posted April 06, 2013 07:54 AM            

But it's my short way of saying that I have a planet in each of the air and fire signs. At first mention, you would think this indicates that I have it easy....so many sextiles and trines!

But with everything interlinking... squares, oppositions and, in my case, a bunch of t-squares also form.

Natally, I have:

Aries Jupiter
Gemini Mars
Leo Saturn
Libra Pluto
Sag Venus-Neptune
Aquarius Mercury

Mercury trine Venus is great...but Mercury opposes Saturn.

Neptune trine Jupiter is great, but Neptune opposes Mars, and Jupiter opposes Pluto.

And I just assume that would be the case in synastry or composite...many easy aspects sometimes create many hard ones.

So anyway, I think I have sought relationships that have that same mix of easy, flowing aspects and seriously challenging aspects. This seems the best way for me to express my complicated energy within the context of a relationship.

posted April 06, 2013 10:10 AM            

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Sunny with a chance of showers.

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I love it!! Yes, too many easy aspects would be like opening a book and on the first-page it reads "and they both lived happily ever after" -- WHAT?! WHERE'S THE STORY??!! Conflict, tension, suspense, problems to solve -- it's what keeps things interesting!

posted April 06, 2013 12:22 PM            

My natal is made up mostly of hard aspects; conjunction, opposition, quincunx. The only flowing aspect aspect is venus sextile mars.

posted April 06, 2013 12:23 PM            

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Originally posted by ueharaa:
Maybe it is just a coincidence but I don't think I have a synastry with anyone close to me or that I've liked that is full of trines. I have mostly opposition and squares.

My natal is made up mostly of hard aspects; conjunction, opposition, quincunx. The only flowing aspect aspect is venus sextile mars.

But I'm not gonna lie though, it is way easier when there is at least one trine or sextile of two basic planet. When it's all square and opposition, and there are NO flowing aspect, it can be very difficult to have a flowing relationship with the person concerned.

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posted April 06, 2013 12:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Oh yeahh.
Conjunctions are fun at first but it gets too predicable
Oppositions are the best in synsatry for me.
I like debates, and opposites attract.
Plus I love spontaneity
I don't date my element because I find them too easy to get along with.
I'm highly eccentric and strange soo.. other may not agree with me
My psych professor always says likeminded individuals attract, but not for me.

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Thats just you as I would never date a Capricorn Sun, Scorpio Moon, Cancer Ascendant

Scorpio moon makes my stomach hurt

posted April 06, 2013 12:28 PM            

Also, ther need to be aspects between personal planets or/ and angles. No relationship survives without these, or actually no relationship really gets off the ground without these.

posted April 06, 2013 12:35 PM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Thats just you as I would never date a Capricorn Sun, Scorpio Moon, Cancer Ascendant

Scorpio moon makes my stomach hurt

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posted April 06, 2013 02:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Jkitty:
How many of you out there could honestly say that you need a few "hard" aspects in a synastry to keep from getting bored in a relationship? To what in your natal chart to you attribute this?

I've got venus square mars, and also sun opposition moon with both squared by neptune. I think I NEED someone who's just as complex natally or I'd get TICKED. I want some drama, passion, fire (probably my leo moon speaking). Who's with me?

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I'm sooo with you! I was going to start a thread about this actually. I have sun/moon square, and venus and mars square, and venus/ascendant opposite moon. I NEED squares, and I also seem to only attract people with squares or oppositions. I want a weirdo who understands contradictions, and also my mars is in sagittarius so I tend to think of confrontations as natural and healthy and fun at times. lol

posted April 06, 2013 02:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Scorpio moons aren't bad at all, I know plenty.
I bet you're judge this off of one experience.

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No, I know a lot

They always want to cause conflict

posted April 06, 2013 08:08 PM            

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Originally posted by freebrainstorms:
So I have a feeling I know what everybody on this thread will say hehehe but what would you prefer in terms of romantic synastry: venus sextile mars and venus conjunct mars, OR venus trine mars, and venus opposite mars???

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Since I have venus square mars, I'm attracted to another with venus square mars; each mars is opposed the other's venus, our venuses are square and our marses are square. GRRRR....Watch miss kitty pounce and roll on that delectable tom cat. You've got to get in a few good bits before you lick the wounds!

posted April 06, 2013 08:56 PM            

I want something lasting. I like when the sysnastry is mostly positive. I don't think it has to be perfect to last.
My synastry is mostly positive with guy, and we have never really fought, and it's been almost a year. Yeah we debate, and I've been a little b!tchy...but we keep our emotions controlled pretty well.

In past relationships...within a week I was going off on them! Like off the deep end. Explosive.

I realize I don't like drama, BUT I love passion!

I want passion and stability.

I like having the same tastes as partner. But having a few different interests does make us to be individual. Sometimes we don't find the same things funny. That's okay. And I definitely don't expect him to watch dance mom's with me!

Or to like music like this! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aQFoFD6F-Qg

posted April 06, 2013 09:04 PM            

My chart is mostly sextiles, conjunctions and trines. A lot of Venusian energy too, so I like everything to be gentle and nice. Plus I'm gonna be honest, I find day to day life out in the world hard enough as it is, I don't want to come home to a bunch of conflicts and difficulty. What's spicy to one person, is just exhausting and abusive to another. To me I feel like I want the person I'm with and my relationship to be my soft, safe place.

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GRRRR....Watch miss kitty pounce and roll on that delectable tom cat. You've got to get in a few good bits before you lick the wounds!

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posted April 07, 2013 08:21 AM            

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Originally posted by freebrainstorms:
my best friend is a scorpio/leo and she HATES conflict, to the point where I'm the one convincing her that its ok to go there.

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posted April 07, 2013 11:08 AM            

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Originally posted by Snorkel:
I think it depends on both the individual natal charts and the personalities of the people involved.

My chart is mostly sextiles, conjunctions and trines. A lot of Venusian energy too, so I like everything to be gentle and nice. Plus I'm gonna be honest, I find day to day life out in the world hard enough as it is, I don't want to come home to a bunch of conflicts and difficulty. What's spicy to one person, is just exhausting and abusive to another. To me I feel like I want the person I'm with and my relationship to be my soft, safe place.

Am I saying there's anything wrong with people who feel differently? Hell no. One of my exes (Cappy rising), I think that was his thing, he was bored - our composite was mostly trines, his natal chart is mostly squares and oppositions, and I think he likes the wild ride or he doesn't feel alive. We just weren't compatible. I don't think there's a right or wrong way. I think the thing is just to go out and find someone who can give you what you want/need. At the time he was pretty much a jerk to me and I was confused about why until now...in retrospect, he just needs a relationship with a lot of that stuff in it and that was probably his way of trying to provoke that out of me and get me to "go there" with him...I just wound up feeling emotionally overwhelmed and beat-up by him all the time.

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I soooooooooooooooooo completely infinity percent agree to all of this! My chart is pretty easy. I've got one square between Moon and Jupiter and the rest are trines and conjunctions. My children's mother's chart is full of squares and opps and it shows, she thrives on drama and conflict. Me? Heeeeeeck no! Y'all can have your squares and opps! Opps aren't so bad but squares? Yeah, y'all can have em all, I prefer none in synastry or composite. Now, don't get me wrong, I think every synastry will have some squares and opps though so I do accept them.

One of my favorite people in the whole world was a Libra Sun woman. Our synastry was very easy except our Suns were square since she was a 1° Libra. The energy between us was just soooooo easy and smooth and what I wanted/needed from a woman.

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

posted April 07, 2013 04:38 PM            

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Originally posted by freebrainstorms:
@ Jkitty: agreed, so that means you'd prefer an opposition and a trine vs. a conjunction and a sextile??? With the two options i'm suggesting, both would have venus sq venus and mars sq mars.

I love that! That's totally how i feel about it. nom nom nom

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Well, that's a very good question. I think I'd prefer the opposition because it would add more interest for me. A conjunction would feel like it's "taking sides" against either my mars or my venus. I'd rather have tension applied equally to both!

posted April 08, 2013 08:26 AM            

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Originally posted by Got Gemini??:
I soooooooooooooooooo completely infinity percent agree to all of this! My chart is pretty easy. I've got one square between Moon and Jupiter and the rest are trines and conjunctions. My children's mother's chart is full of squares and opps and it shows, she thrives on drama and conflict. Me? Heeeeeeck no! Y'all can have your squares and opps! Opps aren't so bad but squares? Yeah, y'all can have em all, I prefer none in synastry or composite. Now, don't get me wrong, I think every synastry will have some squares and opps though so I do accept them.

One of my favorite people in the whole world was a Libra Sun woman. Our synastry was very easy except our Suns were square since she was a 1° Libra. The energy between us was just soooooo easy and smooth and what I wanted/needed from a woman.

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posted April 08, 2013 09:02 AM            

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Originally posted by Jkitty:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Got Gemini??:
[b] I soooooooooooooooooo completely infinity percent agree to all of this! My chart is pretty easy. I've got one square between Moon and Jupiter and the rest are trines and conjunctions. My children's mother's chart is full of squares and opps and it shows, she thrives on drama and conflict. Me? Heeeeeeck no! Y'all can have your squares and opps! Opps aren't so bad but squares? Yeah, y'all can have em all, I prefer none in synastry or composite. Now, don't get me wrong, I think every synastry will have some squares and opps though so I do accept them.

One of my favorite people in the whole world was a Libra Sun woman. Our synastry was very easy except our Suns were square since she was a 1° Libra. The energy between us was just soooooo easy and smooth and what I wanted/needed from a woman.

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posted April 09, 2013 07:23 AM            

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Originally posted by Got Gemini??:
I soooooooooooooooooo completely infinity percent agree to all of this! My chart is pretty easy. I've got one square between Moon and Jupiter and the rest are trines and conjunctions. My children's mother's chart is full of squares and opps and it shows, she thrives on drama and conflict. Me? Heeeeeeck no! Y'all can have your squares and opps! Opps aren't so bad but squares? Yeah, y'all can have em all, I prefer none in synastry or composite. Now, don't get me wrong, I think every synastry will have some squares and opps though so I do accept them.

One of my favorite people in the whole world was a Libra Sun woman. Our synastry was very easy except our Suns were square since she was a 1° Libra. The energy between us was just soooooo easy and smooth and what I wanted/needed from a woman.

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