posted April 05, 2013 07:45 PM            

I've dealt with messages that haven't been replied to until he was finished work, or the next day due to his crazy work schedule, but this time it was blatantly ignored. It didn't seem to prying, considering just a few weeks ago after I got back from a business trip he asked me how the trip was (which is what I asked him). I know it was ignored because, as silly as it sounds, he's been posting things all over the internet from his phone.

Also, do Caps or Aquas tend to hold on to ideas of people? In December while he was being extremely responsive to me and telling me that he really appreciated me in his life, he also messaged a girl and said something along the lines of "You're so hot. Holy **** ." I figured since we weren't exclusive that it was just him being a flirt, and they didn't seem to have any other connections, but now he seems to be warming up to her again after deleting her and I'm wondering if his attention has been taken away for good now.

posted April 05, 2013 08:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Jkitty:
Okay, I'm an Aquarian (of the female gender) and I have to admit, I'm much more likely to let a relationship fade out to black than openly end one. When I was younger and more immature (this was back in the days before text messaging), I tended to use the cold shoulder. But thanks to the joys of technology, I can simply wait a bit longer to respond each time I get a message.

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See I never really know with him because he is always at work until weird hours in the morning. He can not reply for 7 hours because he's in a big meeting, or so on, and he'll always tell me why. It doesn't seem intentional, and even if it was - why tell me an excuse and say stuff like "Hey! Im so sorry, I know you don't care about the late reply but I was in a meeting."

posted April 05, 2013 10:19 PM            

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Originally posted by DreamingBull:
When you let things fade do you ask to hang out all the time? He brings it up whenever we speak and we always say "Yeah totally we will make time" but it rarely materializes due to schedules.

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Hmmm. I've never been one to "hang out" with people; we get together to do something, even if it's meeting for coffee. I also have a crazy schedule and often don't know until the morning when, where, or even IF I'll be working that day. BUT, if I really want to see/talk to someone, I MAKE time for them. For example, I have a sister who lives in a different time zone and we have a weekly "phone date" to talk -- one week I call her at our set time and the next week, she will call me at our appointed time. And when we do our scheduled phone call, that's all we do and don't try to multitask on a bluetooth.

So there you have it from at least one Aquarian. Hope that helps you understand him. You might want to back off completely and see what happens. If he really wants to continue a relationship with you, chances are he'll do something about it.

posted April 05, 2013 11:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Jkitty:
Hmmm. I've never been one to "hang out" with people; we get together to do something, even if it's meeting for coffee. I also have a crazy schedule and often don't know until the morning when, where, or even IF I'll be working that day. BUT, if I really want to see/talk to someone, I MAKE time for them. For example, I have a sister who lives in a different time zone and we have a weekly "phone date" to talk -- one week I call her at our set time and the next week, she will call me at our appointed time. And when we do our scheduled phone call, that's all we do and don't try to multitask on a bluetooth.

So there you have it from at least one Aquarian. Hope that helps you understand him. You might want to back off completely and see what happens. If he really wants to continue a relationship with you, chances are he'll do something about it.

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posted April 06, 2013 12:52 AM            

we'll be talking and i ask him a personal question to get to know him better, and he disappears, this has happened atleast 3 times, just completely ignores me until next time we talk

it hurts cause he calls me "babe" a lot and always is tellin me how much he wants to see me (his always the one that brings it up), but then acts so disinterested in our conversations. alotttttt of mixed signals and its so confusing and hurtful

after 3rd time him completely ignoring my question about himself, i didnt talk to him for week n half, and then he starts liking all my pics and comments on them all sweet like telling me im his blahblahblah...so it makes me want to talk to him again cause it seems like his interested!!!!!

so we talk again i asked him another question, nothin personal and boom, no response

I DONT UNDERSTAND

all my relationships ive never had such a hard time having a conversation with somebody

i read that when aquarius likes you, they act like they dont like you at all, act complete opposite

its either that, or his stringing me along for his ego boost which is ****** up

posted April 06, 2013 01:03 AM            

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Originally posted by foxxyxo:
i read that when aquarius likes you, they act like they dont like you at all, act complete opposite

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It's unlikely to be an ACT. Aquarius is ruled by Uranus. Uranus is a very weird, unstable planet. Its axis goes almost side-to-side instead of almost up-and-down like all the other planets and it's orbit is different than any other planet as well. If you want to understand Aquarius, find out all you can about Uranus. If you can't embrace the unusual and you don't like sudden and unexpected change, Aquarians are not for you. On the other hand, if you get bored easily, like excitement . . .

posted April 06, 2013 02:30 AM            

his mercury is conjunct saturn and

his venus is conjunct saturn as well squared pluto

posted April 06, 2013 03:29 PM            

thanks for bringing me back to reality

i usually am very intolerent when it comes to boys but with aquarius theyre planets fall in my 12th so i get so dreamy about them :/

posted April 06, 2013 05:07 PM            

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Originally posted by foxxyxo:
d) his a dick

thanks for bringing me back to reality

i usually am very intolerent when it comes to boys but with aquarius theyre planets fall in my 12th so i get so dreamy about them :/

i swear guys love it when ur a ***** to them

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posted April 07, 2013 08:37 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
If he makes you this insecure and worried, why do you want to be with him? I've been ignored before (as have the other 13,293,416,720 people on earth). It doesn't mean your relationship is in trouble or you did anything wrong. It means he a) doesn't know how to communicate directly b) is a jerk and c) he doesn't feel like talking.

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