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Topic: Soulmate relationships that don't last
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tgem Knowflake Posts: 155 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted April 07, 2013 07:17 PM
Has anyone had a romantic relationship with a soulmate and it not last? Do the soulmates ever stop loving each other? Or will there always be that bond despite circumstances that ended the relationship?IP: Logged |
magicspells Knowflake Posts: 75 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 07, 2013 10:43 PM
Sometimes people enter your life to teach you something, a karmic lesson to learnThink about it Of course there will always be that bond, come now! :-) IP: Logged |
k e p h x i Knowflake Posts: 183 From: St. Paul, MN, USA Registered: Mar 2013
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posted April 07, 2013 10:50 PM
How is someone your soulmate in Astrology again? Can someone explain this to me, please.------------------ Rising: Virgo Sun: _____ Moon: _____ IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 2324 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 08, 2013 12:02 AM
sometimes I wonder...me and my guy have great synastry.But when I met him in person when he was going though Uranus sqaure his Venus. We hit it off! But now that he is going though it again, he is wanting more and more space. I read the interpretation for Uranus square Venus. And I can't help but freak out when I read "Short lived relationships can easily begin now, but understand it may end just as suddenly as soon as the transit ends." and it's almost ending for him...AND I am really starting to not see us go anywhere. :'( Sometimes I get hopeful cause we talked to each other online before this happened. Who knows if that really counts though. But if I have to move on, I will try to make sure I don't get connected to a guy going though this transit. IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 936 From: walking with my head in the clouds! Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 08, 2013 12:05 AM
Soulmates come and go, the only permanence is that you knew them in a past life and you'll know them in future lives, no matter who they are to you. IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 2324 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 08, 2013 12:34 AM
it will be done squaring his venus by april 28th by then I should know.I haven't been blowing up at him or anything, I do feel neglected and misunderstood. It's been an emotional hell for me lately. Been keeping my feelings of neglect to myself. But right now I am feeling like a victim of someone's Uranus square venus transit. I never want this to happen to me ever again. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 4431 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 08, 2013 09:30 AM
I thought I had a soulmate for years, and he thought I was his soulmate.In synastry we have: -sun trine sun (my sun formed a Grand Trine with his sun and moon) -moon sextile moon -Mercury trine Mercury exact -Venus sextile Venus..his Venus trine my Mars -Mars trine Mars -His Saturn trine my Venus-Neptune and a bunch of other stuff. But our composite didn't look as good. If I get time, I will check out the composite and let you know what I think was the culprit. *edited IP: Logged |
Little Doe Knowflake Posts: 201 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 08, 2013 09:46 AM
Faith:That is such an awesome store and a cute conversation. I think he meant it, he will love you forever, even if your relationship changes. Thatīs how it sounds to me. I have the same experience with my ex who I was married to for 8 years. We divorced five years ago, and on bad terms, too, but recently he called me up, (drunk call, lol) and said heīll always care for me. He went on to say what a great person I was, and even if things never were good between us, he said that he "knows my heart", and therefore will always care for me. He also said meny times that he wishes to meet me when he gets old, so that I can take care of him. Well, Ireally hope that DOESN`t happen, but I wouldnīt be surprised if someho we were re-connected. Maybe in the next life time. Who knows.. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 4431 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 08, 2013 11:37 AM
^ Is he a Virgo, too? Thanks for liking my story. edit IP: Logged |
Little Doe Knowflake Posts: 201 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 08, 2013 03:54 PM
Wow, that sounds really intense.My story isnīt quite as intense actually, and my ex was a leo. We will always have a bond, hard to explain.. but I never felt like he was me and I was him, nor did he. Sound like you two felt like you were REALLY connected, almost like a twin flame kinda thing. IP: Logged |
starfairy Knowflake Posts: 812 From: Registered: Jul 2010
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posted April 08, 2013 04:34 PM
My ex and I were together for 4 years. HIm and I have a very strong bond, and he has told me, since the beginning, that we are soul mates.My Venus conjunct his VEnus My Venus on his SN My Venus square his Saturn/Pluto/mars Mars trine Mars His Sun conj my Sun/Moon midpoint Venus square Pluto double whammy His Venus conj my Vertex My Vertex conj his NN Among other contacts.. We couldn't be together because of religious differences (His saturn sq my Venus). I always have gotten over men very quickly in the past, but it has been very difficult getting over him. I still think about him all the time. I don't think I"ll ever stop have feelings for me, and it's the same for him (he has so much fixed energy, so it's hard for him to let go as it is). IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 4431 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 08, 2013 05:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by Little Doe: Wow, that sounds really intense.My story isnīt quite as intense actually, and my ex was a leo. We will always have a bond, hard to explain.. but I never felt like he was me and I was him, nor did he. Sound like you two felt like you were REALLY connected, almost like a twin flame kinda thing.
I'm a Cap married to a Leo now. Classic match. I don't know much about twin flames, I have never read about them. I guess it's a sensitive topic for me. I never got any real closure, I just had to rationalize everything away and block it out of my mind. Life goes on... IP: Logged |
Snorkel Knowflake Posts: 184 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted April 08, 2013 06:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by tgem: Has anyone had a romantic relationship with a soulmate and it not last? Do the soulmates ever stop loving each other? Or will there always be that bond despite circumstances that ended the relationship?
I have. Actually he's my twinsoul, not just my soulmate, even though all his metaphysically-inclined friends dislike me and keep trying to demote me to "soulmate" status like they have a say over anything LMAO. I know better, and I'm fairly confident even he knows better, even though he'd prefer to have a someone else as a twinsoul because he has a list of requirements in his own head about what would make an "acceptable" twinsoul, in typical Virgo Sun, Leo Venus fashion. I came in the "wrong" body, with the "wrong" personality... But yeah, we're apart now, and I honestly think that at the end of the day, it's because we just aren't ready for each other yet; we haven't grown to the point we need to be at as individuals in order to really deal with one another long-term in a healthy way. I don't really think it was a case of us having been brought together in order to "teach" each other anything and then move on, because most of our Saturn synastry aspects, are positive, and there's a lot of positive Saturn aspects in the composite too that indicate more of a consistency with each other and commitment to each other on some level as opposed to "temporary hardship/lesson/teacher" sort of thing. Which is why we go through periods where we avoid or leave the other, but always gravitate back to one another again. There's a lot of Uranus in the composite and synastry, also. But the love is there, and it's real (Sun-Venus, Moon-Venus stuff in the synastry and composite, along with Vertex activity, North Node activity...). Will we ever get together and stay together for good, in a real and concrete way? Depends on whether or not we both get out respective acts, together. Our composite is riddled with squares though, so we do have the odds stacked somewhat against us. IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 2324 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 08, 2013 07:15 PM
Hey Snorkel, about the friends... Me and my guy's friends do not like us together. They talk smack about our bond behind our back. My guy has no idea, as far as I know. And I'm afraid to say anything cause his friends mean the world to him. And I know if we confronted them, they would deny it. IP: Logged |
Snorkel Knowflake Posts: 184 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted April 08, 2013 09:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by Stawr: Hey Snorkel, about the friends... Me and my guy's friends do not like us together. They talk smack about our bond behind our back. My guy has no idea, as far as I know. And I'm afraid to say anything cause his friends mean the world to him. And I know if we confronted them, they would deny it.
Don't say anything...all they'll do is try to twist it around and make it look like you're the problem. If what you and he have together is solid, they won't be able to get in and screw things up anyway. That's kinda where things went wrong with me and mine - like I said, both of us have a lot of growing to do and the thing we had together was full of cracks anyway. They wouldn't have been able to get in if those cracks weren't there in the first place.
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saggimoongirl Knowflake Posts: 76 From: malaysia Registered: Aug 2012
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posted April 10, 2013 12:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: I'm a Cap married to a Leo now. Classic match.I don't know much about twin flames, I have never read about them. I guess it's a sensitive topic for me. I never got any real closure, I just had to rationalize everything away and block it out of my mind. Life goes on...
Hi Faith, sorry to know that you did not get the closure. Must be difficult ... are you still keeping in touch with him - your soulmate?
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blindpainter Knowflake Posts: 39 From: Washington USA Registered: Apr 2013
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posted April 10, 2013 02:44 PM
I know iv found my soulmate weve been together two years. That love is never going anywhere even if we ever break up which i doubt will happen i jnow we will both still love eachother and still be close friends. Theres no destroying those bonds. Even if you nvere see them again.
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saggimoongirl Knowflake Posts: 76 From: malaysia Registered: Aug 2012
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posted April 13, 2013 01:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by blindpainter: I know iv found my soulmate weve been together two years. That love is never going anywhere even if we ever break up which i doubt will happen i jnow we will both still love eachother and still be close friends. Theres no destroying those bonds. Even if you nvere see them again.
That's so sweet ! Will both of you want to be together or get married perhaps as soulmates being together are special indeed! IP: Logged |