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Topic: Something weird is happening to me
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 592 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 06, 2013 03:09 PM
There are moments when I feel like I'm in love. The problem is there's no one I could be in love with...I can do anything and suddenly it comes, like a wave. It's happening to me right now. I've never been in love but I can't find a better way to describe it. I think it began when I started fantasizing about a certain actor. No, I'm not in love with him (how could I be anyway?). I don't get it. I really have no reason to feel like this.Gosh, this is so stupid. I'll probably regret posting this. Are there any transits that could trigger such absurd feelings? ------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
violet7887 Knowflake Posts: 1453 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 06, 2013 05:17 PM
hello what does it matter if there is somebody there to love or not? If you feel lovely and happy just feel it. ___________________
and yes, I have some chocolate pudding. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 592 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 06, 2013 05:18 PM
No, I don't feel lovely and happy. It's uncomfortable and exhausting. And irrational which annoys me.------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
violet7887 Knowflake Posts: 1453 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 06, 2013 05:20 PM
Do you miss someone?...or something?IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 592 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 06, 2013 05:21 PM
I don't think so.------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 2320 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 06, 2013 05:27 PM
Neptune transit maybe?IP: Logged |
violet7887 Knowflake Posts: 1453 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 06, 2013 05:29 PM
in my experience, there are many unexplainable things, especially with feelings. happens to me too. you just dont have answers to certain things sometimes. emotions can be overwhelmed. try to reflect on it and feel it through. after that let it go and move on. thats all i can really say IP: Logged |
iliketurtles Knowflake Posts: 144 From: 2099 Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 06, 2013 05:34 PM
^^ i had the same experiences/feelings when pluto, neptune and uranus transited through and wreaked havoc on my natal chart. during that time i often felt as if i was deeply in love when i wasn't and it was so weird. yes it was extremely irritating, frustrating and exhausting IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 592 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 06, 2013 05:35 PM
Neptune is in my 6th house now, in Pisces which is the sign of my descendant.Violet, I just wanna get rid of it... ilike, how long did it last? ------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Knowflake Posts: 5992 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 06, 2013 05:44 PM
Why?IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 592 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 06, 2013 05:46 PM
Why what?------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Knowflake Posts: 5992 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 06, 2013 06:15 PM
why do you want to get rid of the feeling?IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 592 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 06, 2013 06:19 PM
Because as I said I don't like it.------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Knowflake Posts: 5992 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 06, 2013 06:26 PM
Why don`t you like it?You said it feels like you are in love, which usually is considered a pretty amazing feeling, that is why I was asking. BTW I have had this feeling come and go for many years, and often accompanied by the feeling of being wrapped up in love completely. oh is it because you donīt like the thought that a certain actor might make you feel this way?
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 592 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 06, 2013 07:13 PM
quote: which usually is considered a pretty amazing feeling
Well, I am unusual. I'm pretty sure falling in love would be a nightmare for me and now I can feel the foretaste of it lol. Besides what I feel is not a total bliss, it contains some...pain? Longing? I don't know. quote: oh is it because you donīt like the thought that a certain actor might make you feel this way?
This is not my first crush on a celeb. Yeah, it's silly but I embrace it. The thing is I don't have to think of him to feel that "something". And it seems more powerful than what I used to feel in such situations. It might have started because of him but now I don't know what it is about... Does what I'm saying make any sense? ------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
Jkitty Knowflake Posts: 185 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted April 06, 2013 08:36 PM
Who's the actor? Can you get a birthdate and place for him? Maybe something in his chart is triggering yours. Hey, we're all under the same starry sky!IP: Logged |
FireMoon Knowflake Posts: 738 From: Minnesota Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 06, 2013 08:55 PM
Hey I remember our birthdays are pretty close, and this is just a theory, could be totally irrelevant, but I know my Venus progressed into Pisces a while back (which first of all I don't like, I already have Neptune conjunct DSC, I don't need the whole "in love with love" feeling too lol)But anyway tNeptune will soon conjunct my progressed venus-and yours too I'm assuming... So maybe that has something to do with it? Idk but love has not been an especially rational concept for me either lately lol IP: Logged |
Little Doe Knowflake Posts: 194 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 07, 2013 06:45 AM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: There are moments when I feel like I'm in love. The problem is there's no one I could be in love with...I can do anything and suddenly it comes, like a wave. It's happening to me right now. I've never been in love but I can't find a better way to describe it. I think it began when I started fantasizing about a certain actor. No, I'm not in love with him (how could I be anyway?). I don't get it. I really have no reason to feel like this.Gosh, this is so stupid. I'll probably regret posting this. Are there any transits that could trigger such absurd feelings?
It does sound weird, and what Iīm about to say might sound even weirder.
I had the same feeling a year ago. I was just recovering from a terrible experience with a guy who shattered me, literally. That relationship put me in a black hole for two years prior to this, and I was deeply lost and unhappy. Than a year ago, I suddenly felt more and more detached from this guy, and I started feeling like I was falling in love with someone. There was absolutely no man in my life, I barely had any friends or anyone in my life at all, and yet I started having this feeling in my stomach. This was somewhere in march last year. It was like a voice/feeling in my head was telling me that something lovely is going to happen. I enjoyed the feeling for a few days, thinking it is probably just the spring-time coming on and so on. Oddly I had struggled to detach from that dark relationship I had for two years without sucess, but when I started having this feeling of being in love with someone (I never met) I was all of a sudden free, and I lost touch with the guy from my past. And then, just days after I started having this irrational feeling of being in love something happened. A new guy started going in my class. This was strange, as we were already two years into our program, and no new people come into class at that time. Well.. I fell in love with him immediately, and have been for a year now. I think heīs my soulmate or something. I might be delusional, but I donīt think so. Still to this day I feel so spiritually connected to him, and I always will, even if we donīt end up together.
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 592 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 07, 2013 05:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by Jkitty: Who's the actor? Can you get a birthdate and place for him? Maybe something in his chart is triggering yours. Hey, we're all under the same starry sky!
I used to write about him here but now this is too akward
quote: Originally posted by FireMoon: Hey I remember our birthdays are pretty close, and this is just a theory, could be totally irrelevant, but I know my Venus progressed into Pisces a while back (which first of all I don't like, I already have Neptune conjunct DSC, I don't need the whole "in love with love" feeling too lol)But anyway tNeptune will soon conjunct my progressed venus-and yours too I'm assuming... So maybe that has something to do with it? Idk but love has not been an especially rational concept for me either lately lol
OMG, you might be right. As you assumed my progressed Venus is in Pisces, in the 7th house. I'm already scared of that conjunction...We may need a support thread soon Damn, I don't wanna get more irrational than this quote: It does sound weird, and what Iīm about to say might sound even weirder.
You're scaring me... ------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
Little Doe Knowflake Posts: 194 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 07, 2013 06:18 PM
cappy:sorry, I meant weird in a good way. When that happened to me I fell in love for real just days after I had that feeling. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 592 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 07, 2013 06:27 PM
And I meant your story scared me I really hope it won't happen to me.------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
quinnlycanastro Knowflake Posts: 445 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted April 07, 2013 06:49 PM
It sounds like you're slipping in to limerence ~ probably to avoid falling in to despair?It's a safety mechanism for the psyche... Is it like a strong longing for someone? Like Kate Bush ~ the man with the child in his eyes type of situation? [go google the song if you don't know it] or Bruno Mars ~ Talking to the moon? [bit more modern there lol] IP: Logged |
FireMoon Knowflake Posts: 738 From: Minnesota Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 07, 2013 06:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: OMG, you might be right. As you assumed my progressed Venus is in Pisces, in the 7th house. I'm already scared of that conjunction...We may need a support thread soon Damn, I don't wanna get more irrational than this
Yes, a support thread may be necessary I swear, Neptune will be the end of my remaining sanity lol IP: Logged |
quinnlycanastro Knowflake Posts: 445 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted April 07, 2013 06:53 PM
Any harsh transit will have us running away to place of safety, but for limerence, often there is asteroids Pygmalion or Galatea and the leo/aqua axis seems to come up a lot. Pluto/Neptune transits too Sorry I haven't added the numbers but I'm on my way to bed and have the school run in the morning. IP: Logged |
Barbee Knowflake Posts: 301 From: Buffalo, NY, USA Registered: Mar 2013
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posted April 07, 2013 07:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: There are moments when I feel like I'm in love. The problem is there's no one I could be in love with...I can do anything and suddenly it comes, like a wave. It's happening to me right now. I've never been in love but I can't find a better way to describe it. I think it began when I started fantasizing about a certain actor. No, I'm not in love with him (how could I be anyway?). I don't get it. I really have no reason to feel like this.Gosh, this is so stupid. I'll probably regret posting this. Are there any transits that could trigger such absurd feelings?
I feel like that sometimes... I see some people I don't know and want to go up and hug them because I love them. I think it's my Venus conjunct MC in Capricorn. (And no I do not drink!) Tell us about your Venus. ------------------ Aries ASC Aquarius Sun Moon in Cancer in 4th house. Mercury and Saturn in mutual reception. Venus Conj. MC IP: Logged |