in Scorpios are sensitive but they don't always show it and just because they are sensitive in matters of the heart doesn't mean they're sensitive to everything...
He doesn't believe men and women can be just friends...he told me that as far as being friends that it would be hard because he wants to sleep with me. And he can hang out with other female friends who are also cool (I said I was cool and worth hanging out with) and will give him sex. IP: Logged |
calliope23
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posted March 22, 2013 01:59 PM
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Originally posted by GrlyGirl200:
He doesn't believe men and women can be just friends...
RED. FLAG. Grly, I'm really sorry you're hung up on this guy and he isn't reciprocating, but I'm in concurrence with everyone else who has posted--this guy sounds like trouble and you need to do your best to move on! I have Venus in Scorpio (I've responded to one of your other threads on this same question), and as far as "sensitivity" goes, it's not necessarily that you are sensitive to the feelings of others or "tactful"--in fact, I would argue Venus in Scorpio is entirely tactless in its realm, so I doubt your comment hurt him--but that you're hyperaware of your romantic relationships with other people and obsessive about the depth and intensity of them. It sounds like this guy has pretty much made up his mind that you don't fit those Venus Scorp criteria he might have, and that's why he is giving you the run-around...not because you hurt his feelings.
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Be careful though he might try to hurt you just so he can have some sense of revenge for the way his ex-girlfriend hurt him.
^^Also, this? Yes. Definitely. I'll add it's probably also revenge he deeply wants to throw in his ex's face. A spurned Venus in Scorpio cannot detach from someone who crosses them (in a relationship) easily.IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted March 22, 2013 02:02 PM
venus is in its fall.
This is not an ideal placement for venus to begin with.IP: Logged |
GrlyGirl200
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posted March 22, 2013 02:33 PM
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Originally posted by calliope23:
RED. FLAG. Grly, I'm really sorry you're hung up on this guy and he isn't reciprocating, but I'm in concurrence with everyone else who has posted--this guy sounds like trouble and you need to do your best to move on! I have Venus in Scorpio (I've responded to one of your other threads on this same question), and as far as "sensitivity" goes, it's not necessarily that you are sensitive to the feelings of others or "tactful"--in fact, I would argue Venus in Scorpio is entirely tactless in its realm, so I doubt your comment hurt him--but that you're hyperaware of your romantic relationships with other people and obsessive about the depth and intensity of them. It sounds like this guy has pretty much made up his mind that you don't fit those Venus Scorp criteria he might have, and that's why he is giving you the run-around...not because you hurt his feelings.
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Be careful though he might try to hurt you just so he can have some sense of revenge for the way his ex-girlfriend hurt him.
^^Also, this? Yes. Definitely. I'll add it's probably also revenge he deeply wants to throw in his ex's face. A spurned Venus in Scorpio cannot detach from someone who crosses them (in a relationship) easily.[/B][/QUOTE]He is giving me the run around. And I agree if he were into me he'd be much more forthright. He hasn't been. I remember even the first time we did a video chat the next day he told me to text him...I did. And then I didn't hear from him. He didn't return my text. Although tbh when we first started talking he had said he was open to a gf as he wanted regular sex. So he's shown me what his priorities are. I just figured at some point the synastry would have kicked in (he's a Taurus Moon and values comfort...its conjunct my Venus!!! So its got to be comfy for him). And he would have at least thought I was nice. IP: Logged |
calliope23
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posted March 22, 2013 02:38 PM
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Originally posted by GrlyGirl200:
Although tbh when we first started talking he had said he was open to a gf as he wanted regular sex. So he's shown me what his priorities are.
1. How long have you been talking to this guy? I know it's been at least two weeks given your previous Venus/Scorp posts, but have you been putting up with all this crap for a while?! If so, you are BETTER than that girl. Even two weeks is too long for that s***!
2. If he is open to a gf and wants "regular sex"...don't you think he would want someone who lives near him? You're in different states, no? I know it's easy to be objective about this for us, and hard for you to be because..well, because you're the one experiencing it, but this guy sucks. There are wayyyy better guys out there who are emotionally available and who will appreciate you. I know it's hard to wait for that to happen when you want it so badly, but good things come to those who wait and all  IP: Logged |
ELoveCherishEndure
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posted March 22, 2013 03:22 PM
Hey, I personally think that as a Scorpio Sun/ASC, that he is just an a-hole. I mean, clearly... he just wants to bed you and with all of his compromising positions, you most definitely should look for someone with an earthy Mars/Venus, not watery or airy because you have tons of water in your chart. You need someone who understands and loves you as is. It is bullcrap that he is trying to take advantage of you for sex but I def think he is taking advantage of your feelings.If you ask me, I personally think you should deal with someone a bit older just because of the maturity gap. You don't deserve that. IP: Logged |
Astra
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posted March 22, 2013 03:32 PM
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Originally posted by GrlyGirl200:
I've been talking to a Venus in Scorpio man for a bit. We aren't exclusive (or even dating...or talking to date...he's said he's not really sure if I'm gf material yet...he has to see if my personality vibes with his more) but he has really pushed that he wants to have sex with me (he's also asked me if I want to sleep with him).I haven't had sex in a year and he's convinced I gave sex up because I'm afraid of getting hurt. Partly true...I don't want to get hurt. But I didn't have anyone I wanted to have sex with (Sun/Mars/Jupiter/Uranus Yod can turn it off and on with a switch lol), and yeah I have been burned alot (and told him I'm afraid of being burned again). Anyway we were making plans about me coming to see him this weekend...and I asked should I stay one night or two (he first replied that he didn't know it was my trip so I can stay as long as I want to stay...even though he knows that I'd be going to the middle of nowhere to see him). I then asked was he gonna hang out with me if I stay both days...he replied with a joke that he will if he was gonna get laid. Anyway it upset me that he said that so I said he was cruel for the comment he made. And that if I sleep with him I will get attached and want more (he knows this I've said it a few times...he even said thinks I'm the type to get attached after sex (I'm actually not...in true water sign fashion I get attached when I like someone after sex). Anyway after I said his comment was cruel, I also said I don't want to get hurt and attached to someone who shows that they only think of me as a random piece of a$$ (referring to his opinion of me). My Venus in Scorpio Libra Sun friend alerted me that this outburst from me may have hurt him (that I think he has a low opinion of me). Wtf?? He's a Virgo/Taurus so I KNOW he'd judge me if I slept with him too soon. Why would someone want to push to have sex with someone when they know the person will get attached. He knows I like him...so why push for that. Most guys I know will jump at sex...but steer clear of a girl they knows gets attached! So why is he not? Plus he says that a lot of women want him and want to date him (ugh Leo Rising and their need to boast!!!) so why not sleep with them? I just don't understand him, we originally met on an online dating website. One time we recently talked (this week) I said something about how I recently went on a date and I said something about women on there...and he asked me if I care about him being on there. I replied with I shouldn't care (I actually do care lol...but I'm def NOT going to say that). My Libra friend also said he was trying to figure out if I care or not. I should add 4 months ago he got BADLY burned in a relationship with someone he wanted to marry. He was with her for 2 years (she was a Pisces) and he FINALLY let down his Venus in Scorpio wall and let her in and in the end she cheated on him and broke up with him for someone she's with now. He also said she started to give him less and less attention. Since then he has just been sleeping with people. He said the last time we spoke on the phone that letting his wall down won't happen again because he trusted her and look what happened. And that even if he does find someone that is worth the trouble and he lets down his wall they will end up doing something to disappoint him. Our synastry isn't bad at all!!! But I'm struggling on why he's so abrasive and why aren't any of the good aspects weighing in (we have DW Sun/Venus aspects, Trine Moons, Sun/Moon Trine, Moon/Venus Conjunction, Sun/Mars/Asc Jupiter aspects, and other things). I feel a draw to him. But still...plus he's gotten more and more uncommunicative and really overly serious, and private (which he admitted he is). He won't talk about anything. I asked him about online dating and if he had done it prior, he said he won't tell me because he knows I want to know! I thought Venus in Scorpio was nice and Taurus Moon was nice! Why is he being weird? Rising: Him - Leo, Me - Cancer
Sun: Him - Virgo, Me - Cancer
Moon: Him - Taurus, Me - Capricorn
Mercury: Him - Libra Me - Leo
Venus: Him - Scorpio Me - Taurus
Mars: Him - Virgo/Libra Cusp Me - Cancer
Jupiter: Him - Cancer Me - Aqua His Dob 9/19/89 born in Atlanta, Ga at 4am
My Dob 7/3/85 born in Bellflower, Ca at 5:34 am I should add our convo's are over the phone and in texting/im. Not in person.
Run as far away as you can. I can assure you that Venus in Scorpio is fully capable of having one-night stands just like any other sign. I've known a number of Venus in Scorpios....some will only have sex when married while others sleep with anyone who has a pulse. He does not see you as girlfriend material and never will. This is nothing against you. The fact is that he is behaving as a man who has been hurt. Venus in Scorpio is notorious for being vindictive. He is going to treat you like a toy out of anger for his cheating ex-girlfriend. There is nothing you can do to change this. If you don't mind being his booty call, then stay with him. But it sounds like you want a boyfriend who will treat you with love, kindness and respect. Everything you mentioned in your post about this guy indicates that he doesn't respect you and is into mind games. He's cruel, selfish, boastful and very immature. He is also a liar (any guy that boasts how many women want to sleep with them is lying. If that were true and all they want is sex, then they would sleep with those women. Why hold out for you for?) This guy is trying to manipulate you into sleeping with him, so you'll get attached. Then he'll dump you and break your heart as a sick, twisted way of feeling better about being cheated on by his ex. Don't let this guy punish you for his ex girlfriend's behavior! Please save yourself the heartbreak. Don't sleep with this guy or even kiss him. Tell him you find him repulsive, and if he wants sex so bad then he can go sleep with one of the many girls who want to have sex with him. Then walk away. Don't look back. Cut your losses and move on. There is a guy out there who is worthy of you and who will treat you like a princess. Don't settle for a loser. You're better than that. IP: Logged |
ELoveCherishEndure
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posted March 22, 2013 03:37 PM
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Originally posted by Astra:
Run as far away as you can. I can assure you that Venus in Scorpio is fully capable of having one-night stands just like any other sign. I've known a number of Venus in Scorpios....some will only have sex when married while others sleep with anyone who has a pulse. He does not see you as girlfriend material and never will. This is nothing against you. The fact is that he is behaving as a man who has been hurt. Venus in Scorpio is notorious for being vindictive. He is going to treat you like a toy out of anger for his cheating ex-girlfriend. There is nothing you can do to change this. If you don't mind being his booty call, then stay with him. But it sounds like you want a boyfriend who will treat you with love, kindness and respect. Everything you mentioned in your post about this guy indicates that he doesn't respect you and is into mind games. He's cruel, selfish, boastful and very immature. He is also a liar (any guy that boasts how many women want to sleep with them is lying. If that were true and all they want is sex, then they would sleep with those women. Why hold out for you for?) This guy is trying to manipulate you into sleeping with him, so you'll get attached. Then he'll dump you and break your heart as a sick, twisted way of feeling better about being cheated on by his ex. Don't let this guy punish you for his ex girlfriend's behavior! Please save yourself the heartbreak. Don't sleep with this guy or even kiss him. Tell him you find him repulsive, and if he wants sex so bad then he can go sleep with one of the many girls who want to have sex with him. Then walk away. Don't look back. Cut your losses and move on. There is a guy out there who is worthy of you and who will treat you like a princess. Don't settle for a loser. You're better than that.
Whoo!! Fire fire fire!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Everything I was feeling when I read this put into words.
Agree 12000% with this... all I heard was you just spilling knowledge all over this thread... IP: Logged |
GrlyGirl200
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posted March 22, 2013 03:38 PM
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Originally posted by ELoveCherishEndure:
Hey, I personally think that as a Scorpio Sun/ASC, that he is just an a-hole. I mean, clearly... he just wants to bed you and with all of his compromising positions, you most definitely should look for someone with an earthy Mars/Venus, not watery or airy because you have tons of water in your chart. You need someone who understands and loves you as is. It is bullcrap that he is trying to take advantage of you for sex but I def think he is taking advantage of your feelings.If you ask me, I personally think you should deal with someone a bit older just because of the maturity gap. You don't deserve that.
Really he has tons of Earth himself...an Earth Sun and Moon...and a stellium in Cap. So he's hugely earth. It's weird I've dealt with a guy who had the same Sun/Moon and Fire Rising (his was Sag)...he adored me and was fiercely protective of me (I think it was the Moon-Venus Conjunction in Taurus lol). He could be kinda a jerk...but overall he was really sweet. IP: Logged |
starfairy
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posted March 22, 2013 03:51 PM
He obviously has a lot of emotional baggage. After being hurt like that, it's understandable. Scorpio can definitely hold a grudge. If he is going to be a tool and pressure you like that, I don't think you should stay with him. Too much baggage. You deserve a guy who will respect you and not make you feel pressured. IP: Logged |
ELoveCherishEndure
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posted March 22, 2013 03:52 PM
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Originally posted by GrlyGirl200:
Really he has tons of Earth himself...an Earth Sun and Moon...and a stellium in Cap. So he's hugely earth. It's weird I've dealt with a guy who had the same Sun/Moon and Fire Rising (his was Sag)...he adored me and was fiercely protective of me (I think it was the Moon-Venus Conjunction in Taurus lol). He could be kinda a jerk...but overall he was really sweet.
He's a Virgo with a Scorpio Venus...
Those two things sound wrong together.
His Scorpio Venus likes to be vengeful after he's betrayed. I think that it just isn't something you should stay in. But, I am largely water and fire so I might not be able to relate as well because I too have that Cancer Mars and I just think we're too sensitive for the harshness of a Scorpio Venus as it is one sign out of exaltation and domicile so it feels very out of place when betrayed and don't be one of those who is burned by him because he himself was burned. It is bound to happen.
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GrlyGirl200
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posted March 22, 2013 03:58 PM
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Originally posted by starfairy:
He obviously has a lot of emotional baggage. After being hurt like that, it's understandable. Scorpio can definitely hold a grudge. If he is going to be a tool and pressure you like that, I don't think you should stay with him. Too much baggage. You deserve a guy who will respect you and not make you feel pressured.
Oh yeah...I'm seeing that. You know what I have realized more and more is that even if the synastry is spot on...that a persons state of mind (or background/mental health etc) can greatly effect how that will play out. For instance I had a Virgo Sun/Taurus male friend whom is protective of me and our synastry has played out very well (however he says I'm not into him because I don't have to fix him lol) verses an Aqua ex I had whom we had a great Moon-Asc (and other aspects) and things ended up bad (he was screwed up though!!!).
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GrlyGirl200
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posted March 22, 2013 04:10 PM
You're right. I do want a relationship that is genuine with someone who cares about me. And he is boastful...like overly boastful. He said the other night he is really serious and private and women want a man who likes to go out all the time. And he doesn't...he's a homebody. IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted March 22, 2013 05:29 PM
Ew. Have nothing more to add about him.IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted March 22, 2013 05:40 PM
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Most guys I know will jump at sex...but steer clear of a girl they knows gets attached! So why is he not?
No. Most guys don't decide to have sex (or not) based on whether the girl gets attached easily.
They make that decision based on how physically attractive she is from their perspective. quote:
Ew.
Double *ew* Drop him! Where do you find these jerks? He's worse than your Aqua ex :\ IP: Logged |
virgolotus
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posted March 22, 2013 05:48 PM
Venus in Scorpio mostly think with their genitals. But the magical cases where they actually fall in love. Oh man, they're keepers <3IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted March 22, 2013 05:50 PM
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Taurus Moon was nice!
Na...
My Moon is Capricorn and I find them immature. They have huge expectations, but are too lazy to be able to *give back* everything they expect.
In the Taurus Moon man's perfect world... he would do enjoyable things all day long - while someone else fusses all over him. Because this is a personal sign there is no concept of give&take. They are also quite materialistic.. and it seems they are looking for a woman to take care of them financially (which is a huge put off for a girl with Cap-influence!). quote:
He doesn't believe men and women can be just friends..
Typical!!!
The other Taurus Moon men I know is traditional and pig-headed in this sense. _____________ :edit: I propose a TEST to his superficiality.
Tell him you won or inherited a great amount of money or that you got an amazingly good job that pays a very high salary.
And JUST watch his reaction and how his behaviour suddenly changes...
Out of pure curiosity...
Because I bet you anything he will act like a saint - and suddenly be strongly into you and want to marry you tomorrow. (just a test......) IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted March 22, 2013 05:52 PM
I don't like that this discussion keeps veering off into Scorpio Venus.I would associate this kind of superficial behaviour with Taurus. He has BOTH Taurus and Scorpio in his chart - so he does not know what he wants. His Moon is superficial and his Venus is intense...
Many men with disjointed Moon/Venus signs have a Madona-Wh0re complex happening. I mean I know SOOOOO many Scorpio Venus people who are not even slightly like what you described here... I don't like that everyone is pointing fingers at this placement. IP: Logged |
GrlyGirl200
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posted March 22, 2013 07:01 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Double *ew*Drop him! Where do you find these jerks? He's worse than your Aqua ex :\
No I agree that they make it based on how physically attractive she is. But they will steer clear if they sense she has the potential to be clingy after. IP: Logged |
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