posted March 25, 2013 11:23 PM
Like, it's mainly been Capricorn and Virgo so far, and I know they find me attractive physically. Like, aren't people selfish kind of, and if they want you they'll go for you regardless of whether or not they're right for you?Like, I like to think that they're being very sweet but it makes me think there's something wrong with me that they're hiding. It doesn't happen right away, though, so I don't feel like I'm being "friend-zoned."
This most recently (a couple minutes ago! ) happened with a Sun/Mars Virgo with Venus in Leo. All in the 8th house.
Another guy was Capricorn Sun, Mars in Scorpio, and Venus in Sagittarius.
Venus in Sag is absolutely TERRIBLE for me! And he was right!
But that fact that I still think what they're doing is sweet kind of makes me cling to them a bit, because part of it makes me feel like they care about what happens to me, and I guess I long for that.
My relationship with the Cap has been up and down and my feelings for him, to my knowledge, are much stronger than his feelings for me. But I know he wouldn't have a problem if I found a boyfriend. Like, I'm not even that concerned with the fact that he's not outwardly expressing jealousy. Maybe I long to be friends with him but our passionate feelings get in the way. But it's nice for him to want something good for me.
But do earth signs do this???
edit: Do earth signs maybe have insecurities about themselves that they don't like to talk about, so it shows up in situations like this?