posted April 04, 2013 12:51 AM            

That's the one thing about my Gemini buddy. He gets irritated about some silly thing and suddenly he is annoyed and stops talking, usually for something like twenty four hours. I notice if I am friendly with him and go out of my way to be extra nice, I don't argue as much with my Gemini buddy.

I just figure it's because our suns form a natural square, lol.

posted April 04, 2013 12:55 AM            

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

posted April 04, 2013 02:11 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
So I havent had much experience with this sign and I want to find out if the behavior this one girl is exhibiting is normal for the sign. anyways we have been talking on and off since september (i think) and she has been extremely unstable the whole time. originally she was keen on me and asked me on a date and ended up flaking on me. ever since then she'll randomly text me and act as if we never quit talking even though we might have not talked for weeks or a month or more. like literally she'll quit texting me mid conversation and wont text back for a month and act as if nothing happened and offer no explanation. just lastnight she texted me for the first time since febuary and is suddenly wanting me to call her and hang out and she has already gone silent again! frankly its starting to **** me off and im about to tell her to stick it where the sun dont shine. is this sort of instability typical for geminis? geeze and they say us aquas are bad.

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posted April 04, 2013 04:33 AM            

Unless there's sufficient fire or earth in there charts. I would avoid a Gemini female, not even with a ten foot pole.

Without fire or earth they are a bunch of "looney, flaky and unstable scatterbrains"
with the most ridiculous form of reasoning.

But, if you find a matured Gemini female this shouldn't be an issue as they would have overcome or contained these challenges.

The immature ones can also be manipulative and it combines with there delusional reasoning(this is an issue I notice with Virgo females also)

posted April 05, 2013 08:45 AM            

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Originally posted by SpooL:
Hopefully, I won't receive any flak from the Gemini females.

Unless there's sufficient fire or earth in there charts. I would avoid a Gemini female, not even with a ten foot pole.

Without fire or earth they are a bunch of "looney, flaky and unstable scatterbrains"
with the most ridiculous form of reasoning.

But, if you find a matured Gemini female this shouldn't be an issue as they would have overcome or contained these challenges.

The immature ones can also be manipulative and it combines with there delusional reasoning(this is an issue I notice with Virgo females also)

Thats the perspective from a Gemini Male and I'm being blunt.

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posted April 05, 2013 08:50 AM            

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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
Remember that Mutable energy is a long shot away from the Fixed energy. You are Aqua/Taurus and then there is Gemini, who may come and go because of mutable and then air. Air is formless, shapeless and can't be controlled and mutable is prone to change. Actually, I hear it's not unusual for mutable signs to do this. Disappear and then reappear in your life. I'm not saying she's right and you're wrong, just that you two are different despite both being Air Suns. You will probably expect more consistency, naturally. My only advice is to give her room to move, but if it makes you uncomfortable or is asking too much I'd just phase to friendship or acquaintances. I don't think it's intentional or has anything to do with you.

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Over the years and have many Gemini friends and a few romantic interests this is sort of my GENERAL view as well.

When they flake, I flake back, they rarely take it personally and neither do I so we wind up getting along well enough.

posted April 05, 2013 08:51 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
. originally she was keen on me and asked me on a date and ended up flaking on me. ever since then she'll randomly text me and act as if we never quit talking even though we might have not talked for weeks or a month or more. like literally she'll quit texting me mid conversation and wont text back for a month and act as if nothing happened and offer no explanation. just lastnight she texted me for the first time since febuary and is suddenly wanting me to call her and hang out and she has already gone silent again! frankly its starting to **** me off and im about to tell her to stick it where the sun dont shine. is this sort of instability typical for geminis? geeze and they say us aquas are bad.

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It means you didn't catch her attention. She's Not much into you. Geminis don't play the Scorpio mind games of appear/disappear in order to intentionally wreck you up, so the fact that she comes and goes means that she calls you only when she is bored. I think.
(70% of my chart is mutable)

posted April 05, 2013 09:40 AM            

They'll seek you out.

What you're describing is the behavior of an air-heavy Gemini who only contacts you when she's bored.

She's just not that in to you.

posted April 05, 2013 09:55 AM            

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Originally posted by mockingbird:I don't care what someone's chart looks like - if they really like you, they'll make time for you.
They'll seek you out.
What you're describing is the behavior of an air-heavy Gemini who only contacts you when she's bored.
She's just not that in to you.

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my thoughts, as well ( my post above)

posted April 05, 2013 11:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Londongirl8:
This has got to be the biggest load of crap I've ever read. To generalise about millions of woman who happen to be born around the same time is pathetic! Not all Gemini woman are the same especially those born in May compared to those born in June Having said that, my sister is Gemini and if I were a man I wouldn't date her crazy ass

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I was obviously not Generalizing when I said matured Gemini females, there are some

Did I say all, no i didn't if I said all that would be generalization. But, I never said all.

Re read my post, geez.

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Originally posted by SpooL:
.... But, if you find a matured Gemini female this shouldn't be an issue .....

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posted April 05, 2013 11:59 AM            

(Damn, maybe it's just me but this whole forum's gotten terribly sexist since my first time here. Seriously questioning whether I need to just give up on this site.)

Gemini is a MUTABLE sign. We like change. We need stimulation and we need variety. That doesn't make us unstable. If you can't keep up, that's your problem. Don't judge us.

Now for some Gemini straight talk for you:

If you can't get up the courage and maturity to act like an adult and talk to her civilly about why she's acting like this, as opposed to thinking you're entitled to take it all so personally and then come onto this forum and badmouth this woman while "wondering" if this is "normal" for "Geminis", she isn't the only part of the problem here.

posted April 05, 2013 12:06 PM            

Of course it's easy to generalize, we can all do it sometimes.. but I don't think that OP's intent was to judge/badmouth the girl, more like, trying to understand if it was a common behaviour among Geminis and what he should do based on that.

That being said, I don't think it's "normal" to act that way, but it wouldn't have much to do with being a Gemini.. I know some people who act the same way and some of them are actually fixed Suns (!).

I think it all comes down to her level of maturity and her level of interest in you - which, it seems, are both quite low..

posted April 05, 2013 12:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
^ I agree completely.

(though it's totally off topic )

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posted April 05, 2013 12:35 PM            

Maybe she just sees you as a friend?

posted April 05, 2013 12:44 PM            

I don't take people like that seriously, either. I don't blame them or anything, but knowing myself, I couldn't put up with such a behaviour, especially in romance. So I just let them do their thing, I don't ignore them but I don't focus on them either. 50/50.

posted April 06, 2013 01:49 PM            

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Originally posted by GemNymph:
As a Gemini, I find it pretty insulting to suggest being "unstable" is normal for any sign, let alone my own. That's a highly judgemental and ableist word as it's used here, and since it's a guy talking about a woman, it's also coming across as sexist.

(Damn, maybe it's just me but this whole forum's gotten terribly sexist since my first time here. Seriously questioning whether I need to just give up on this site.)

Gemini is a MUTABLE sign. We like change. We need stimulation and we need variety. That doesn't make us unstable. If you can't keep up, that's your problem. Don't judge us.

Now for some Gemini straight talk for you:

If you can't get up the courage and maturity to act like an adult and talk to her civilly about why she's acting like this, as opposed to thinking you're entitled to take it all so personally and then come onto this forum and badmouth this woman while "wondering" if this is "normal" for "Geminis", she isn't the only part of the problem here.

And given how biased (and sexist) you're sounding, for all I know YOU are the problem and are just rationalizing it the way Aquarius likes to rationalize when it doesn't want to be accountable of itself.

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