posted April 04, 2013 07:27 PM            

I don't find Cap women to be cold--I think that's sexist social attitudes being projected onto them and I really find that disgusting. They are no-nonsense and they get the job done. Just because they don't think smiling at *you* is a high priority doesnt mean they're "cold".

posted April 13, 2013 01:04 PM            

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Originally posted by cappy1277:
Linda goodman said that only a goat can wear down a ram lol

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posted April 13, 2013 01:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Vradec:
Wow Aries? I would have thought a Cap woman plus an Aries man would be a bad match: the bashing of a ram's horns against the goat's.

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I'm an Aries woman and I LOVE Capricorn men; sun or moon (although I prefer the sun. The moon is an even harder outlet in a man's chart vs a woman's). I like amusing them because they're often too stoic. They need me to help them lighten up and be spontaneous. In the same breath this seriousness is why I trust them on a different level than some of my best friends. Even the ones that party (and the Capricorns I've ever known ARE indeed social, much like Sagittarius is described but they are rather simple in their approach which I appreciate). They aren't smothering but know when you need to be protected and when you're fine on your own. They aren't the most affectionate but I think that is just when they are fearful. If you tell them point blank what you want, they will deliver it to you but a lot of people don't function like that.

posted April 14, 2013 08:56 AM            

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Originally posted by CapSunScorpioAscendant:
I met an Aries guy many years ago. We were intellectually well-matched but there was nothing else. We could talk for hours but there was no chemistry to speak of.

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same here! I have a gorgeous, smart aries friend. I can talk to him about everything, and we would be a perfect couple, but there is no spark.

But this capricorn man that I know on the other hand.. What a chemistry! Sigh..
He and I are so uncompatible. There´s just no way it could ever work. Plus, he´s taken. I´m scared ******** of him, he´s so scary. But when he looks at me there´s this love in his eyes. I´ve never had a man look at me with such love. It´s not a nice kind of love, it´s I guess a capricorn mans kind of love, idk..

posted April 14, 2013 09:12 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I'm an Aries woman and I LOVE Capricorn men; sun or moon (although I prefer the sun. The moon is an even harder outlet in a man's chart vs a woman's). I like amusing them because they're often too stoic. They need me to help them lighten up and be spontaneous. In the same breath this seriousness is why I trust them on a different level than some of my best friends. Even the ones that party (and the Capricorns I've ever known ARE indeed social, much like Sagittarius is described but they are rather simple in their approach which I appreciate). They aren't smothering but know when you need to be protected and when you're fine on your own. They aren't the most affectionate but I think that is just when they are fearful. If you tell them point blank what you want, they will deliver it to you but a lot of people don't function like that.

As for Capricorn women, I've known three that I can think of off the top of my head. One has battled depression since her break-up with her baby's father, one committed suicide, and one stayed in her marriage because it was the right thing to do (and for the money) even though she was having an emotional affair with a co-worker. Capricorns (men or women) aren't perfect but they are very loyal. I miss the one who committed suicide. She was very smart indeed and usually accurate in her perceptions of people. She was going to be a lawyer. The one with depression is also very intelligent but I think has trouble OWNING her feelings and dealing with them so they don't affect her negatively. Funny enough both her and the deceased one have the same birthday. Capricorn women aren't strong or cold, they're just bossy and a lot of men don't like that. You know what type would though? Aquariuses. Yes, they're stubborn but in relationships they're often submissive. I think it would work. Capricorns often have some hint of Aquarius in their charts anyway and vice versa.

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I like your take on capricorn women.

Seems familiar. I´m not quite sure if my own depression is a medical condition or if it´s an inherent part of my personality and has more to do with my perception on life.

I´ve always been very strong on the outside. And yes, it´s my way or the highway, as bad as that sounds. Basically I seemed unbreakable, but when on the inside I was planning how to commit suicide for a long time, and I gave up on everything except school/work. I was s lonely. I had no one in my life. Spent every christmas and birthday and new year alone for years.

Then one day I realized how beautiful life is, and how much God loves me, and I changed. I stopped thinking about suicide and I started loving myself.

I still have no friends, and I´m still a loner, will forever be bossy, cold and tyrannical on the outside.

I´ve noticed that alot of people dislike me.