Author
|
Topic: Gemini vs Aquarius: The social signs.
|
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 1726 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
|
posted March 30, 2013 04:16 PM
My bff is a Aquarius and I'm a Gemini. When I mean bff, I don't take that title lightly, She's just as important as my family, we finish each others sentences and our life is very similar. (We mutually agree we have strong past life connections) We're having this argument, basically she needs to stop inviting me out with her friends I dislike... She is literally baffled that I don't want to hang out with her friends, she just does not understand. This is something I noticed gemini's prefer one on one communication thats stimulating and aquarians like bringing a whole together. She has her friends.. I find them all weird or annoying and I have my own, which she hardly knows. I never combine different groups together because I don't want their to be awkwardness and neglect. I like to make sure every single person is happy and if I host parties I'm usually exhausted by the end of the morning and still sober. Which is why I hardly host any because I want to have fun lol.. She hosts huge parties and usually is worrying if everyone is having fun. Her parties are just fabulous, with so many people .which I think is a talent of aquarius. Brining people together. Gemini's tend to have good interpersonal relationships. This probably because aquarius rules the 11th house and Gemini the 3rd Any gemini or aquarians want to chime in on this idea? IP: Logged |
starfairy Knowflake Posts: 752 From: Registered: Jul 2010
|
posted March 30, 2013 04:21 PM
I'm just like you.. I hate mixing groups, and overly-concerned that everyone is happy. I can't not care about how happy people are, especially if they're at my party!!My Gemini cousin is like you, too; she prefers one-on-one settings, and HATES mixing groups. She just won't do it! She had a bday party once, and invited all of her different groups (she has many), and you should have seen her zipping around from group to group. I notice my Aqua friend is definitely better in group settings. In fact, she can be kinda awkward when she is on-on-one.. Aqua is a transpersonal sign, and Gem is a personal sign, so yeah IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 1726 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
|
posted March 30, 2013 04:27 PM
Yes so is my Aqua! Our relationships is amazing thanks to synastry. Her personal relationships are just awkward.Her friends totally walk all over her.. I remember I told them off and they totally were offended like I threw a drink at them.. I can't have that, there needs to be mutual respect. Which is why I get annoyed around them, she even hangs out with her annoying ex and I have to see him. I want to say ditch them because they're not good for her, but I don't want to be THAT PERSON! I hate those people, who try and control your relationships. LOL. Its her life to live. Sag and Gem are more similar than I thought, its crazy IP: Logged |
Lunae Knowflake Posts: 550 From: Registered: Dec 2012
|
posted March 30, 2013 04:28 PM
Gemini rising. Couldn't agree with you more. I get along with people quite nicely but I work better with one on one interactions as compared to groups. The ruler of my 11th is in the opposite 5th house so maybe that says something too. IP: Logged |
ail221 Moderator Posts: 3381 From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon Registered: Feb 2012
|
posted March 30, 2013 04:32 PM
Gemini moon/venusActually this is part of the reason I stopped being friends with someone with Aquarius sun and Sagittarius moon. Communal group activities constantly but only full of people she wanted to associate with. Along of the cult mentality that if you were friends with her you should automatically dislike or have "beef" with the same people she had a problem with or else your conspiring against her. 0___o Aquarius conspiracy theories. IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 1726 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
|
posted March 30, 2013 04:35 PM
^^ She has jupiter in the11th house which probably contributes to her expansive sociability.I know every single contact on my phone. she often has no idea who's texting her hehe My 11th house ruler is in the 8th house so that explains me. @Ail... Thats scary, thank goodness she has a scorpio moon and virgo asc so she's not a hot mess at all. She's really focused. Cults scare the crap out of me, I'm terrified of going into churches like I'm the anti christ or something. When I was little mass always scared me ahhahahaha don't even get be started with mosques. I use to hide in the corner. IP: Logged |
ail221 Moderator Posts: 3381 From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon Registered: Feb 2012
|
posted March 30, 2013 05:04 PM
^The funny thing is she is extremely religious more than she lets on. You'd think someone so "religious" would practice forgiveness more easily. IP: Logged |
starfairy Knowflake Posts: 752 From: Registered: Jul 2010
|
posted March 30, 2013 05:11 PM
Omg my ex has Aqua Sun/Sag Moon, and he's just like that. He's mega paranoid and very religious (Sun in 12th, Neptune conjunct his Moon in Sag). Biggest conspiracy theorist I know (not in regards to his views on friendship, though). But yeah, EVERYTHING is a conspiracy to him :/ IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 6365 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
|
posted March 30, 2013 05:15 PM
im an aqua sun and i prefer smaller groups to bigger noiser groups. I also dont mix my groups of friends IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 1726 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
|
posted March 30, 2013 05:21 PM
Not all aqua's are that cray.. Mine has mercury in aqua conjunct saturn in cap so she's the most logical person I know!its the sag moon probably. I noticed lunar sags are REALY into organized religion. I know a few of like that too. IP: Logged |
greatquincunx Knowflake Posts: 91 From: Houston Registered: Jan 2012
|
posted March 30, 2013 05:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: im an aqua sun and i prefer smaller groups to bigger noiser groups. I also dont mix my groups of friends
What's the sign on your 11th house and is it housing other planets? IP: Logged |
starfairy Knowflake Posts: 752 From: Registered: Jul 2010
|
posted March 30, 2013 05:26 PM
aquaguy, your sun is in the 12th house, no? I think that explains it! Also, do you have Saturn in the 11th?IP: Logged |
ail221 Moderator Posts: 3381 From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon Registered: Feb 2012
|
posted March 30, 2013 05:34 PM
Maybe its their Venus, mine had mercury in Aquarius conjunct Saturn as well. I know a guy with the Aqua/Sag combination but he's has a Aquarius and Sagittarius stellium and I think he's hot and lacking the crazy factor.IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 1726 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
|
posted March 30, 2013 05:42 PM
^ Isn't venus in pisces cray cray lol?Mine has it in conjunction with her dsc exact. Which adds to her magnetism. Venus conjuncts my asc exact so perhaps that explains our differences too. Im more about individuality and she's all about other people. If that makes sense. Her asc is in virgo and the asc represents your life path basically. Virgo is just too logical for all that conspiracy crap. What was your aqua's asc? IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 6365 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
|
posted March 30, 2013 05:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by starfairy: aquaguy, your sun is in the 12th house, no? I think that explains it! Also, do you have Saturn in the 11th?
yes. no, saturn is conjunct sun in 12thIP: Logged |
ail221 Moderator Posts: 3381 From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon Registered: Feb 2012
|
posted March 30, 2013 05:57 PM
On the nose Venus PiscesIP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 1726 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
|
posted March 30, 2013 06:02 PM
^ huh. Venus in pisces is what exactly?
IP: Logged |
ail221 Moderator Posts: 3381 From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon Registered: Feb 2012
|
posted March 30, 2013 06:04 PM
^You said venus in pisces was cray cray.She has venus in pisces. IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 1726 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
|
posted March 30, 2013 06:06 PM
Oh yeah I thought you were comparing it to something else. lol nvm.IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 1909 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011
|
posted March 30, 2013 06:08 PM
Kerosene, how did you get a friend like that? o_O In your same age group ( i think ) at least. I have the worst luck with teenagers. Lets see my dad who is a Gemini Rising and Aqua Rising doesn't shut up and he talks a lot, really loudly too. he talks to random people. I find that annoying/rude my sis is also an aqua sun gem riisng, shes a huge introvert and keeps to herself, hardly any friends my dad doesnt have close friends, only acquatiances, typical aquarius IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 546 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
|
posted March 30, 2013 06:10 PM
Aquarius can be detached. I have an 11th house sun and am quite detached most the time.IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 546 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
|
posted March 30, 2013 06:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: Aquarius can be detached. I have an 11th house sun and am quite detached most the time.
The close, one on one friendships are probably the domain of house 7, maybe a little of house 4 since it's the intimate Cancerian house and they are warm. House 8 a little, too? oops hit quote instead of edit... IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 284 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
|
posted March 30, 2013 06:15 PM
I get along great with aquarius as friends. Romantically.....hell no.We can talk for hours but sheesh shut the hell up sometime and let me talk. ------------------ Gemini sun 12th Cancer asc 1st Taurus moon 11th Taurus venus 11th Libra mars 3rd Gemini mercury 11th IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 1726 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
|
posted March 30, 2013 06:16 PM
Same age group!! We met on omegle over the summer 4 years ago LMAOOO I chatted with her for several hours until it was like 10:amWe have a lot of good synastry like Mars conjunct venus Jupiter conjunct asc. Nodes conjuncts. Vertex conjunct anti vertex. Also a strong comp chart. Jupiter conjunct asc exact again. Moon conjunct dsc. exact. Sun conjunct mer and venus
IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 1909 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011
|
posted March 30, 2013 06:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: Same age group!! We met on omegle over the summer 4 years ago LMAOOO I chatted with her for several hours until it was like 10:amWe have a lot of good synastry like Mars conjunct venus Jupiter conjunct asc. Nodes conjuncts. Vertex conjunct anti vertex. Also a strong comp chart. Jupiter conjunct asc exact again. Moon conjunct dsc. exact. Sun conjunct mer and venus
Amazing. Everyone my age gets bored or screws me over badly.
IP: Logged |