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Topic: How would you describe such a Guy?
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sillyme
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posted April 11, 2013 11:47 PM
  
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Just by how you described your relationship, willing to overlook what the other does that irritates you. Blame Neptune but I think it's a recipe for success!
Wow what a quick reply! yeah....blame Neptune...my Neptune conjunct his ASC and his Neptune trine mine...there is some more Neptune in synastry too....along with lot of moon-venus connections....I think that's why... IP: Logged |
Snorkel
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posted April 11, 2013 11:55 PM
Verbal bullying sounds more like Mercury-Mars to me (in hard aspect). In general Mercury-Pluto means powerful communication and mental insights. Very direct and doesn't mince words, a straight-shooter and doesn't B.S. around and sees right through attempts to snow or manipulate - which can easily be misinterpreted by some. If you want someone to beat around the bush and timidly give you an opinion - if you want a pushover that'll easily agree with you, you're barking up the wrong tree with a Mercury-Pluto person lmao.Whatever chutzpah he's got, he's probably got from that aspect, based off the other placements you've listed he seems pretty tame and unassuming. IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted April 12, 2013 12:13 AM
My experience of Mars in Cancer has not been positive. Yes, they have a gentle and caring side, but their neediness wears me out. Anyone who needs constant reassurance will find themselves abandoned by the roadside. IP: Logged |
Snorkel
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posted April 12, 2013 12:35 AM
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Originally posted by Nine:
My experience of Mars in Cancer has not been positive. Yes, they have a gentle and caring side, but their neediness wears me out. Anyone who needs constant reassurance will find themselves abandoned by the roadside.
I think it's a matter of general compatibility. If your chart is mostly air or strongly Aquarian or Uranian then yeah I can see how Mars in Cancer would nottttt be for you.
I'm a Mars in Cancer and I freely admit I can be clingy as hell, but I'm only that way when my partner is neglectful and/or untrustworthy. A few guys have run for the hills because of it but my twinsoul doesn't really have a problem with it; he can handle it and has the innate ability to give me what I need - his moon trines my mars anyway along with a lot of other really good synastry, lots of conjunctions so in general we're kinda similar and well-matched to each other. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted April 12, 2013 12:35 AM
Virgo Sun
Taurus MoonI know two people like this, granted they are women but still. One is a habitual liar and sort of a flake who's very sexually active and the other is my boss. Since I know my boss better, I'll describe her and you can see if that sounds like your guy. She is VERY easy going on the surface and doesn't like confrontation, she has a temper but it doesn't last long and she's always there to help. She lead kind of a wild life until she was about 21/22, and this is one of the two extremes I see in Virgos. They're either very outgoing and Leonine or they're anxiety ridden and critical of others. I've never seen a Virgo lose their s.it like yelling, screaming, crying but I'm sure that side is there (they're probably just good at hiding it like their polar opposite Pisces.) The Taurus moon will help ground that though, assuming it's positively aspected as well. Mars in Cancer would equate to passive aggressiveness when angry, crying when they're angry even though they're not sad but that's just their physical reaction to stress, and sensitive. Having Taurus and Cancer as part of your personal planets I would think this person likes someone who is social but not over the top, funny, nurturing, and socially graceful. I'm thinking a Libra would be a good match for them but the Libra may be too fussy for a Virgo's liking. Virgos are really low maintenance it seems. I like them! Except for my male Virgo boss....he was passive and nobody can figure out his logic for hiring people. Both my bosses are Virgos and work as hotel managers - go figure! IP: Logged |
sillyme
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posted April 12, 2013 01:59 AM
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Originally posted by Snorkel:
Verbal bullying sounds more like Mercury-Mars to me (in hard aspect). In general Mercury-Pluto means powerful communication and mental insights. Very direct and doesn't mince words, a straight-shooter and doesn't B.S. around and sees right through attempts to snow or manipulate - which can easily be misinterpreted by some. If you want someone to beat around the bush and timidly give you an opinion - if you want a pushover that'll easily agree with you, you're barking up the wrong tree with a Mercury-Pluto person lmao.Whatever chutzpah he's got, he's probably got from that aspect, based off the other placements you've listed he seems pretty tame and unassuming.
Yes....whatever you said is correct...its not exactly verbal bullying...but since the mercury-pluto conjunction squares his ASC people tend to misunderstand what he's saying...yes he is very direct and very quick...not a push over at all... yeah...the chutzpah is from this aspect...its amazing how a single aspect can be so powerful in making your personality...ofcourse, pluto is pluto...and merc is also strong here being the DSC ruler and in its own sign virgo (exalted too) He has mars quintile mercury and pluto. IP: Logged |
sillyme
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posted April 12, 2013 02:25 AM
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Originally posted by Nine:
My experience of Mars in Cancer has not been positive. Yes, they have a gentle and caring side, but their neediness wears me out. Anyone who needs constant reassurance will find themselves abandoned by the roadside.
I guess it also depends on your own mars (for females)....if your mars is in a fire/air sign ...you could get tired of a guy whose got his mars in earth/water...but it would take some time to realize this...especially if that guy has his asc or something on your mars...and you 'thought' he has the kind of masculinity you crave...but turns out its not like that.IP: Logged |
sillyme
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posted April 12, 2013 02:27 AM
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Originally posted by Snorkel:
I'm a Mars in Cancer and I freely admit I can be clingy as hell, but I'm only that way when my partner is neglectful and/or untrustworthy.
I'm mars in cancer too !  ...but in the 12th...ugh IP: Logged |
sillyme
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posted April 12, 2013 02:40 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Virgo Sun
Taurus Moon VERY easy going on the surface and doesn't like confrontation, and she's always there to help.They're either very outgoing and Leonine or they're anxiety ridden and critical of others. I've never seen a Virgo lose their s.it like yelling, screaming, crying but I'm sure that side is there(they're probably just good at hiding it like their polar opposite Pisces.) The Taurus moon will help ground that though, assuming it's positively aspected as well. Mars in Cancer would equate to passive aggressiveness when angry, and sensitive. Having Taurus and Cancer as part of your personal planets I would think this person likes someone who is social but not over the top, funny, nurturing, and socially graceful. I'm thinking a Libra would be a good match for them but the Libra may be too fussy for a Virgo's liking. Virgos are really low maintenance it seems.
I agree with these points...He has Venus in libra and libra mc !! IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted April 12, 2013 03:48 AM
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Originally posted by sillyme:
I agree with these points...He has Venus in libra and libra mc !!
How's his Taurus moon aspected? Taurus, the sign, has too much of a mouth for Libra from what I've seen. IP: Logged |
sillyme
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posted April 12, 2013 04:02 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
How's his Taurus moon aspected? Taurus, the sign, has too much of a mouth for Libra from what I've seen.
His Taurus moon is exactly quincunx his venus....also sextile mars and trine Saturn and Jupiter.....
If you wanna include other aspects, it is also sesquiquadrate mercury,pluto,ascendant and quindecile Neptune. IP: Logged |
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