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Leocassandra
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posted March 31, 2013 01:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leocassandra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Why we don't like some people? is there any aspect that means "hate at first sight"? or just "i dont like you"? Sometimes im checking synastry with people that i dont like and...surprisingly we dont have such bad synastry! however I noticed i dont like: Sun semisquare Sun, Sun sesiquadrate Sun( maybe its weird but i like(?) Sun square Sun), hard Mercury aspect but not with the other Mercury or Mars but with Jupiter, Their saturn square my ASC but nothing else really stood out. Maybe it depend on how strong or weak are your planet? Maybe it is house placement?

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Kerosene
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posted March 31, 2013 01:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'd like to know this too, I think everyone has this.

On the top of my head Mars and saturn would cause a lot of tension.

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k e p h x i
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posted March 31, 2013 01:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for k e p h x i     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I used to hate my cousin and it was for about 10 years. Now, we're super-super close.

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Rising: Virgo
Sun: _____
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Little Doe
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posted March 31, 2013 01:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Little Doe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The guys I have disliked from day one (and continued to dislike) have all been libras. I think it has to do with the fact that my 12th house is in libra so their sun (and sometimes their mars) falls in my 12th house.

These people creep me out so badly and my instincts were always right about them.

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KarkaQueen
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posted March 31, 2013 01:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarkaQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
me and my boyfriend have mars square saturn on both sides and we are super close XD

Ihate Pisces women the most, theyconjunct my south node

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hannaramaa
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posted March 31, 2013 01:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
VIRGOS. I don't know what aspects I had with them but a lot of them I don't like upon first meeting (and then I see how similar we are... I have Virgo IC.)

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Leocassandra
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posted March 31, 2013 02:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leocassandra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
VIRGOS. I don't know what aspects I had with them but a lot of them I don't like upon first meeting (and then I see how similar we are... I have Virgo IC.)

Yes! It makes me wonder if we dont like people who are completely opposite of who we are or we do dont like people who are very similar to us? i find Pisces Moons boring (don't hate me) even if their Moons are opposite my Venus/Mars or sextile my Moon i dont find them interesting...

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hannaramaa
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posted March 31, 2013 02:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Leocassandra:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by hannaramaa:
[b]VIRGOS. I don't know what aspects I had with them but a lot of them I don't like upon first meeting (and then I see how similar we are... I have Virgo IC.)


Yes! It makes me wonder if we dont like people who are completely opposite of who we are or we do dont like people who are very similar to us? i find Pisces Moons boring (don't hate me) even if their Moons are opposite my Venus/Mars or sextile my Moon i dont find them interesting...[/B][/QUOTE]

:laugh: I was going to say Libras too, but I know you wanted more concrete things like aspects. Opposite doesn't have to mean interesting. Sometimes they chafe.

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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted March 31, 2013 02:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
moon opposite Neptune
Venus square Saturn
Venus square ascendant
Mars square sun
Mars square Pluto
Mars square north node
Pluto conjunct south node

hah!

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starfairy
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posted March 31, 2013 02:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starfairy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree with Kerosene about the Mars-Saturn thing.. I'll add Mars sq Mars, too (easily annoy or irritate one another)..

One of my cousins HATED me from the first moment she saw me. We hadn't seen each other in a really long time (15+ years), but my family and I ended up going down to Florida for her sister's wedding. She was a total ***** from the moment we met! She was so sweet to my sis, but so rude to me. I didn't really get why; we hadn't seen each other since we were children, so why all the hostility?

She's an Aries with Sag Moon, I'm a Sag with Aries moon! lol but my sun and moon are not in orb of her sun or moon.. My sister also has Sun in Sag and Moon in Aries, and my cousin's Moon is conjunct my sister's sun (hence, the warm, fuzzy feelings between them).

Anyway, My Saturn opposes her Mars exactly
My Saturn is square her Venus
Her Chiron is EXACTLY on my Descendant, opposite my Ascendant/Sun/Uranus
Sun square Mercury DW
My moon is conjunct her NN, her Mars is conjunct my NN
Mars square Mars
Her Saturn conjunct my Ascendant

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CosmicKarma360
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posted March 31, 2013 02:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CosmicKarma360     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know what it is, but it does seem like a lot of Geminis seem to loathe me on sight. The only thing I can come up with is that my Venus is in Gem, and it's very heavily afflicted. Maybe if their personal plantes hit around my Venus it upsets them?

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Leocassandra
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posted March 31, 2013 02:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leocassandra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by starfairy:
I agree with Kerosene about the Mars-Saturn thing.. I'll add Mars sq Mars, too (easily annoy or irritate one another)..

One of my cousins HATED me from the first moment she saw me. We hadn't seen each other in a really long time (15+ years), but my family and I ended up going down to Florida for her sister's wedding. She was a total ***** from the moment we met! She was so sweet to my sis, but so rude to me. I didn't really get why; we hadn't seen each other since we were children, so why all the hostility?

She's an Aries with Sag Moon, I'm a Sag with Aries moon! lol but my sun and moon are not in orb of her sun or moon.. My sister also has Sun in Sag and Moon in Aries, and my cousin's Moon is conjunct my sister's sun (hence, the warm, fuzzy feelings between them).

Anyway, My Saturn opposes her Mars exactly
My Saturn is square her Venus
Her Chiron is EXACTLY on my Descendant, opposite my Ascendant/Sun/Uranus
Sun square Mercury DW
My moon is conjunct her NN, her Mars is conjunct my NN
Mars square Mars
Her Saturn conjunct my Ascendant



With one girl I have Saturn(my) square Mars, Sun, Chiron(my) square her Mars, Mercury and she annoys me! Ehh at first i really liked her because her Sun was/is on My Sun/Moon mp, her Venus is conjunct my Venus.

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ScorpioMoon
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posted March 31, 2013 04:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh lord. I'd like to know a thing or two about this as well. Often, I'll walk into a room and someone, or even a group of people will just lash out at me for no reason in particular. For example, years ago in elementary school, or even in high school, I'd be walking through the hall and some random guy or girl would just attack me with petty insults, block my path, threaten me, and so on. All for seemingly no reason at all. It happened regularly, and even some adults (They were of adult age anyway, but they surely didn't act like adults)did this to me. I don't know if it was my 8th house energy rubbing someone the wrong way, or my Mars Square Saturn in my own chart having an effect on someone, or the way I present myself, or if those aggressive people were just miserable, but, even total strangers aren't afraid to let me know how much they hate me.

On the other hand, I've disliked people at first sight too, just not in a hostile manner. If I don't like you, I just stay far away from you. Usually I dislike people who look kind of sinister or mean. Maybe these people have Scorpio/Capricorn energy, and that rubs ME the wrong way.Mmm...Who knows.

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KarkaQueen
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posted March 31, 2013 04:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarkaQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
again, Mars sq Saturn -- we are super super close and connection.

I actually hated a guy with a passion when my Nessus conjunct his Sun 1 orb

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posted March 31, 2013 04:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for somethingexcellent     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's just the little things, for me. If someone is particularly annoying, especially if I like something and they're "ruining" it, I'll dislike them without having to get to know them. No synastry involved for me.

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Odette
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posted March 31, 2013 05:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't love or hate people at first sight.
The ones who have apparently hated me - have a Cancer Sun (only men & rarely) or a Virgo Mercury (more commonly.. but this is dislike rather than hate).


I agree that Mars square Mars and Mars/Saturn aspects cause friction... but it's not always immediately obvious.
Depending on the rest of the chart Mars sq. Mars can just be a high-energy aspect not a hate aspect. I have it with close friends.
Mars/Saturn creeps up on you over time. Nothing happens suddenly when Saturn is involved.
I have the conjunction with someone & it was love at first sight for him - but it *sure* ain't love anymore..... for either of us.

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Odette
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posted March 31, 2013 05:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Actually I'll add Gemini Mercury as well, but again - rarely.. and only men.
My Mercury is Pisces.. With Gem&Virgo Mercs - we can basically annoy each other.

It's interesting but I don't think a woman has ever hated me at first sight hmmm
It's usually men but only old men... past middle-age. Is this a guy thing? Maybe they get cranky.

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CherryVodka
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posted March 31, 2013 05:49 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm just going to generalize because it's easier and be blunt.

These are the sun signs (and some aspects) that I have issues with more often than not (there are exceptions) and yes, I am not sure what in our charts is clashing and all that jazz.

First off, for some reason I love Taurus women, I'm so attracted to them most of the time at first sight (that goes for Taurus Venus too) but the men? Well, for some reason we usually clash. I still haven't figured it out, but I can list some of the things.

1. I find them closed minded/always have to be right and won't consider what you're even saying

And 2. Now, I don't mind material things, but when someone is always asking you about your job or if you have one how much you make etc etc. and can't seem to just appreciate being alive/doing things on a whim and being reckless/wild then I tend to tune out.


Okay next, Gemini women seem to dislike me at first sight, for whatever reason I'm not sure, and there have been very few that I've got on with, the men and me seem to at least find some sort of common ground, but the women - man. . I've met some extremely hurtful/rude Gemini women who were so loose with words that it was painful listening to them gossip about you WHILE you're in the same room with them.

Libra Women- their voice, their fake attitude
The fact that the ones I've ran into only care about looks and what's cool at the moment and how they ignore you if you say anything realistic or truthful or even the least bit disorderly.

As far as aspects go - other people with Moon Square Pluto in their natal chart

People with Mars in Aries

Moon in Pisces ( I love Pisces but you guys rule yourselves out because you go silent on me if I hurt your feelings, but you won't tell me what I did it annoys me to no end)

Venus in Aries or Capricorn woman - can be downright heartless to me ( I have Venus in Leo fyi)

An honorable mention Mercury in Sag - unreachable.

Phew..... that felt good. I apologize in advance for any lovely people who fall under any of those categories just know that there are people out there making you look terrible.

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hannaramaa
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posted March 31, 2013 05:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey CherryVodka,

I have Venus in Aries and my old used-to-be friend had Venus in Leo (as well as tons of other fire) and I think he saw me the same way. What do we do that's heartless vs. what you would do? I'm not criticizing, I'm actually curious about the differences in mindsets between two supposedly "soul mate" signs.

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CherryVodka
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posted March 31, 2013 06:07 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's the snappy insults from my experience. They really hurt me. Also you can be more blunt than you realize (I think you don't realize it) and I'm sure people underestimate just how sensitive Leos can be.

Sex is great though, but I mean for me if you insult me one too many times or blow me off a couple times I pretty much either give up on you or I get bitter and try to fight against you. Which won't work because my Venus in Leo usually forgives you guys. . . lol

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posted March 31, 2013 06:09 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Also let me add this one thing, when Venus in Aries leaves a relationship, they are DONE and this hurts Leo men who might still like you they want you to miss them and you guys just don't show that, in fact I'd argue that you don't even feel that emotion like Leos do.

I had one tell me 'Get over it' plain and simple, I was furious. We would rather argue and scream then make up then to be silent and bitter. I would at least


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Keep in mind though that I have a Cancer ASC which squares Aries and doesn't quite understand Capricorn, and the Aries is squaring my Neptune which makes me more emotional about it.

In my experience Venus Square Neptune is an insufferable aspect in synastry and a real deal breaker.

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posted March 31, 2013 06:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Snorkel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ScorpioMoon:
Oh lord. I'd like to know a thing or two about this as well. Often, I'll walk into a room and someone, or even a group of people will just lash out at me for no reason in particular. For example, years ago in elementary school, or even in high school, I'd be walking through the hall and some random guy or girl would just attack me with petty insults, block my path, threaten me, and so on. All for seemingly no reason at all. It happened regularly, and even some adults (They were of adult age anyway, but they surely didn't act like adults)did this to me. I don't know if it was my 8th house energy rubbing someone the wrong way, or my Mars Square Saturn in my own chart having an effect on someone, or the way I present myself, or if those aggressive people were just miserable, but, even total strangers aren't afraid to let me know how much they hate me.

On the other hand, I've disliked people at first sight too, just not in a hostile manner. If I don't like you, I just stay far away from you. Usually I dislike people who look kind of sinister or mean. Maybe these people have Scorpio/Capricorn energy, and that rubs ME the wrong way.Mmm...Who knows.



Same here. People tend to respond funny, and by "funny", I mean in a hostile way - towards people that are strongly Plutonian or Neptunian. I think in general those energies just make most people really really skittish.

Also, to back up another member who said this earlier, usually when people's planets fall in someone's 12th house, they dislike and/or distrust them, or vice versa.

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posted March 31, 2013 08:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Leocassandra:
Why we don't like some people? is there any aspect that means "hate at first sight"? or just "i dont like you"? Sometimes im checking synastry with people that i dont like and...surprisingly we dont have such bad synastry! however I noticed i dont like: Sun semisquare Sun, Sun sesiquadrate Sun( maybe its weird but i like(?) Sun square Sun), hard Mercury aspect but not with the other Mercury or Mars but with Jupiter, Their saturn square my ASC but nothing else really stood out. Maybe it depend on how strong or weak are your planet? Maybe it is house placement?

I often wondered if those we hate at first site are people who hurt us in a past life.

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posted April 01, 2013 11:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyKitty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My recently... hate at first sight ..
When her sun and saturn , both square tightly to my sun .
Anything she said , is really anoyed me. I feel really uncomfortable when speak to her. But when I'm alone , I start to reconsider what has she spoken that irritate me?
No ... not at all..but I just don't like without any reason.

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