posted November 09, 2020 01:33 PM
We're all attracted to different things, because we all have a different attunement to the Yin-Yang polarization-balance spectrum. And it's complex, because bodies have their own innate attunement which "tends" to be more polarized on average, and Souls have their own innate attunement which "tends" to be at least a bit more mixed/blended though in most cases also polarized (and can be different than the body).
I happen to like/be attracted to women that are both rather in touch with their Feminine/Yin side, but balanced out with their Masculine/Yang side. But I like the looks to be more tipped to the Feminine (i.e. curvy, soft, long hair), but the Soul to be a bit more Yang balanced.
Probably because that is the opposite corollary to self. (Body hairy and naturally muscular--don't work at this though, and Soul quite balanced but slightly tipped to the Yin).
These preferences aren't good or bad, just natural energetic connections and attractions based on various variables all interacting. Kind of pointless arguing about it all.
Except to say, that when you truly understand what Yin, and what Yang is and isn't, then you understand by nature, Yin is the attracting and connecting force--sort of like how gravity acts. Yang by nature is expanding and differentiating (it's the part of consciousness that relates to individuality and self awareness, uniqueness).
Hence, translated to human and psychological terms, while both Yin and Yang (or a balance) can be attractive or sexy to others, it is the Yin which is the attracting principle, which is why Moon, Venus, and Neptune are the most Yin polarized Planets. Hence, people that are strongly in touch with the Yin/Feminine side (one or more of those Planets are very strong, and/or the Yin/Feminine signs), are often especially seductive and attractive to others on average. They just pull you right in. Unless they are way off the typical/norm consciousness spectrum of vibration.