posted April 12, 2013 05:13 PM            

I Got a text this morning from my friend who told me she saw this guy i like in Mcdonalds with a girl and i litterally thought i was going to faint within 10 minutes i deleted his number (when i delete peoples numbers i never talk to them EVER again) I was like "So he's clearly married to her and he never told me ? why would he do this ? Why come back into my life just to make me miserable? " I screamed and cried to my sister told her im becoming a nun and i hate everyone i deleted my facebook and stayed up all night worrying . The next morning I rang my friend and she told me she was only kidding !!!!!!!!

Everytime he doesnt text me im like he has another girlfriend . Everytime he likes a picture on facebook i consider ending the whole relationship . And to me it seems perfectly rational and everyone else thinks im crazy and over reacting and i just dont see why. When im on the phone screaming about all the possible reasons why he hasnt called me and how much i hate him ....he calls

I usually do see sense and surprisingly it only takes a few minutes for me too relax because there comes a point where my head is full of soo many thoughts that i just stop caring (but thats Cos ive an aquarius moon)

Do you know anyone like this ? And what aspects do they have?

Oh and When im over reacting or being irrational i tend to think im being completely rational and everyone else is out to get me or secretly hates me . When i have these little tantrums i go start telling myself im my own bestfriend and im alone in the world because everyone just wants to get at me . I start considering all sorts of crazy things like moving schools because he liked a picture of a girl everyone says looks like me . When i lost my phone I convinced Myself someone stole it and then i found it under my pillow . Everyone thinks i go crazy and they find it hilarious (Neptune conjunct Jupiter) I vent my felings so agressively that everyone thinks ive lost all sense .

I blame it on my moon in the 1st but it could be my Neptune conjunct it im not sure ?

posted April 13, 2013 12:24 AM            

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Originally posted by Snorkel:
That's called "Premenstrual Syndrome" round these here parts...

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posted April 13, 2013 09:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Kalilak:
Yeah it's probably the Moon-Neptune conjunction. Neptune can be paranoid about things..always suspecting things going on behind its back and conj moon/security..you're easily threatened. In the 1st house..I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say that you might have a bit of an ego thing going on where you feel as if you are the center of your lover's life, and then Neptune comes in and makes you paranoid that he's doing stuff to YOU. But maybe you're also delusional(Neptune)...give the guy a break! If you keep up this kind of behavior, then you're gonna lose him. Nobody wants to deal with that kind of crazy...you have to figure out a way to trust. If there's no trust, then there's simply no relationship. Sorry if any of that sounded harsh...I haven't had a good day and I can't do too much sugar-coating right now.

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I think this is right. The funny thing is he doesnt know i have all these assumptions and over reactions he probably thinks im madly in love with him . I think Im very sensitive and take everything to heart and No my sun is in Taurus and My moon is in aquarius .. Jupiter , Uranus and Neptune all conjunct to my moon.

posted April 13, 2013 05:11 PM            

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Originally posted by lovehate122:
I think this is right. The funny thing is he doesnt know i have all these assumptions and over reactions he probably thinks im madly in love with him . I think Im very sensitive and take everything to heart and No my sun is in Taurus and My moon is in aquarius .. Jupiter , Uranus and Neptune all conjunct to my moon.

Right now i Just hate him want nothing to do with him never talk to me again i would delete and block him again but i can't or he'll start to understand me.

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posted April 13, 2013 05:45 PM            

Your first reaction is emotional, especially if the Moon is in close proximity (within ten degrees) of the Ascendant degree. You need emotional stimulation, movement, and freedom to express yourself in order to feel happy and fulfilled.

Your moods are very changeable, and this can be quite obvious to others. Because of your emotional sensitivity, you might often take things too personally, and react too quickly.

Developing an awareness that others' emotions are just as important, even if they are not as overt and immediate as yours, will be important."

We basically wear our heart on our sleeve, like someone above me said.

posted April 14, 2013 04:18 PM            

I also used to freak out if the guy I like even looks at another girl. I felt like my world crumbled. I planned to quit school, and so on.. The next day I was fine..

I show signd of BPD, but I´m mostly aspergers, I think.

Anyway, would you agree that moon in 1st is kind of like moon in cancer?

Or would you say it´s more like moon in aries?

I personally feel like it´s both. It´s very emotional (cancer) but in an impatient, explosive way (aries).

posted April 14, 2013 04:21 PM            

Moon in first house = overreacting = not necessarily.

posted April 14, 2013 04:30 PM            

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Originally posted by neilthecellist:
Virgo mars = low self esteem. Taurus

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Oh?

posted April 15, 2013 12:56 AM            

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Originally posted by k e p h x i:
Oh?

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To elaborate, I once knew two employees, both working for different companies. One worked directly for me and wasn't a client. The other subject, she worked for a different company and met me through an astrology party.

Both subjects have a monumental tendency to assume the worst about everything. While they strive for detail, their myopic view on detail deters them from seeing the big picture. I remember a vivid example in which my employee's assistant called out sick. My employee jumped almost AUTOMATICALLY to the assumption that everything was going to h*ll, that no work would be done, it was basically the end of the world for her. Turns out there wasn't much work to be done that day, so everything worked out in the end, AND the assistant called back saying her child was in critical condition (something to do with a car collision). It was only THEN that my employee evoked some sympathy for the employee. It also made her feel bad for herself. She ALWAYS felt bad for herself.

The other subject was an employee for a different company. On the times we met for lessons, she was always shy with me. Always, no matter how inviting I tried to make my surroundings and my personality. She disliked the notion of not being perfect all the time. It bugged her. Like you, if her husband didn't text her back, within the hour, she would freak out and our lesson would be suspended... Just because of one little detail. Mars and Venus conjunct were in her first house (Mars was 00 degrees so it kinda sat between Leo and Virgo).

posted April 15, 2013 01:38 AM            

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Originally posted by neilthecellist:
To elaborate, I once knew two employees, both working for different companies. One worked directly for me and wasn't a client. The other subject, she worked for a different company and met me through an astrology party.

Both subjects have a monumental tendency to assume the worst about everything. While they strive for detail, their myopic view on detail deters them from seeing the big picture. I remember a vivid example in which my employee's assistant called out sick. My employee jumped almost AUTOMATICALLY to the assumption that everything was going to h*ll, that no work would be done, it was basically the end of the world for her. Turns out there wasn't much work to be done that day, so everything worked out in the end, AND the assistant called back saying her child was in critical condition (something to do with a car collision). It was only THEN that my employee evoked some sympathy for the employee. It also made her feel bad for herself. She ALWAYS felt bad for herself.

The other subject was an employee for a different company. On the times we met for lessons, she was always shy with me. Always, no matter how inviting I tried to make my surroundings and my personality. She disliked the notion of not being perfect all the time. It bugged her. Like you, if her husband didn't text her back, within the hour, she would freak out and our lesson would be suspended... Just because of one little detail. Mars and Venus conjunct were in her first house (Mars was 00 degrees so it kinda sat between Leo and Virgo).

So my goto advice for you would be what I said before, take a chill pill. Big picture, think of what your square signs to your ascendant would do (square to virgo = sagittarius and gemini). What would a Sagittarius and Gemini do? Mentally allocate or know that in the end EVERYTHING will be okay. Look at the big picture, not the small one.

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Wait, what? Why do I need to take a chill pill? Is this just advice (for the future), or?

Well, I think it helps an individual more if their Moon is in Virgo along with their Virgo Rising too, instead of it being worse. One is going to say it/communicate, but the other one is going to do it.

You're not wrong about Virgo Risers being a perfectionist. You're def. not wrong about us being worried sick about the smallest thing(s). But, we all have our differences and other influences.

Sometimes I nag a whole lot, but I just do it for... because. But, I'm not going to be super hung over it. I'm not going to complain about something and then not do anything about it, I mean like, in those types of situations.

If there was a chill pill I would prolly take it tho. I mean, my Moon in the 1st House + my Virgo Rising can blow things way out of proportion.

I talk about everything an individual has done, did, and will do if and when I'm mad at them. Then when I'm done, I'll be like, "Did I lie? NO! Exactly. See!"

posted April 15, 2013 10:39 AM            

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Originally posted by cappy1277:
Taking a chill pill now or later is the best sound advice someone can give a 1st house moon person. Emotionalism tends to take away from the big picture as what was stated before. Logic gets thrown out the window and then that's when the trouble starts. I have a 1st house moon also but luckily it's in Gemini so rational thought is part of my emotional process. If I had a Taurus moon, I'm sure I would be a mess.

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I have a Virgo Moon. How messy is that? I don't think it's that messy, is it? :/

posted April 15, 2013 12:32 PM            

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Originally posted by k e p h x i:
Wait, what? Why do I need to take a chill pill? Is this just advice (for the future), or?

Well, I think it helps an individual more if their Moon is in Virgo along with their Virgo Rising too, instead of it being worse. One is going to say it/communicate, but the other one is going to do it.

You're not wrong about Virgo Risers being a perfectionist. You're def. not wrong about us being worried sick about the smallest thing(s). But, we all have our differences and other influences.

Sometimes I nag a whole lot, but I just do it for... because. But, I'm not going to be super hung over it. I'm not going to complain about something and then not do anything about it, I mean like, in those types of situations.

If there was a chill pill I would prolly take it tho. I mean, my Moon in the 1st House + my Virgo Rising can blow things way out of proportion.

I talk about everything an individual has done, did, and will do if and when I'm mad at them. Then when I'm done, I'll be like, "Did I lie? NO! Exactly. See!"

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To answer your question, please re-read my post, and don't focus on one detail. Look at the general message of what I was trying to say. As I've said to many clients with Virgo planets in their chart, I will not "spoonfeed" answers to you. Part of subjects' development in astrology is figuring out things on your own. The answer is clearly in my post, but you've apparently not strung the big picture yet.

I will say this though:

I think you completely missed the point of my post. You're focusing on details again and have lost sight of the big picture. Also, my post wasn't directed towards you, but the OP (lovehate122).

I don't care if you think some of my points are right or wrong. Making that distinction is irrelevant, are you going through every single post in every thread and judging each point is right/wrong, good/bad? This goes back to what I said before, look at the BIG picture, the details are irrelevant until you can string everything together.

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Originally posted by k e p h x i:
I have a Virgo Moon. How messy is that? I don't think it's that messy, is it? :/

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It has been said by many great astrologers, including Noel Tyl that the greatest struggle a subject (Tyl calls them "natives") must learn is acceptance and learning to let things BE. In other words, like I have said over and over in this thread, look at the big picture, and don't judge people. What people did right or wrong isn't relevant unless there is a trend. If you have taken calculus, it's like the trend of a tangent curve, if it is generally progressing positive, but there's a hiccup (a limit), but the curve continues, then overall the curve is still positive. That one limit doesn't destroy the overall trend of the curve. You cannot allow specifics to hold you back if your quest is self improvement, which is the hallmark qualit of a Virgo. "Perfection of the individual..."

posted April 15, 2013 04:10 PM            

I just wanted to add that im planning on talking to my therapist about Borderline Personality disorder because i think the description just fits me too well . Im not saying everyone with moon in the 1st house has borderline personality disorder but its just my moon is very VERY prominent in my personality its the most intensely aspected thing in my whole chart and nt all the aspects feel very nice and to top it all off its all in the 1st house !!!!!

im just quoting but these are some of the traits i found

Always" and "Never" Statements - "Always" and "Never" Statements are declarations containing the words "always" or "never". They are commonly used but rarely true.

i do this one ALOT
Anger - People who suffer from personality disorders often feel a sense of unresolved anger and a heightened or exaggerated perception that they have been wronged, invalidated, neglected or abused.

posted April 15, 2013 04:21 PM            

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Originally posted by neilthecellist:
To answer your question, please re-read my post, and don't focus on one detail. Look at the general message of what I was trying to say. As I've said to many clients with Virgo planets in their chart, I will not "spoonfeed" answers to you. Part of subjects' development in astrology is figuring out things on your own. The answer is clearly in my post, but you've apparently not strung the big picture yet.

I will say this though:

I think you completely missed the point of my post. You're focusing on details again and have lost sight of the big picture. Also, my post wasn't directed towards you, but the OP (lovehate122).

I don't care if you think some of my points are right or wrong. Making that distinction is irrelevant, are you going through every single post in every thread and judging each point is right/wrong, good/bad? This goes back to what I said before, look at the BIG picture, the details are irrelevant until you can string everything together.

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But, I just wanted to know why Virgo Mars = Low self-esteem. I have an idea of what a Virgo is (like) and what the Mars represents. I don't understand how those mix into low self-esteem. I don't have that placement, but I was just curious. Hence, "Oh?"

I now feel like every questioned asked will be considered begging to be spoon-fed. Also, sorry, but you quoted me, so. The only way I could of known who your audience was was to actually look at the details. Although, your audience is basically us, so.

But, I guess I'm now an online example of what you said about Virgo Risers - because I am, so.

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Originally posted by neilthecellist:
It has been said by many great astrologers, including Noel Tyl that the greatest struggle a subject (Tyl calls them "natives") must learn is acceptance and learning to let things BE. In other words, like I have said over and over in this thread, look at the big picture, and don't judge people. What people did right or wrong isn't relevant unless there is a trend. If you have taken calculus, it's like the trend of a tangent curve, if it is generally progressing positive, but there's a hiccup (a limit), but the curve continues, then overall the curve is still positive. That one limit doesn't destroy the overall trend of the curve. You cannot allow specifics to hold you back if your quest is self improvement, which is the hallmark qualit of a Virgo. "Perfection of the individual..."

If there's anything a Virgo moon subject could learn, just look at your square partners, and your opposition. In other words, study Geminis, Sagittariuses, and Pisces. You can learn a lot through them.

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Mhm, okay. I'll do my best, yes. But, obvsly I'm not going to get over it just like that. We're all aware of our flaws, but we would appreciate it if people didn't point them out like, I'm just saying in general. Haha.