posted March 23, 2013 10:54 AM
LF!! I think you're even more an astro twin than Plutonic Capricorn and I are! haha - (he has different moon and ascendant but has these placements too.) Born same year but about 3 days apart. (are you an 84 too!?)I'm Cap Sun - Sag Venus on South node cnj Uranus, semisquare Mars conjunct Pluto in Scorpio with Taurus Moon opposite Scorpio Saturn conjunct Eros. Virgo Rising.
I can understand what your saying here, spontaneous attraction may be the Venus cnj Uranus - but it's not really an aspect that makes one attached easily, normally it is the opposite. fleeting feelings~ But, the Mars-Pluto in aspect to them or even on their own, that can make for possessiveness issue. It's always been an aspect that needs negotiation for me,the Venus-Uranus and Pluto-Mars combination have made many a relationship end, both can make one self sabotage, either with possessiveness or independence issues.
If your Moon is in aspect to Mars-Pluto, I can only imagine that possessive/attachment would be even more of a struggle to handle.
Anyway - really cool that we share so many of the same placements! haha
In relationships for me though, I've come to the conclusion that it is better to make decisions based pretty much on what condition Venus is in, over siding with my Mars-Pluto... Scorpion Mars-Pluto is just too heavy for most people, and very all or nothing... rolling with things, letting things go, and respecting space (your own just as much as a partner/interest) is just much healthier for me. That and having partners who have placements in relatively good aspect to Venus or simply Sagittarius are and have been the most successful. My husband (not the greatest) but has Sag Sun conjunct Neptune, (Uranus Sag cnj my IC), Moon conjunct Jupiter in Scorpio (late degrees - Pisces decan), same Ascendant - same 7th house ruler - (Pisces/Neptune), Scorpio Saturn conjunct his Libra Pluto conjunct my Mars-Pluto, and his Capricorn (AP) Venus conjunct South Node conjunct Mercury both conjunct my own Psyche-Mercury (my stellium Cap Merc-Sag Nep-Jup). The only difficult aspects in our synastry come from his Aqua Mars fairly tight square to both our Plutos conjunct his Saturn-my Mars in Scorpio, and his Moon-Jupiter in Scorpio opposite my Moon (our Chirons).
So he compliments the struggles that previously plagued my ever-fleeting, spontaneous connection Venus-Uranus really well~ (most of the time - as in, when his crazy arse Moon isn't causing us trouble). (I'm fairly use to the harsh aspect in synastry between someone's Mars and my own... lol it seems to happen fairly frequently. haha)