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Topic: who/what is oblivious to jealousy?
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hannaramaa
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posted April 08, 2013 08:48 PM
  
aspects, sun signs, moon signs, mercury signs, house placements.... who would be blind to jealousy and malice from others unless pointed out?More specifically blind to their friends being jealous of them? I am. But I have Moon opp. Pluto. for some reason I still never expect other girls to be jealous of me but I've been told they are and sometimes (rarely) I have hunches. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted April 08, 2013 09:03 PM
I think it would be planets in the sign Aries and maybe in Leo, too. Aspects from Neptune might make someone oblivious to another's intentions if it aspects personal planets, sun, moon. IP: Logged |
Snorkel
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posted April 08, 2013 10:17 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I think it would be planets in the sign Aries and maybe in Leo, too. Aspects from Neptune might make someone oblivious to another's intentions if it aspects personal planets, sun, moon.
Aries? Honestly they're the most competitive and jealousy-prone out there in my experience, barring Scorpio. Every time I interact with anyone with anything in Aries there's always a point where I'm like, "When did this become a competition?" because they turn everyyyything into a game of one-upmanship. I'd say the least jealous sign is Pisces, which is usually so busy wanting to hug everybody that coveting what the next person has, doesn't even occur to them lol. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted April 08, 2013 10:22 PM
^^ It seems like Aries and Leo planets are too rapped up in themselves to notice when others are jealous. Aries can be naive. Aries can be jealous of others, but are they always aware when people are jealous of them?IP: Logged |
blindpainter
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posted April 08, 2013 11:09 PM
Aries is definatly top of the list bah i cannot get along with them.
im a leo lol the only time i get jealous is when i see people achiving their goals and making something of themselves but i am always happy for them too i just want to be able to achive my goals also. If your talking relationships libras are the least jealous people out there theyre soooooo easygoing! Genrally speaking of course ------------------
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted April 08, 2013 11:15 PM
I think Hanna is asking who is unaware of jealousy in others. Blindpainter, are you always aware when people are jealous of you? From my experience, sun Leos are sometimes oblivious to it. IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted April 08, 2013 11:18 PM
Libra moon, libra rising can be very non-jealous.IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted April 08, 2013 11:21 PM
It's because us Libras have other things to think about...IP: Logged |
CosmicKarma360
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posted April 08, 2013 11:29 PM
Maybe it's an air sign thing. Gemini isn't noted for being very jealous. Aquas aren't either, overall.I'm Aires, but with a Gem moon and Venus, and I'm really not into jealousy, and I absolutely never recognize if people are jealous of me. Not like it happens very often, but a few times I've been told someone was jealous of me, and I didn't have a clue in the world. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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posted April 09, 2013 12:55 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
^^ Leo planets are too rapped up in themselves to notice when others are jealous.
Not if you have saturn in leo among other leo placements. I think there are different form of jealousy. People who are jealous of you from a distance, who have a certain opinion of you but will never get close enough to find out if they are right or wrong. People who go out of their way to belittle you because of a superiority complex and people who are plain jealous of you but make as if they are good friends with you. I can make them out very easily. SO no am not rapped up so much in myself to be oblivious when people are jealous of me  I believe people who are oblivious of jealousy *may* have a low self esteem, low confidence. They simply wouldn't and couldn't believe that they are worthy of being jealous of. I don't really think it's about sun signs or astrological aspects. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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posted April 09, 2013 12:59 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
aspects, sun signs, moon signs, mercury signs, house placements.... who would be blind to jealousy and malice from others unless pointed out?
Have noticed people who have quite a lot of Jupiter influence in their charts are almost oblivious of malice from others. Even if you point it out to them they have the ability to make you feel bad for even thinking negative thoughts!! IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted April 09, 2013 01:05 AM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Not if you have saturn in leo among other leo placements. I think there are different form of jealousy. People who are jealous of you from a distance, who have a certain opinion of you but will never get close enough to find out if they are right or wrong. People who go out of their way to belittle you because of a superiority complex and people who are plain jealous of you but make as if they are good friends with you. I can make them out very easily. SO no am not rapped up so much in myself to be oblivious when people are jealous of me I believe people who are oblivious of jealousy *may* have a low self esteem, low confidence. They simply wouldn't and couldn't believe that they are worthy of being jealous of. I don't really think it's about sun signs or astrological aspects.
Actually, it's more Aries that can be counted on to be oblivious, and maybe only 50% Leos. Not you, of course, Jessica! You do have the Saturn influence and it's obvious because you seem more down to earth than some Leos I have encountered! You are definitely not rapped up in yourself, but, aren't you the one with many planets in house 7, including sun and Saturn? That would explain why you are not!
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Gemmy
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posted April 09, 2013 01:06 AM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Not if you have saturn in leo among other leo placements. I think there are different form of jealousy. People who are jealous of you from a distance, who have a certain opinion of you but will never get close enough to find out if they are right or wrong. People who go out of their way to belittle you because of a superiority complex and people who are plain jealous of you but make as if they are good friends with you. I can make them out very easily. SO no am not rapped up so much in myself to be oblivious when people are jealous of me I believe people who are oblivious of jealousy *may* have a low self esteem, low confidence. They simply wouldn't and couldn't believe that they are worthy of being jealous of. I don't really think it's about sun signs or astrological aspects.
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hannaramaa
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posted April 09, 2013 01:09 AM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
I believe people who are oblivious of jealousy *may* have a low self esteem, low confidence. They simply wouldn't and couldn't believe that they are worthy of being jealous of. I don't really think it's about sun signs or astrological aspects.
It could be though. What if we took a survey of all the people with personal planets square Saturn or Neptune? I asked because I am told by readers (in real life) there are jealous females around me. Part of me thinks this is just going off of common sense because girls tend to be that way with each other, but part of me is also oblivious to a lot of signs other people aren't - like jealousy, or being hit on. I have Sun, Mercury, and Venus all square Saturn and Neptune in Capricorn. I don't really understand why my friends would be my friends if they are jealous of something about me, and I also don't understand jealousy. I'm an Aries and I'm competitive but if I lose then that's on me - not the other person. I think most mature people feel this way. IP: Logged |
Gemmy
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posted April 09, 2013 01:15 AM
I'm Saturn dominant and I never thought the reason someone didn't like me was out of jealousy.But I'm gaining confidence and I'm realizing that ugliness in people.I hate it,it really bothers me.I'm shy and I barely speak,so why?  IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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posted April 09, 2013 05:18 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
It could be though. What if we took a survey of all the people with personal planets square Saturn or Neptune? I asked because I am told by readers (in real life) there are jealous females around me. Part of me thinks this is just going off of common sense because girls tend to be that way with each other, but part of me is also oblivious to a lot of signs other people aren't - like jealousy, or being hit on. I have Sun, Mercury, and Venus all square Saturn and Neptune in Capricorn. I don't really understand why my friends would be my friends if they are jealous of something about me, and I also don't understand jealousy. I'm an Aries and I'm competitive but if I lose then that's on me - not the other person. I think most mature people feel this way.
People with personal planets square to saturn could well be the ones who are jealous of others, of traits they see in other people that they want to have I'm not saying you are, mind you. Normally, Saturn limits/restricts the expression of planets he is associated with.I have only saturn conjunctions with my leo stellium and 1 square with Uranus.
If I've understood you correctly you aren't oblivious of jealousy as such but you don't understandwhy would a person still be friends with you if he/she is jealous of you or why would someone be jealous of you if you've come out first or the best, say, in a competition. Am I correct?
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Jessica2407
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posted April 09, 2013 05:20 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Jessica2407:
[b] Not if you have saturn in leo among other leo placements. I think there are different form of jealousy. People who are jealous of you from a distance, who have a certain opinion of you but will never get close enough to find out if they are right or wrong. People who go out of their way to belittle you because of a superiority complex and people who are plain jealous of you but make as if they are good friends with you. I can make them out very easily. SO no am not rapped up so much in myself to be oblivious when people are jealous of me I believe people who are oblivious of jealousy *may* have a low self esteem, low confidence. They simply wouldn't and couldn't believe that they are worthy of being jealous of. I don't really think it's about sun signs or astrological aspects.
Actually, it's more Aries that can be counted on to be oblivious, and maybe only 50% Leos. Not you, of course, Jessica! You do have the Saturn influence and it's obvious because you seem more down to earth than some Leos I have encountered! You are definitely not rapped up in yourself, but, aren't you the one with many planets in house 7, including sun and Saturn? That would explain why you are not! [/B][/QUOTE]oh thank you starlight
Down to earth is all thanks to my cappy asc and saturn all over my Leo personal planets  And yes all in da 7th house IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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posted April 09, 2013 05:35 AM
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Originally posted by Gemmy:
I'm Saturn dominant and I never thought the reason someone didn't like me was out of jealousy.But I'm gaining confidence and I'm realizing that ugliness in people.I hate it,it really bothers me.I'm shy and I barely speak,so why?
I would say, deep down, they feel unsure of themselves in the areas that you probably excel at which you aren't even aware of or that you've taken for granted.
Jealousy is the green eye monster that feeds on your insecurities that if are faced head on won't become such an issue so as to harbor unfounded grudges towards other people.As much as one is responsible for his/her success, one is also responsible for his/her shortcomings/failures/pitfalls in life.
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Londongirl8
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posted April 09, 2013 11:19 AM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:I believe people who are oblivious of jealousy *may* have a low self esteem, low confidence. They simply wouldn't and couldn't believe that they are worthy of being jealous of. I don't really think it's about sun signs or astrological aspects. [/B]
I totally DISagree! I'm Aquarius and were said to be the least jealous of all the signs. I think generally speaking it's because we know our self worth and and are not the least bit insecure. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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posted April 09, 2013 11:34 AM
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Originally posted by Londongirl8:
I totally DISagree! I'm Aquarius and were said to be the least jealous of all the signs. I think generally speaking it's because we know our self worth and and are not the least bit insecure.
Your post is confusing. Which part are you totally disagreeing with exactly??? IP: Logged |
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